Legend has it that there is a kind of grass called worry-free girl. If people eat it, they can forget their worries. Legend has it that there is a river called Forget Sichuan. If people drink it, they will forget their troubles. In fact, whether it is grass or river water, how can it be so magical? "Why worry? Only Du Kang, "Cao Mengde said. In fact, wine is not really sad, "sorrow comes again, although it is drowned by wine." Nowadays, as soon as children learn to speak, their parents are busy teaching them to recite Tang poetry and Song poetry. When I was in kindergarten, I used my vacation to force me to go to art school. From elementary school to high school, I hired a tutor to help me with my lessons. All these helpless actions are caused by the psychology of hoping that the son will become a dragon and the daughter will become a phoenix. In this way, parents are exhausted, children feel bored, and limited spare time is ruthlessly "occupied". When I suddenly look back when I grow up, my child's pain is far more than happiness.
As the saying goes, children and grandchildren have children and grandchildren. The implication is that children and grandchildren have their own future, so parents don't have to worry too much. China's parents, from marriage to career, can't wait for their children to do anything, which can be described as "doing their best and dying". In fact, they are worried about their children. A big factor is to base their hopes on their children's pain. To put it mildly, they transfer their unfulfilled ideals to their children and force them to work hard to complete them. Their behavior is quite selfish, but they don't realize it themselves. Influenced by his body rumors, our children have a sense of anxiety about their future since childhood: they are worried that they will not be admitted to famous universities when they are studying, that they will not get an "iron rice bowl" when they are admitted to universities, and that they will lose their ideals, but they are only burdened with their parents' high hopes and struggling on the road of life. From the point of view, I'm afraid my friend's good wish is to draw water with a sieve.
Of course, to some extent, worrying is not a bad thing. Worry will lead to stress, and pressure will lead to motivation. Therefore, people in this world are always busy, busy for salary increase, busy for promotion, busy for achievement, busy for trifles, but always busy. At this time, I remembered a story: the old monk pointed to the bustling crowd and asked the young monk, how many people are there? The young monk doesn't know what is right. The old monk sighed: two. One for fame, the other for profit. After all, the worries of the world are mostly due to fame and fortune. Now some people are obsessed with fame and fortune, as if they become vulgar when they talk about themselves. In fact, as long as it is not the rope of fame, as long as it is taken properly, what is the crime of changing your nickname for the name of the country and society?