1. You must not have the intention of harming others, and you must have the intention of guarding against others. Make up a few sentences with these principles

As the ancient saying "Book of Changes" states, a house that accumulates good deeds will always be happy. A house that accumulates bad deeds will always be in trouble. A good heart brings good fortune, and a good heart brings good fortune. One is destiny, the other is luck, the third is feng shui, and the fourth is accumulation of yin virtue. It can be seen how important a person's moral character is. Ordinary people say that when you spit on your face, you dry it. Some people say that good people are bullied by others, and good horses are ridden by good people. This is just a phenomenon. In fact, when things really come, what kind of mentality we should use to face them is the key.

The Chinese believe in the cycle of cause and effect, and those who harm others will receive retribution. This is also true for what you sow and you will reap what you sow. But society itself is complex, and we need to know how to protect ourselves from harm. Just because you don't harm others doesn't mean that others won't harm you. From the perspective of Buddhism, this is caused by karma, that is, we may be repaying the sins we have committed before, but we can change some by learning Buddhism and doing more good deeds, and we can also change our own mentality. Any karma disaster will come. At that time, we had the capacity to accept the situation and learned to be tolerant and accepting of everything. 2. You must be on guard against others

You must not have the intention of harming others, and you must be on guard against others. The reason for guarding against others is that people are separated from each other in the belly. Don’t believe in any high-sounding reasons, even if they are Those who trust people should also be more careful. Image point: There are multiple layers of protective shields on you. From the inside to the outside, the first layer is to guard against others, and the second layer is to trust. When you see people and things, you must first see through them. When it comes to the human heart, there is no harm in being on guard (but don’t let others notice it), and then you have to judge whether you trust or not through your own experience. The society is very complicated

Don’t have the intention of harming others, and be on guard. Human heart is indispensable. This society is very complicated, so we still have to be careful, don't trust others easily, and don't give your sincerity easily, otherwise you will be hurt.

Beware of acquaintances and friends, because when facing strangers, people will naturally be on guard. When facing acquaintances, the guard in the heart gradually relaxes, giving others an opportunity. 3. The Chinese have two sayings: 1. Be on guard against others; 2. Treat others with sincerity.

There is no contradiction. Their actual meanings are different. You must be on guard against others. You must be as wise as you are foolish; do not show off; do not do things in public that can easily be caught; do not pull out the prong when someone steals a donkey; be assertive and do not listen to rumors; develop more of your own power ( secretly). And treating people with sincerity allows us to be sincere and frank in our interactions with others.

Those who are honest will always suffer small losses and take advantage of big things; those who deceive and swindle take advantage of small things and suffer big losses

You must not be wary of others. The distance between people must be grasped. What are the good things to say and what should not be said? Who can be trusted and who cannot be trusted? You have to make a clear distinction. As long as the boundaries are well drawn, there is less chance of being deceived.

Integrity is the foundation of being a human being. After all, people are in the minority, don’t be greedy for small profits and have a long-term view