There are few black and white things in this world. The meaning of any hasty definition does not take into account the complexity of people and things. People with high practice always talk about things in fog, and only after experience can they understand the wisdom. We are all secular people, and we should not expect practitioners from each other. Tolerance is not to forgive others, but to forgive yourself.
All the pains in life come from one's own heart. Different moods make different feelings. If we can keep a peaceful mind, the pain will go further and further. Forgiving others can sublimate yourself, and blaming others can only hurt yourself. If you can't forgive others from the bottom of your heart, you will never feel at ease. If we have enough self-cultivation, know how to choose and dare to face it, nothing can make us suffer.
Whether you are happy or not actually depends on your state of mind. Time is infinite, but life is limited. Learn to turn pages and forget. "Caring about other people's mistakes is actually punishing yourself. Forgiveness and tolerance are not about letting others go, but letting yourself go. " Don't live in the eyes of others. Only when a person does not despise himself and knows how to please himself can he have a full sense of happiness.
5. To be dull, everyone's quality and cultivation ethics are different. We should forgive and understand others more, understand that people live in desires, and everyone has different feelings, views and concepts about life. Only by learning to be dull can we let go and learn to be grateful.
6. Many people's lives are terrible, not because they don't know how to forgive, but because they forgive others too easily. Not all silence represents hope, and not all responses will have results. If you can't forget, just remember. If you can't put it down, don't put it down.
7. How deep the wound is and how painful it is, only you know it forever. Moreover, not forgiving someone easily and not letting go of one thing easily is also a kind of vigilance and protection for yourself. Many people's lives are terrible, not because they don't know how to forgive, but because they forgive others too easily.