Love is the most unreasonable thing. Either you love him very much and he will love you, or the more you give, he will cherish it. Some women will become "love brains" once they meet love. For her, only love is the most important thing, and everything else has become a matter of course. However, when you put love first, you will gradually lose yourself in the process, and finally you will find that you have nothing but regret. In fact, men are also very realistic. He is willing to spoil you, but whether he will spoil you all the time depends on whether you are worthy of his love. If you become unlike yourself in this process, what will he love you with? So you have to understand that if you want a man to spoil you continuously, you must learn "three noes" instead of being humble, so you can't get the love you want.

1. Don't actively rely on each other. Some women are always emotional, knowing that love is unreliable, or relying on each other again and again, taking each other as a lifeline, but in the end they find out how stupid they are. When you choose to rely on the initiative, you also choose to give the initiative to the other side. When the other person doesn't want you, he will abandon you and you will have nothing. So in order to avoid this situation, don't rely on each other actively at the beginning, stay awake and rational, and understand that only you can rely on yourself, so that your relationship can develop better. If a woman wants to stand firm in a relationship, she must have real self-worth. Even if one day you are separated for various reasons, you still have yourself to rely on, not nothing at the end.

2. Don't worry about changing boys. No matter in life or in feelings, people should learn to achieve it well. You don't have to take anyone for granted. When he loves you dearly, you must be grateful instead of trying to change each other. Even if two people fall in love, everyone is still an independent individual. He has their indoor space, and you have your world. You can't always think about letting him come into your world and live with you, which will put a lot of pressure on the other person's work. Maybe you have heard a lot of sermons telling you that a person can't be with you, which means that everyone has different opinions, but frankly, no one can be with you completely, as long as he doesn't interfere with you and let you do what you like. Similarly, you should pay attention to him, and don't always want to change him and let him go backwards for you. After a long time, he will definitely feel very tired and finally don't want to develop this relationship.

Don't be unreasonable. The person who really loves you will tolerate your bad temper and allow you to be arrogant, but that doesn't mean that he won't be tired and will always love like this. Especially when you are unreasonable, men are very annoying, but he just doesn't express it. Maybe he has emotional support at first, and he thinks there is no reason to put up with it, but he will get bored and can't persist. Therefore, there is no need to be unreasonable all the time, and it is stipulated that the other party will always spoil you and let you go, so men will have no pressure. On that day, your relationship is likely to be irreparable. It is better to try to restrain. At the same time, you have put some attention and understanding into him, and he will be very grateful to you.

Every woman should think of a love and want a boy to spoil herself constantly, but not everyone can get it. It's not that this man doesn't love you, but that you don't know the communication skills between men and women, which makes this relationship come to an end. If you want the other person to spoil you all the time, then you should know some methods, for example, you don't have to rely on the other person actively, you don't have to think about changing the other person, you don't have to be unreasonable all the time, and when you do this, I believe he will love you more. People can't always be selfish and think only of themselves, but also of each other. Don't take everything for granted. It is to learn to invest well and learn to be tolerant. This kind of love is fair and sustainable.