One of Quan Hongchan’s revelations

Value is the essence of interpersonal relationships

Yes, the essence of interpersonal relationships is value. How much value you have will determine How many people interact with you and the size of your value determine the depth of people's interactions with you.

Quan Hongchan comes from a poor family. Before she won the championship and became famous, her relatives shunned her like the plague. She didn’t want to hear chickens and dogs, and she never interacted with her until she died. Why? Because your value is zero, or even negative, why is it a negative value? When you reach out to relatives and ask them to borrow money, your value is negative. Therefore, no relatives interact with her family.

After winning the championship, many relatives suddenly came to the family. Many of them were relatives that Quan Hongchan’s mother had never seen before. Why? Because now you are the world champion and famous, and you will have money in the future. Being your relative will only make money, not loss. Moreover, even if you can’t get involved financially, at least I tell people that Quan Hongchan is my relative. My daughter has a bright face and dignity. Yes, glory is also a value.

When you are poor in the busy city, no one cares about you, but when you are rich in the mountains, you have distant relatives. Interpersonal relationships are real and have never changed since ancient times.

When we usually make friends, it is actually realistic. You must be able to provide value to others. Either you have money and can provide financial support, or you have connections and can help people solve problems, or, You are interesting and fun (emotional value). In short, you must have some value. If you have no value, no one will associate with you.

Interpersonal communication, to put it bluntly, is what it is.

In love, this is even more true, and it is reality. You either have good looks, a good figure, or money. If you don’t have anything, I’m sorry, no one will play with you. What a pledge of eternal love. That's what people made up to deceive you for the sake of ratings. There is no such thing. The essence of a marriage relationship is also a value exchange. If you have no value and no bargaining power, the other party will disappear and won't even bother to say goodbye to you. .

This is the truth of the world. It’s not too late to wake up now.

Quan Hongchan’s revelation 2

Everyone has their own talent

Quan Hongchan, an ordinary-looking girl, would have been better off if she hadn’t been admitted to the sports school If you are selected, you may now be a very ordinary junior high school student with average academic performance, and he is still the kind who cannot afford to go to Xueersi and New Oriental.

However, the staff of the sports school discovered her talent.

When Quan Hongchan was selected and stood on the diving platform for the first time, the sports school staff asked her if she was afraid. She said, not at all, not at all. At this time, the sports school staff Bole suddenly realized that he had finally found the "right" seedling.

Yes, Quan Hongchan is different from other girls. She is not naturally afraid of heights or water. When others stand on the platform, their legs will tremble. However, Quan Hongchan does not feel this way. She For Quan Hongchan, the 10-meter space under her feet does not exist at all.

What is talent? This is talent.

Note that a girl’s explosive power exceeds that of many men.

This is talent. Quan Hongchan was sent down by God to make her parents happy.

If it weren’t for Bole from the sports school, no one would ever notice Quan Hongchan’s talents, and she would never be discovered throughout her life. She would be one of the many rural girls. After reading In junior high school, I went to Dongguan, Shenzhen, worked in a factory, and stayed like this for the rest of my life.

What does this tell us? That is to say, in the world we live in, everyone actually has his or her own talents and strengths. Many people mistakenly think that they have no strengths. In fact, it is because they haven’t discovered it yet and they don’t know it yet.

For example, some children could not control themselves during class and kept banging on the table. The school thought that they were disrupting the teaching order and dismissed them. However, this child grew up to become an excellent drummer. , flourishing in the pop music circle.

Everyone has their own talent. The difference is: your field is different, and the degree of your talent is different. Dig it carefully, you also have talent, really, I won’t tell most people.

Quan Hongchan’s Enlightenment No. 3

No one can succeed casually

Yes, no one can succeed casually. This is not the lyrics, this is is the truth.

Actually, I quite hate this truth, but whether I hate it or not, it is also the truth.

Seven years ago, a sports school coach went to rural primary schools in Zhanjiang City to look for diving talents.

Why should we look for “rural primary schools”?

When you tell the answer, you will suddenly realize: Because, children in rural areas can endure hardships. Diving training is a devil’s training camp. It is very hard. Children in cities generally cannot persist. This Well, the sports school system has suffered a lot for a long time, and it was later concluded that children from the city are generally not accepted, and are mainly found from rural areas, because diving training is really not a job for humans.

As you all know, at a young age, Quan Hongchan trains in the sports school every day. How many times does she have to jump off the 10-meter platform?

The answer is:

400

Yes, four! Hundred! Second-rate!

Not four times, not forty times, but four hundred times.

Can you imagine? Not to mention throwing your whole body into the water 400 times from a 10-meter high platform, just asking you to climb the diving steps 400 times will make you exhausted. Think about it, isn't it?

However, Quan Hongchan persisted, and she was very happy with it.

This is why people can succeed.

Who in this world can succeed casually?

No.

No matter which industry, athletes, entrepreneurs, singers, actors, writers... who can be successful casually?

None

Those actors and stars, do you know how hard they work? People often have to stay up all night filming, and when they are hanging on wires, they are pulled 10 meters high, and you would wet your crotch by now. When filming snow scenes, people stay in the wilderness at minus 40 degrees for 20 hours at a time, so, Don't think that being a star is easy, they are very hardworking.

Do you know how hard it is for people like Lao Feng who are just messing around with words? Do you know how it feels to have your hands numb after typing on the keyboard for seven or eight hours a day? Do you know about the occupational diseases of cervical spondylosis, eye inflammation, and prostatitis? Do you know how hard it is to stay up all night looking for information online? Do you know the feeling of worrying about fouling and stepping on the red line every day, and worrying about the next meal?

Behind every success is hard work and perseverance that you cannot see. You see others enjoying success on stage, but in fact, they work harder off stage than you.

Quan Hongchan’s Fourth Enlightenment

Do what you are good at to the best

There are generally two roads to success in this world. The first is The only way is to do business, to be an enterprise, and to be a professional investor. The second way is to become a professional.

Quan Hongchan, at a young age, uses her own experience to tell us all: Keep doing what you are good at and do it to the best, then you will succeed.

Yes, what you are good at, what you like to do, do it to the extreme and surpass 99% of your peers, you will succeed

If you are not in business If you have the talent to run a business and be a boss, then tap into your expertise, concentrate on it, spend 10,000 hours constantly training yourself, and do what you are good at to the extreme. You can also succeed, and you can also live a wonderful life.

Yes, Quan Hongchan has been in the sports school for seven years. In addition to cultural classes, she has five hours of diving training every day. Excluding holidays, it is exactly 10,000 hours.

"Ten thousand hours" is not chicken soup, but the basic law for becoming a top professional in all walks of life.

Remember, grit your teeth and do what you are best at, and you will succeed. Ten thousand hours later, Lao Feng will be there, waiting for you.

Quan Hongchan’s fifth revelation

Why you can’t raise filial children even though you are rich

Quan Hongchan was interviewed, and she spoke in a childlike manner. One of the important reasons why he works so hard is to earn money to treat his mother's illness.

Look. Filial piety.

Our story of "Twenty-Four Filial Piety" will add one "filial piety" and become "Twenty-Five Filial Piety". The added story is called "Seizing Gold to Save Mother".

Quan Hongchan, a poor family, raised a filial child.

And your family is so rich, well-clothed, well-fed, well-dressed, well-traveled, well-served, and in such good conditions, but you cannot raise a child who knows how to be grateful.

Why?

There is no doubt that there is something wrong with some of your parenting methods.

It is not a problem of fate, nor is it a problem of the child itself, but there is a problem with the way your family raises the child.

That must be the case.

I think Quan Hongchan’s filial piety has slapped many urban parents in the face.

Perhaps we all need to reflect.

Quan Hongchan’s Inspiration No. 6

Let the results speak for themselves

Before Quan Hongchan won the world championship, her family told others that my child entered the provincial team Something that no one listens to.

Why?

Because you are talking about the "process", not the "result".

No one listens to you talking about "process", what others want to hear is "result".

This is true in the arena, it is true in companies, and it is true even in government agencies.

Let the results speak for themselves.

It's best to shut up before making achievements.

Because no matter what you say, no one else will be interested in listening.

Quan Hongchan’s Revelation No. 7

Whether others are good or not depends on whether you are good or not

Quan Hongchan’s story also tells us: when you become When you are good enough, you will find that you are surrounded by people who treat you well.

After Quan Hongchan won the championship, the Zhanjiang Quan Clan Association immediately recognized Quan Hongchan as the 26th grandson of the Quan family.

Note that it is "26th generation grandson", not "granddaughter". Chinese ancestral halls do not recognize women, but as long as you become the world champion and bring glory to them, they will not even know your gender. I don't care, just treat you as a man.

You see, it is so magical.

And don’t forget, what is “recognition”? Post-recognition means that I did not recognize you before.

The nature of the world is so realistic.

Whether others are good or not actually depends on whether you are good or not.

After Quan Hongchan won the championship, three companies in Zhanjiang sent houses and money to Quan Hongchan.

In addition, Guangzhou Chimelong Amusement Park heard that Quan Hongchan wanted to go to the amusement park, so she immediately announced that she would give away year-round tickets.

Look, when you become good enough, you will find that you are surrounded by good people.

Quan Hongchan also said that she had never been to a zoo in her entire life. Lao Feng wanted to tell her: There are people fighting in the zoo, and the animals imitate human fights. It is recommended not to go.