In the communication between men and women, if you don't want to upgrade to lovers,

you should keep a distance between them, a proper distance:

Because of this distance, you should learn:

1. Don't accept inexplicable and expensive gifts;

2. If you don't like someone, don't be too ambiguous and don't say anything: kiss, love and hug;

3. Don't create an illusion that people you don't like may be upgraded to lovers, and explicitly refuse;

4. Don't talk at two or three o'clock at night, and don't live in the same room for any reason;

5. Don't have physical contact. Learn to avoid everyone needing private space as much as possible. Couples are the same. It's good to call every day, but don't push too hard, otherwise it will be counterproductive. After all, everyone has their own things to do, and when you really know her, you will know what the best distance is, so as to avoid the embarrassment and discomfort of getting along with each other.

"Keep a distance between people, and distance produces beauty. The closer we get, the more shortcomings we will see. When two stones are thrown into the water, if they are too close, the water waves will interfere with each other. "

It is true that distance makes beauty. Many times, the good relationship between people is because two people keep a certain distance.

However, if two people cross the border and are at the level of AUO above lover not full, then a series of "problems" will inevitably arise in the follow-up, and there are actually many signs, among which the following three are the most obvious.

This sentence is a famous social saying, which applies not only to social occasions, but also to the communication between men and women. In general, if two men and women are just normal friends and colleagues, then they will keep a moderate and polite social distance.

However, once one of these two people is interested in each other, or both of them have a good impression, there will be some performance between them, and they will no longer deliberately keep their social distance.

Modern people's emotional expression is very implicit, so it may be difficult for us to directly judge the relationship between two people. But no matter whether they are single or married, once they have these performances, it can show that there is something fishy between them.