Misfortune depends on happiness, and happiness depends on misfortune. Who knows its extremes? There's nothing wrong with that.
The recovery is amazing, and it is the demon that recovers well. This charm lasted for a long time.
It is based on the sage's side, sincere but not harmful, straight but not arrogant, bright but not gorgeous. The political tolerance of a country means that its people are simple and honest.
A country's politics is penetrating, and its people are bitter and thin. Evil brings blessings; Blessing, it implies disaster.
Who can know the mystery? What is normal has become absurd. Good has become evil again.
This phenomenon is puzzling and has a long history. Therefore, saints behave uprightly, but don't judge others by it; Keen mind, but not hurting others; Personality honest and frank, not presumptuous; Bright as a light, not showing off.
Laozi said: "Misfortune comes from the mouth, and happiness comes from the mouth." That is, happiness is always hidden in disasters, and disasters are the first evidence of happiness; Disasters and crises lurk in happiness, and happiness is the potential premise of disasters.
Laozi believes that happiness and misfortune are interdependent and unpredictable. This warns us to be cautious when we are lucky, because happiness may contain the seeds of disaster.
When you are unlucky, you should keep a normal heart and smile at life. Human beings yearn for "Fu Lushou", happiness, official position and longevity. Getting these things is a happy life.
"Fu Lushou" has become a couplet widely posted in the Spring Festival, and it has entered thousands of households, which shows that it is the general psychology of the public. At the same time, perhaps it is precisely because these three things are very rare treasures that people are so eager! Happiness is not available to people; People can't avoid disasters.
Happiness and misfortune often play hide-and-seek games with people, making it difficult to find a place. Sometimes when you are exhausted and suddenly look back, it doesn't take any effort to get "happiness". When you run slowly, you are afraid that you can't catch up with happiness; When you run too fast, you may get into trouble again.
Blessed or unlucky? Fate is like the emperor's face, mysterious and changeable. Everyone faces this problem, but not everyone understands the relationship between happiness and disaster.
Laozi thought deeply about this difficult problem in life and came to an incisive conclusion: "misfortune comes from the mouth, and happiness comes from the mouth." Blessing and disaster are complementary to each other, and blessing will also become a disaster, and disaster can also become a blessing.
That is to say, a person's good fortune is connected, he will not be unlucky all his life, and of course he will not be lucky all his life. People in adversity and bad luck, times have changed, times have changed.
In a prosperous time, there will be disasters from the sky, and it never rains but it pours. Therefore, unlucky people should not be discouraged, and blessings lurk in disasters.
Lucky people should be careful, there may be seeds of disaster in happiness. Don't get carried away when you are lucky, but smile at life when you are unlucky.
The story of "A blessing in disguise, how to know that it is not a blessing" recorded in Huai Nan Zi vividly reveals the philosophy of interdependence between blessing and misfortune. An old man in the northern frontier of China lost a horse, and his neighbors came to comfort him. He said it might be a good thing.
Soon, the horse came back and attracted a good horse from Alakazam. The villagers came to congratulate him again, but the old man thought it might be a bad thing.
Soon after, my son broke his leg while riding, and all the villagers came to offer their condolences. The old man said it might be rewarded. A year later, a war broke out on the border, and his son was exempted from conscription because of a lame leg. All the young and middle-aged neighbors were recruited as soldiers, and most of them died, but the old man's family was safe and sound.
The world often uses "a blessing in disguise, how can we know that it is not a blessing" as a metaphor for the interdependence of good things and bad things. In this story, the fortune of the old man is very calm, as if he is not actively avoiding misfortune and seeking happiness, but optimistically accepting everything that fate has given him. The turning point of fortune depends on natural arrangements.
However, this approach seems a bit passive. In life, it is entirely possible and necessary for a person to have an insight into the transformation of fortunes and treat it with a normal heart. When disaster comes, don't wait, try to avoid it and try to turn bad things into good things; Actively publicize the existence of Fu.
Man is the spirit of all things, and the power of the mind can conform to the laws of nature, turn defeat into victory, turn adversity into prosperity, and turn adversity into prosperity. Confucius traveled around the world and came to the water's edge of Canglang. He heard a child singing.
Sang Song: "The clear water of the surging waves can wash my hat tassels, and the turbid water of the surging waves can wash my feet." Confucius was deeply moved. He said to the students, "Listen, students, clean water can wash hats and tassels, while turbid water can only be used to wash feet, which is determined by the water itself."
This is very chewy. The degree of water use depends entirely on the quality of water itself, and people's happiness and troubles, reputation and humiliation are also determined by their own actions.
As the saying goes, the weather is unpredictable, which makes sense. Even in today's advanced science, human beings still can't accurately know that there is heaven in the sky, and many times people really can't help it.
Everything in the world has its own laws. You can't take it away, but you can't take it away. People's happiness and misfortune are sometimes equally unpredictable.
A blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise. In the meantime, it really tells the dialectics of good and bad luck in the world. Sorrow and joy are one family, and good and bad are one.
Unpredictable things often happen in nature, and there will always be disasters in life, so we must have an open mind of "Don't worry when disasters come, don't be happy when disasters come". In the contradiction between blessing and disaster, it is necessary to understand whether it is a blessing or a disaster; Whether it is a disaster or not, it is caused by subjective and objective reasons.
When disaster comes, we should bear it, control it and let it pass. When happiness comes, we should treat it calmly and not treat it lightly, so that we can be happy and not sad. Chaos is born in mooring, danger is born in safety, well is easy to exhaust because of its sweetness and purity, and Li can exists because of its suffering.
Because of its preciousness, the deep mountain where jewels are hidden is bound to be broken by axes and chisels. Orchids are born in the valley. Although no one looks at them, they can keep their fragrance. Wood is beautiful in the forest. It could have been moistened by rain and dew to attract the sun to bathe first, but it is beautiful in the forest and the wind will destroy it.
In fact, good and bad luck are always inclusive, and there are disasters in the blessing, and there are blessings in the disaster, or they can always be transformed into each other. Happiness can be strong and happiness can lead to disaster. Kind of like drinking.
Wine can promote blood circulation and qi circulation, activate collaterals and relax tendons. Holiday leisure, two or three fellow travelers, three or two relatives and friends, get together for a drink, can also help Tan Xing to have a harmonious relationship.
Drinking to the extreme will lead to great disasters: a bad stomach will hurt the liver, paralyze the nerves, misbehave, and hurt yourself and others. People who become bad because of alcohol are everywhere in life.
This is what the ancients said, "the wine is excellent."
2. The famous sayings about the interdependence of fortunes are:
1, lost in the east corner, harvesting mulberries. -Southern Dynasties, Ye Fan, "The History of the Later Han Dynasty, Volume 17, Biography of Feng Yi, Seventh"
What is lost in one place will be gained in another.
2. A blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise. -Liu An's "Huainanzi Human Training" in the Western Han Dynasty
Although it is a temporary loss, it may also bring benefits.
3, disaster, blessing. Happiness lies in misfortune. -Laozi in the Spring and Autumn Period "Laozi"
Happiness and misfortune are interdependent and mutually transformed. Metaphor means that bad things can have good results, and good things can also have bad results.
4, disaster does not come, happiness does not come. -Sima Qian's Biography of Historical Records and Tortoise in the Western Han Dynasty
Disaster will not come for no reason, and happiness will not come in vain.
5. Hard won, hard lost. If it is easy to get, it will be lost. -Su Song Shi "On the Interpretation of Poetry"
Translation: it is not easy to come, and it is naturally not easy to lose. Easy come, easy go.
6. Everything has a bright side, and joy brings sorrow. -Sima Qian's Biography of Historical Records and Su Qin in the Western Han Dynasty
Because you have experienced a disaster, you are blessed. When you are extremely happy, something sad happens.