-feeling after reading Fu Lei's letter

Everyone has biological parents, and most of them have experienced their love and teaching. When I read this letter from home, I felt a different kind of teaching, not the teacher's teaching, not the elder's persuasion, but the parents' concern for their children, which is different from my parents' concern, but it does not lose the feeling of being carefully cared for. I seem to have found another kind of parental love, which most children can't understand. This may be the reason why I loved her for ten years. It's a letter from home, like a precious heart-to-heart, which brings us closer. I feel, listen and remember with my heart like a good boy. Father Fu Lei is a wise, knowledgeable and upright scholar. When I was young, I was even a little violent and full of personality. Mother Zhu Meifu is an oriental woman with oriental cultural accomplishment and has been baptized by western culture. She is dignified, virtuous and kind.

His father, Fu Lei, dabbled in a wide range, made profound research on literature, music, painting and both at home and abroad, and his personal cultural accomplishment was extremely high. The object of his training is to receive a good family education from an early age and finally grow into Fu Cong, the son of an international master. He deeply understands that art, even like piano playing, needs strict technical factors, but it is by no means a "craft", but a manifestation of wholehearted and complete personality. He educated his son and said, "I always think that the most important thing is' people', and we should cultivate a' person' as much as possible. Before becoming an artist, we must learn to be human, otherwise that kind of family will not make much contribution to mankind. " A person who is purely devoted to art has nothing but art and personal personality. The so-called "person" is concrete and subtle in Fu Lei's mind, not just a wish, but a slogan. From loyalty and dedication to the world, to strictness in one's own career, to filial piety to parents, to understanding of his wife, to tolerance to friends, even the handling of a piece of music, communication with friends, and even the words and manners of his son, all warn readers that "hands should be upright and people should stand up straight".

In that sinister era, when personal safety was not guaranteed, the mother took care of her distant son and grandson. She restrained her inner fears and pains and gave her strong, peaceful and meticulous care to her relatives who were wandering in foreign countries. A sweater knitted for her grandson is as heavy as a mountain, but she is uneasy about the "gift book". In order to let her son feel the warmth of family in a foreign country, she meticulously wrote down the cooking program for fear of missing a detail. She loved her husband and son and devoted her life to this family. However, the trampling and insult to her personal dignity made her unbearable any longer. The husband and wife merged their lives and moved towards eternity, perhaps more favoritism, which was also an ending. However, this end has never been separated from the couple.

As role models of China people, the couple spent their whole lives cultivating their two sons. The eldest son Fu Cong became the famous piano master, and the youngest son Fu Min became a special English teacher. They taught their son to be a "person" first and then a "home". At the end of their lives, it ends with the word "people". All good memories don't want to humiliate themselves, and I don't want to let so many unpleasant things in my life make me unbearable. They would rather abandon themselves and get a kind of relief to complete the interpretation of people. Their death shocked me. I no longer feel pain for them as I did when I was young. I just want them to rest in peace for half a century.

It is their strict family education that has cultivated world-class masters of art, just as a pair of Fu Lei, friends of Lou Shi, "disapprove" of their son Fu Cong's strict and meticulous family education. However, it is this strict family education that has created a beautiful life for him and left a mirror for thousands of parents in Qian Qian. Let's see what we gave the children. How should we express ourselves for children?