I thought about it for a long time, but I couldn't find an accurate answer.
He told me that standing at the age of 3 is not a superficial marriage or career, but a mature thinking mode and an independent and deep thinking ability.
until I turned 3, I ran into a wall, shed tears, went the wrong way and loved the wrong person. It took a thousand turns to really understand this truth.
are we too used to being young? Take doctrine? . As soon as the problem appears, I want to greet a few people who have experienced it and gain a lot of experience. As soon as I was frustrated, I immediately turned to a group of close friends and gave a thousand solutions.
At that time, we were always looking forward to guiding our lives with the experience of others, always hoping to enlighten our wisdom with famous sayings and epigrams, always eager to borrow external forces and too easily relying on foreign aid.
We only lack the ability of self-awareness and self-use.
I once met a woman in a beauty salon. She was fair-skinned, with a tight waist and a well-proportioned figure. She looked about her early forties. After finishing the nursing, she put on light makeup, curled her hair and prepared to go on a date.
after a few words of conversation, I gave her a polite call? Sister? She smiled and stopped:? You have to call aunt, maybe I'm older than your mother! ?
When asked, sure enough, she has become a grandmother, and her granddaughter is half a year older than my son.
Everyone was shocked and asked her for maintenance tips.
She said that she had experienced two dangerous and serious illnesses, and then she studied Chinese medicine, insisted on yoga, and drank Chinese medicine twice a year in fixed solar terms for major conditioning. She pays attention to the subtle changes of the body and skin, analyzes the relationship between her physique and seasonal seasons, and records the influence of mentality and emotion on qi and blood skin. It takes several years to sum up dozens of therapeutic prescriptions with wonderful effects.
The women who love beauty instantly beat the blood. Some people ask for the pulse, some ask for the secret recipe, and some people can't wait to fly to Tongrentang next door.
she smiles: My method only suits me. You have to know your body, observe, analyze, try and feel before you can find the method that suits you best. Don't be superstitious about other people's secret recipes. Just like the experience of people who have experienced it, you can't get it directly. The only person who knows you best and can change you is yourself. ?
I wonder if the women present heard a deeper meaning like me.
Only by constantly summarizing and analyzing their own women can they become their own Chinese medicine practitioners? Distinguish the context, identify the focus, make up properly, exercise reasonably, maintain beauty and health, and cultivate the mind and capacity.
We have learned many secret recipes, learned many lessons from blood and tears, and drunk countless emotional chicken soup, but we still can't get a relationship and live a bad life.
just because, no one who has experienced it is completely applicable. Oranges born in Huainan are oranges, and those born in Huaibei are oranges. She's just her, never you.
as an individual, everyone has a huge background system behind him? Personality, emotion, family of origin, weakness, taboo, and pain point. Life is so heavy that no one's experience can fully guide another's life.
only those women who keep thinking, exploring and growing can become their own experienced people? Turn every loss into another kind of potential energy; Every ordeal becomes the rest of my life.
deeply experience every sweet or painful process, dissect, dry, analyze and refine, and then have the ability of logical thinking and deep thinking. After completing this transformation, your scars will eventually become armor, and the wounds you have suffered for love are your real medals.
A woman's inner strength, accumulated experience, spiritual growth, emotional maturity and rational thinking are behind a series of self-awareness, self-repair, self-improvement and self-growth.
The lessons learned from the past, the old man's words, the kind exhortations of seven aunts and eight uncles, the bitter words of relatives and friends, together with the experience and lessons of people who have experienced it, the chicken soup and chicken blood in friends' circle, and the quips of online explosions are all just external forces. With this seed born after enlightenment and introspection in my heart, it will inevitably crack, break ground and sprout and blossom at the right time.
my best friend once joked: The first time I was lovelorn, I just sat on the side of the road and cried and fed mosquitoes. If I fall in love for the second time, I will at least fly to Paris to feed the pigeons easily. When I was young, I was sad and went to a bar to drink a bottle of Budweiser. I'm sad after I'm 3. I'm going to the mall to comfort myself with a LV. ?
do you think this is just an improvement in financial resources? In fact, this is the promotion of comprehensive strength, the inner bearing and resilience, and the attitude and wisdom to face injury, frustration and suffering again.
What's the point of losing Lori's face? Throw blx away.
the greatest courage is not to get up where you fall, but to raise a level where you fall.
I received a message from a reader in the middle of the night, to the effect that my words thanked her for waking her up in her darkest moment, getting out of her confusion and being born to death.
I replied to her: You have to thank yourself.
where is the role of words and me? Any person's awareness and enlightenment all come from himself.
I never believe that those desperate people begin to cherish life after hearing a few sweet birds singing, and those who have fallen, after drinking a mouthful of inspirational chicken soup, will work hard.
the external force has never been so powerful.
there is a learning method in weiqi, which is called rewinding. After each game of chess, we should play it again, analyze where it is played well and badly, and deduce it again. Later, Liu Chuanzhi introduced the answer to Lenovo's three methodologies.
We should learn from other people's stories, and learn from our own experiences, so as to grow rapidly. Every time we are frustrated and struggling, what we are left with should not only be cheap remorse, but also be free to hate after killing one thousand enemies and losing 8.
Do you want to be the cruelest capitalist, and drain all the surplus value of the sad past, realize? Tao? , learn? Surgery? Let them become the nutrients to enrich their bones and blood.
I believe more and more that it is not a pedantic empty talk to save myself three times a day. Every day is like a new life, not a literary slogan.
it's our past self at every stage that makes us who we are today. The youthful blood that I have paid, the desperate years that I have struggled, and every gesture of leaning over and crying are all aimed at fulfilling today's powerful hands and turning my weak shoulders over. The night road I have traveled is for approaching the nearby road infinitely.
all a woman's life is unwilling to be properly placed. The years are hard, the world is dangerous, and the emotional channel is covered with reefs. No one can predict whether luck is waiting or suffering is waiting ahead.
in Sandy Lam's song, it is said: how ecstasy love is, how hurtful it is. In that case, dear, how can you be willing to let yourself suffer for nothing?
not everyone is automatic when they reach 3? Stand? , already at forty? Not confused? . Look around, there are too many women who haven't lived to understand their age.
in the past, you were afraid that the speed of making money could not keep up with the speed of parents getting old and children growing up.
Now, have you ever asked yourself:
Can your inner growth keep up with the pace of physical aging?
is your spiritual gain worth the loss of your love?
does your broad field of vision surpass the troubles of daily necessities?
has your growth in tolerance and knowledge resisted the erosion of fireworks?
years will only pass by, and we won't surprise anyone out of thin air. You shouldn't suffer in vain, let alone die in vain. Woody? Allen said: I used to be white-haired, but now I am in my prime. Life was mean and deceitful, which once made you white-haired, but today's elegance is coming from the past.
Women's growth is not at the bar mitzvah at the age of 18, at the marriage hall where vows are read, at the watershed of motherhood, or at the boundary where Lori becomes a royal elder sister.
Instead, those moments when you look back on your path, you can clearly see that you are stepping forward step by step, becoming stronger and richer.
That thorn has become the sword in your hand, and since then, it has been able to subdue the demon.
In the Four Disciplines of Leaving Fan, it is written: In the past, such as death yesterday; In the future, such as today's birth.
you should have the courage to make yourself new every day. You should have the ability to open your eyes every day and you will see yourself a step further than yesterday.
in this world, no one is anyone's medicine.
when we finally become brave, flexible, determined and powerful women, dare to laugh at each other with wrinkles? Time is a butcher knife? , also dare to waist from black? Is time a pig feed? .
self-improvement, self-improvement and self-healing are the eternal kings. After thirty, you don't have to take anyone's experience to guide your life.
you've been there yourself.
The tears you shed should be a river crossing you.
what you have suffered should illuminate your future path.
at this time, pain can become wealth, and aging can be regarded as growth.
Time has really never spared us. And we can't live up to the years.
Every step you take is your own Wan Li road.