Cao Cao said: "A hero has ambition, a good plan in his belly, an opportunity to hide the universe, and the spirit of calling heaven and earth." He also said: "The only heroes in the world today are the monarch and Cao Er!" This "envoy" is a generation of fierce Liu Bei. Liu Bei set up a family from a place where he made mats and sold shoes, and took advantage of the chaos of the Yellow Scarf Army in the Eastern Han Dynasty. With the help of Zhu Gekongming, Guan Gong, Zhang Fei and Zhao Yun, he earned a large area of heaven and earth, reached the land of China, and was more likely to unify the whole country. However, it is this hero with the ambition of "mastering heaven and earth" and his son, Liu Chan Liu Adou, who left a bizarre story for future generations.
After Liu Bei's death, he entrusted Zhuge Liang, a strategist, with the task of helping Han and his youngest son. Zhuge Liang also racked his brains to burn his marrow and was loyal to the Liu family. He went to Qishan six times in a row and defeated Cao Shi hard. However, all failed. On one occasion, Kong Ming was about to win a great victory, but was recalled by the imperial edict of Liu Chan starry night. Kong Ming sighed: "Your master is young, and there must be courtiers at his side; I just want to make achievements. Why should I get them back? "If you are ordered to leave, you will never have this chance again." When he came back, Zen actually said, "I haven't seen the Prime Minister for a long time, and I am longing for it. Liu Chan must have listened to the slanderers of the wicked, and he will be beheaded when he comes back. Zhuge Liang, as a father, can teach him through words and then behead the villain. Jiang Wei can't. After Zhuge Liang's death, he entrusted Jiang Wei with full authority. Jiang Wei lived up to his expectations. He has been out of Qishan many times and made great achievements. However, Liu Chan had a close relationship with eunuch Huang Hao, alienating the virtuous and honest. Huang Hao wanted the villains to build a military, and instigated Liu Chan to recall Jiang Wei at the front at night. This time, when Jiang Wei tried to kill Huang Hao, Liu Chan said, "Love wants to live, and evil wants to die. "Qing will not allow eunuchs, will it?" Jiang Wei hated it, but he had to invite someone to avoid the disaster. Because Liu Chan was addicted to debauchery, he kept a prince's wife in the palace for more than a month. The prince angered his wife and was killed by Liu Chan. Since then, ministers have been trembling and buried the roots of national subjugation.
When he was named the Happy Duke, he personally went to Zhao's house to thank humbly and hosted a banquet for Zhao. When the officials of Shu were singing and dancing, they were all sad and crying, while the officials of Shu were laughing. Zhao asked the emperor, "Do you miss Shu?" The late Lord replied, "I am happy here, but I don't think about Shu." Even Si Mazhao sighed and said, "The people's ruthlessness, even so, can't help Zhu Gekongming for a long time. How about Jiang Wei? " When the martyrs heard about it, they all sighed.
Yuan Cai said that the unscrupulous descendants of the rich will only lead to the decline of the family business, and the noble will incur the punishment of the fathers and ancestors. However, the unscrupulous descendants of the emperor will lose their country, hand over the great mountains and rivers of their ancestors, and lose the face of their ancestors, which will be a shame for generations to come. Can future generations not be vigilant?
Children are greedy and cheap, don't be an official.
If the children of the original text are ignorant and corrupt, they should not be officials. The ancients said that there are many virtuous people in prison, and children and grandchildren should be rich, which means that people don't know happiness. In today's view, this is stupid, but it is not the opposite of virtue to tell the professional to replace the prison lawsuit and change things and repay kindness with evil. The ancients also called me a schemer, which is a taboo in Taoism. It is said that people who don't know what to do are in trouble. Today, his greed will collude with the professional generation, and his taste in official business will be straight. If people are wronged and have nothing to say, it is not a conspiracy! Thirty years ago, the scholar-officials tried to count the country songs, but now very few can survive. It's all caused by the past People of insight will believe this statement.
If there are stupid children who are greedy for money and take bribes, they must never be allowed to embark on the road of official career. The ancients said that handling cases can accumulate virtue, and there will be prosperity in future generations, that is, doing good deeds and accumulating virtue. Doing a good deed, although others don't know it, is secretly for you. If those silly children are allowed to be officials and be in charge of punishment, he will definitely hand over all the business to his aides or subordinates. These people distort the facts, protect the wicked and frame loyalty. Don't they accumulate virtue but harm it? The ancients also said: people have too many intrigues, which is really a taboo of morality and ethics, that is, although others don't know bad things, they will eventually get retribution. Now that you let your insatiable son be an official, he will certainly plan with his subordinates, seek personal gain for the public, cheat on others, turn black and white upside down, and call a deer a horse, which makes people feel wronged, but there is nowhere to complain. Isn't this what the ancients called a conspiracy? Scholars may wish to review the situation in China. Look at the official 30 years ago. How much is left today? The reason for their depravity is that they let ignorant and greedy children become officials, rather than accumulate virtue and suffer retribution. People with foresight must believe that this statement is correct.
Comment on Liu Zongyuan's famous satirical fable, saying that a greedy bug is not easy to fall down after being touched because of its rough back. However, although the body is small and the strength is weak, it is still negative when it comes to anything, and it is hard to move forward with its head held high, and the more weight it carries, the stronger it becomes, and finally it can't be turned upside down. Sometimes people feel sorry for it and help it unload its heavy burden. But once he can get up and pick it up, it will be the same as before. I also like to climb high. When I am exhausted, I fall to the ground and die.
Throughout the ages, how many people, or appear tall, like a gentleman; Or look smart and wise, like a sage and philosopher; Or in a high position; Or famous. But its foresight and ingenuity are similar to this bug. Too much greed, too much bribery, too much fun, so regardless of morality, regardless of national laws, willing to try the law, ruined, and even tired of home and house, regardless of thoughts. Why did you come here?
In ancient times, when a person committed a crime, he was punished by sitting together, even nine families, even to his neighbor's house.
Although the torture of sitting together has been abolished today, after his death, his old white-haired parents and young girls with tender teeth are still alive. How can people in the world sneer at each other coldly and ignore them completely? How can they stand it? Where do you put your kindness, your teacher's kindness and your great kindness to your country? How much harm an ignorant and corrupt person has caused to society and family and what a bad influence it has caused! Therefore, we should also guard against such people being officials and endangering society.
Children of the rise and fall of family business
The primitive cohabitation relationship between father, brother and children, whether good or evil is equal or not, if a stubborn and despicable person does not hesitate to die first, his family will not prosper easily; If the philanthropist dies first, his family will be hopeless. As the saying goes: "Mo Yan's family is not complete, he still has a family and a child; Mo Yan's family is not broken, and the broken family is not big. "That's what I mean.
Generally speaking, half of the brothers and sons who live together are good and half are bad.
If those stupid, despicable and vicious people die early, it is not easy to judge the rise and fall of his family; But if those kind, honest and thrifty people die first, then the decline of this family is certain. As the saying goes, "don't say that the family is not prosperous, and the sons who can make the family prosperous are not born." Don't assert that the family can prosper forever, and the son who lost his family has not grown up. " In other words, this phenomenon
Comment on a famous saying of Emperor Taizong: "The way to govern the country lies in the people." In fact, the rise and fall of the family is more important.
Liu Chan lost his country because he was close to villains, indulged in debauchery and decadent. Be ridiculed as "A Dou who can't help it". And those who are more virtuous and rich. At the same time, Liu Chan, Cao Rui is not xelloss clique. After Guo Guifei succeeded to Empress Zhen, there was no heir. Xelloss named Cao Rui as his successor. Although spoiled on weekdays, Cao Rui is exquisite and gratifying, clever and transparent. But because he is not one of his own, he can only appear without virtue. Xelloss is not determined to make him a prince. Once when Cao Rui was hunting with Pipi, the servant drove the deer out of the jungle. Cao Pi drew his bow and arrow, and the doe stood dead. The deer stood still and looked back at Cao Rui, but Rui cried. Xelloss was surprised and asked him why he didn't hurry up. Rui said, "Your Majesty shot his mother, and I am willing to shoot his youngest son." Cao Pi was overjoyed. He threw the bow under the horse, grabbed Cao Rui's hand and said, "Lord of true benevolence and virtue." Cao Rui was made a prince. As expected, Cao Rui, with his enlightened mind and supreme kindness, laid the foundation for the unification of China, making the soldiers work hard, the people and ministers loyal and prosperous.
"Rice has no beginning, and umami has an end." The founding emperors of all previous dynasties were conscientious, diligent, loving the people and caring for the world. However, they all ended up in Flower Country and became different surnames. So that everyone in the world thinks that "the general trend of the world is from chaos to governance and from governance to chaos." As everyone knows, this is really because future generations did not find it difficult to start a business in their ancestors, but they were passed on. However, they spend money like water, spend money like water, indulge in pleasure and corrupt. Qin Shihuang, Qin Ershi, Sui Wendi and Sui Yangdi all died in II, while Liu Yu of Southern Tang Dynasty died in III. This is a typical example of future generations being unwise, stubborn and stingy, at the expense of their possessions.
All over the world, is it the land of emperors, the birth of all things, and the education of all people? Such a big foundation of the country can be destroyed by a black sheep. What's more, it's not enough if you have a daughter, a million dollars and a house!
The adopted children should also be cautious.
The poor raise their children when others are young. Those who build poor families have no farmhouses to support the elderly, but they want their sons to feed them back. They have to support themselves and settle their hearts since childhood. Rich people have raised other people's children. Most people think it is taboo to let the rich people in the world raise other people's children. They can raise them if they want, or they can raise very few people. Long and corrupt, afraid of his family, only to discuss expulsion, to argue. If we take a long-term view, we can have a general view on whether the sages can be honest and self-disciplined, and we can keep things as they are, so that our families will not be ruined and our arguments will not be endless.
If the family's financial situation is not good, adopting someone else's son as an heir should be adopted when the child is young. Because the poor have no land or house to rely on to support the elderly, they only expect their sons to support themselves when they grow up, and they should have food and clothing at an early age and cultivate their feelings for you; Rich families should adopt children after they grow up. Nowadays, rich people are afraid to let others know that they are adopted children, so they always adopt them when they are still ignorant. Sometimes a child adopted from a poor family grows up to be a black sheep, and he is afraid of losing his family business, so he is driven out of the house through negotiation, which leads to disputes. If you let the child grow up and then adopt, then you can roughly see the child's character. If Gwen is really honest, she will treat her adoptive parents as her own parents, and will not ruin her family business, let alone cause a lawsuit.
Comment on the old saying: "Raise children to prevent old age." Because "the times are not as good as a hundred years, and people live for seventy years."
When you are strong, you can walk, eat and work. But when you are older, the machine parts in your body are worn out everywhere, and failures happen from time to time. You have to have someone to wait on you, serve tea and take care of your knees. Therefore, it goes without saying that those who have children and those who don't have children will take moths to continue their heirs, prolong their fragrance and offer them at all times. At least you can look forward to it when you are old. After a hundred years, you will be buried. Therefore, there is a saying that "there are three unfilial things, and there is no big after".
However, Yuan Cai thinks it is necessary to use moths casually. Poor families should be raised from a young age to settle down, while rich families should "learn from their strengths." His starting point is that poor families have no property and rely on emotional ties, while rich families have property, which is only used to support their families and extend their children's pension. What he said is not unreasonable, and sometimes it is in line with human customs. However, if a person has no feelings, he is called a cold-blooded animal. A large part of the difference between humans and animals is that humans have feelings. If you treat it with your heart just because your family is rich, your adopted son can "stand on his own feet and dare not break the family", but his heart is far apart and his family has no warm atmosphere. Isn't it disappointing? Therefore, I think that both the poor and the rich should be "well-fed and secure from childhood". His heart is of course tight.
Besides, the good or bad, filial piety and unfilial of a man's son all depend on his acquired education. When he was young, if he was urged to be strict, he might hold a grudge. When he grows up and is sensible, he will know that his adoptive parents should not only let him grow up, but also be an "adult", not an evil person. There are many things that children teach adults, and children become "thieves" if they don't teach them. This is not superfluous.
His son should not treat others lightly.
Many children are annoying, so we shouldn't look down on others. Once a little longer, we should see its gentleness and self-restraint, and give it to others, and the two families will be blessed. If you are an infant, that is, with someone else, if you do whatever it takes to ruin his family, you will always seek to return to your ancestral home and ruin my family, then both families will suffer.
It is a financial burden for the poor to have more children, but we can't give them away just because there are many children. When they grow up, they will see that he is gentle and honest and he can be adopted by others. This is a blessing for both families. If you give someone away in infancy, you will definitely ask to return to your biological parents in case your child becomes corrupt and destroys other people's industries in the future. This will often lead to lawsuits and bring down the family of biological parents. In this way, both families will suffer.
Comment on a millionaire, his wife died early, and he felt very lonely. Although he lives a carefree and luxurious life every day, he feels very unhappy. One day, because I played too late, I returned to the hotel nearly midnight. But I heard a family making noise and laughing at the back of the house. After opening the window, I saw a poor man playing naughty with many sons in that room.
Although the clothes were torn and the bones were thin into needles, they were all in high spirits, and the family was happy, which made the rich man envious and could not help but sigh, so he called home and told the poor that he was willing to spend 100 thousand yuan to buy a son. Hearing this, the poor man was overjoyed. So I decided to sell him one. The eldest, the second and the third are almost adults, and they will be able to stand on their own feet in a few days. They can earn money to support their families and cannot give them away. Old four, old five, this is the nature of children. It's very likable to come back after being tired every day. It makes the old people laugh. It's really a good boy and doesn't give it away.
Old six, old seven, less is more sick. Spend a lot of money, get along with each other day and night, and the feelings are getting deeper and deeper, and I can't bear to give it. Hachi, Laojiu is still breastfeeding. If she gives it away flatly, if she dies suddenly because of acclimatization, it won't hurt anyone! His eyes are wandering and his mind is upside down. It's really hard to make up his mind. What's more, all the sons are silent and cringing for fear that their father will betray them, and their expressions are really pitiful. The poor man has a lot of troubles and worries. He is very worried. I can't bear to sell my children. Although bitter, I have never been so worried. So I cut the gordian knot: I'm not selling. In an instant, after the rain cleared, all the children cheered, and the poor man could not help but burst into tears and smile.
Although Yuan thinks that people can't be taken lightly, his heart is out of sadness that his stepson is a curse to both families. As we all know, the palm of your hand and the back of your hand are all meat, which one can give up with others. If you want to completely eliminate the scourge of two families, you'd better not give your children to others. When children grow up and get married, they can choose not to be human. People can also decide whether to adopt him as a moth.
Other people's children cannot be adopted easily.
Raising a son with a different surname is not only because the ancestors did not worship him, but also because after several generations, people who must have the same surname are strictly prohibited by law. Many people take risks, leading to disputes. If people don't tell you and officials don't rule, how can they ignore the reasons? Jiangxi adopted son, not gave birth to a surname, but raised a surname crown on it, if the surname. Although I can't see it in the classics, I also know that there is no such thing as evil. The son of the same surname, Zhao Mu is not smooth and can't be a queen. Hongyan is a trivial matter, but it is still not chaotic. People are not. As for uncle's worship of nephew, is it reasonable? This situation is easy to cause controversy. If you have to, you should raise your brothers and nephews to make sacrifices, but you should caress them like children and give them their property. The people they support are just like fathers. For example, the ancients used to be the uniform of their sister-in-law, but now people are shouldering the burden for their ancestors, which shows that Zhao Mu is not chaotic.
Taking a son with a different surname as an heir, not only does the ancestor gods refuse to accept his sacrifice, but it is bound to marry someone with the same surname after several generations, which is strictly prohibited by national laws.
Many people did this, which finally caused a dispute. Even if no one sues, the government will not pursue it. Don't people consider whether it is reasonable? In this place of Jiangxi, the adoptive father's surname is not removed, but the adopter's surname is put in front of the child's original surname, which seems to be a compound surname. Although this practice is neither recorded nor stipulated by law, it can also be seen that there is no difference between children who are opposed to adoption and their own children.
Even children with the same surname and the same ancestry cannot be regarded as heirs if their generations are wrong. Beauty is just a little creature, and she knows not to be incestuous, but people can't. So that an uncle worships his nephew, is this appropriate in etiquette? In this case, it is easy to cause disputes. If you really have to, you can raise your younger brother and grandnephew to carry on the family line. However, he should be raised as his own child, and his property should be passed on to him in the future. The adopted child should also treat the adoptive father like a father. Just like the ancients used to dress their sisters-in-law in uniforms, just like today's people continue to burn incense for their ancestors, as long as they don't confuse generations, there is no harm.
In the feudal patriarchal clan system era, it is a great event to carry on the family line. It is a very painful thing for a family to have no children to follow the incense. Therefore, people are "cutting off the fragrance"
Then I will think of adopting other people's children to carry on the family line for myself. This can also be said to be a last resort, and it is also a little comfort to the latter's pain. Yuan Cai's words may have great practical significance at that time, but with the development of the times, the clan concept of China people gradually faded, and whether there is an heir has become a very important issue. Especially with the popularization of the concept of equality between men and women, the concept of carrying on the family line has become an outdated concept. And the big family that once existed in the history of China has become the glory of the past.