Gestures or body signals allow us to interpret other people's emotions. Like the emotional cognition stage, these signals can give us insight into the inner world of others.
The focus of listening is to listen to the main points and further listen to other people's voices.
What do they mean? If you want to listen attentively, you must keep quiet-that's probably why we have two ears and one mouth.
When others are talking, you must control your mouth and be a good listener.
Besides language and body language, people also need empathy because of some emotional trauma. Maybe you haven't experienced the same injury, but you may have a similar experience. Maybe they are very miserable because they lost a child, and you have no children-but you can recall how it felt when a friend or family member died.
Respond to his words with words; Recognize their experience (even if you don't agree with them or it doesn't make sense to you, it still makes sense to them). You'd better not simply say "I know how you feel now"-that only means you don't know how he feels.
It's not enough to talk. If you really understand each other, you should do something. Sometimes the actions taken are simple, such as listening for a long time, staring at each other and smiling gently. Sometimes it is more obvious, but the sympathetic action response has nothing to do with solving problems, but emotional connection. Don't cross the boundary of emotional connection by solving a problem that has nothing to do with you.
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