1. Confucius said: "Gong, generosity, trust, sensitivity, and benefit. Being respectful means not insulting, being lenient means winning people, being trustworthy means letting people do what they want, being sensitive means being successful, and being merciful means being able to win over others."

2. Confucius said: "If one does not uphold virtue and does not believe deeply, how can one live or die?"

3. Confucius said: "The purpose of etiquette is Harmony is the most precious thing. "

4. Confucius said: "The ancients said: "If you don't speak out, you will not be ashamed." ()

5. Confucius said: "A gentleman is reserved and does not fight. , group but not party."

6. Confucius said: "A gentleman takes righteousness as a pledge and practices it as a courtesy. >7. Confucius said: "Be respectful in your place of residence, be respectful in your work, and be loyal to others."

8. Confucius said: "Those who are virtuous must cultivate their words, and those who are eloquent do not need to cultivate their virtues."

9. Confucius said: "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you."

10. Confucius said: "A gentleman is magnanimous, but a villain is always worried."

< p>11. Confucius said: "A gentleman is not in competition with others, and a villain is not in competition with others."

12. Confucius said: "The benevolent do not worry, the knowledgeable do not be confused, the brave do not fear."

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13. Confucius said: "As long as one aspires to be benevolent, there is no evil." Brothers,"

15. Confucius said: "Gentlemen are harmonious but different; villains are the same but not harmonious."

16. Confucius said: "Don't express your anger, don't make mistakes. ”

17. Confucius said: “A gentleman has nine thoughts: looking for wisdom, listening for intelligence, looking for warmth, looking for respect, speaking for loyalty, acting for respect, thinking for doubts, and thinking with anger. See the meaning of thinking. ”

Confucius said: “If you restrain yourself and return to rites, how can the world be benevolent?”

19. Confucius said: "A gentleman has three warnings: when he is young, his blood energy is not yet stable, and the warning lies in his appearance; when he is strong, his blood energy is strong, and his warning lies in fighting; when he is old, his blood energy has declined, and his warning lies in fighting. ”

20. Confucius said: “Hardness, perseverance, wood, and restraint are close to benevolence.”

21. Confucius said: “If you want to establish yourself, you must establish others. Master."

22. Confucius said: "A gentleman is knowledgeable in literature, and he can make an appointment with you."

23. Confucius said: "You can be with me. If you talk to someone without talking to them, you will miss them; if you talk to them if you cannot talk to them, you will miss words."

24. Confucius said: "To make friends, talk to them. Have faith."

25. Confucius said: "Being respectful but rude will lead to fatigue, being cautious but rude will lead to chaos, being brave but rude will lead to chaos. "

26. The Master said: "If you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand up."

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