1. Husband and wife love each other and are loyal to each other. This is the most basic requirement. Of course, it must be achieved first, but the quality of marriage is more reflected in the details of life. It is not difficult to solve the detailed problems. The key is not to turn a blind eye, let alone ignore them.

2. Marriage must be as plain as a long stream of water. Only plain can last long, and thin water can flow forever. But plainness does not mean tasteless, and thin water does not mean completely calm. Otherwise, it will go to the other extreme of marriage. , is also another dead end of marriage. Being insipid and lacking in freshness is the biggest fatal flaw in marriage.

3. In order for the relationship between husband and wife to last, in addition to the premise of mutual loyalty and sincerity, two sentences must be kept in mind: love can be as short-lived and beautiful as a flash of lightning, but marriage must be as plain as a long stream of water. Simplicity is the most mature beauty, simplicity is the richest elegance. Condensed into two words: simple.

4. Marriage requires mutual support. Don’t leave anyone to move forward alone. Without mutual love, no one can survive the desert storm. Love needs two people to work on it. Don't be so selfish that you drink the nectar of the same person alone. No one can endure the hard journey without food or water.

5. If a marriage is well managed, it is a honeypot; if it is not well managed, it is at most a fire pit. As long as you're toasting comfortably, what's wrong with a fire pit? warm!

6. There are no unhappy marriages, only unhappy couples. Couples enter the marriage hall with great longing for marriage, but in the end they are disappointed, so they blame the marriage and say that marriage is the tomb of love, but in fact the real ones to blame are themselves.

7. Suspicion is the biggest hidden danger in marriage.

8. Suspicion is a cancer in married life. Smart couples know how to work together to resolve it skillfully. The one who is suspected should be a good person, and the one who is suspicious should have more trust and relief, and understand each other. , trust each other, be loyal to each other, reduce misunderstandings, strengthen communication, and avoid destroying beautiful relationships and happy marriages due to suspicion.

9. Marriage is a battle between men and women for the right to speak, economic power and control.

10. Love is a matter between two people and has nothing to do with marriage. Marriage is a matter of society and has nothing to do with love. You can get married with love or without love. I hope you won’t get married without love. Marriage is a product of male restraint. Civilization is always based on self-consciousness and restraint is the purpose. Males have always been irresponsible for great reproduction, except for birds.

11. Marriage is a tragedy, but the audience regards it as a comedy. No one likes tragedy, but everyone must get married. Everything starts with love and ends with marriage.

12. Love always lasts a lifetime, and falling in love at first sight is often equal to growing old together. In love, I never thought that the highest stage of love is hate. The heat always cools down, as does love. When love enters marriage, the passion for the lover in the past cools down over time. It cools down to love and resentment, and angrily leaves when one is not careful. This is how love begins with comedy and marriage ends with tragedy. Everyone becomes a character in the novel. Protagonist. The original love and the current hatred seemed to be wrong, but in fact, love was both right. The mistake was that we read the beautiful poem of marriage backwards. I only saw that he was awkward, not that he read the sentence upside down.

13. In marriage, a woman is a wife, mother, and daughter. A man is a husband, a father, a son, any friends, lovers, etc. are superfluous. Love is just loving him (her) and caring about him (her). It is very simple, but it becomes complicated.

14. The charm of love is often in the hands of men, and the wisdom of marriage is often in the hands of women. There are many examples of an outstanding man clinging to a woman who is incompatible with him, which always makes some "famous women" regretful, narcissistic and jealous - do they have the same language? Do they have love? Love doesn't need a mouth.

15. For love, what is marriage? Is it a harbor? Is it a siege? Or a grave? Whatever it is, most of us have fallen or are falling into this quagmire. Once you get stuck, it will be difficult to extricate yourself. Love and hate, pain and laughter, are originally two sets of antonyms, but in marriage, not only are they not contradictory, but they are also inseparable twin sisters. Who can separate them? Is it you or me?

16. Two people in a marriage are like a pair of tourists walking in the desert. At the beginning, I felt the fine sand under my feet, carried a pot full of happiness on my back, and went to realize my dream passionately. Slowly, as time went by, I went further. The original passion has been wiped out by the dangers of the desert, replaced by physical and mental exhaustion. Looking up again, the end of the desert is still far away, and the road back has disappeared. Suddenly, I realize that dreams are not always beautiful.