After reading The Pursuit of Happyness, there are 7 articles, 1, which have tasted all kinds of life and are still gentle with the world. Chris, the hero in the film, is probably a projection of it.
Chris spent all his savings on medical equipment and all his hopes on bringing home the bacon, but life was always difficult. Because I haven't sold a medical device for a long time, there are still arrears of rent and various tickets, which make my wife run away from home. Faced with the embarrassment and helplessness of life, homeless, he took his son to finish his work early every day, and then went to the church to queue up for accommodation. After putting his son to sleep at night, he reads books, remembers knowledge and even sells blood to earn money. But he is still full of faith in life and teaches his son that life will be better, and his son has been encouraging and supporting him. After half a year's internship, Chris's unremitting efforts were recognized by the company, and he officially became the company's agent. When he heard that he was hired, his eyes were red and he could no longer control his tears. I know he is very happy at the moment.
Chris is a black man who lives in America. He is eager to pursue survival, freedom and happiness. In the face of repeated blows of life, he still maintains an optimistic and positive attitude and never gives up on himself. He lost his musical instrument and couldn't pay the rent. He is weak and anxious. His heart ached when his wife left. Homeless, he is lost and helpless. But he still has a son with him, which is his hope and motivation. He performed his father's duties well, strong and great. Every day, he will spend less time completing the same workload as others, just to queue up for church and find a place to sleep. The hardships are unknown, and he is very tired, but he has been persevering. He is optimistic. He believes that bad things will pass and sunshine will come again. Sure enough, luck will always come to those who have been working hard. He was finally hired, his dream came true, and he succeeded.
Happiness is a psychological emotion that a person's needs are met, resulting in long-term joy and hope to maintain the status quo. It has richer connotations. The RERMA theory put forward by Martin seligman, the "father of positive psychology", provides a referential explanation framework for happiness. He believes that happiness has five elements: positive emotion, physical and mental devotion, interpersonal relationship, meaningful life and achievement. Chris finally got happiness, because his dream came true and the meaning of life came true.
Chris said to his son, don't let others tell you that you can't be a talent. If you have a dream, you must defend it and try to realize it. Everyone has ideals, and people still keep their original heart and go forward in this situation. As a college student, living in a greenhouse, the conditions are very good, you should not have dreams and beliefs, and you should not work hard. The meaning of life lies in struggle. Some people say that struggle is not about how high your starting point is and how much you have, but about how much you have done and how much you have done towards your goal. Everyone has a different life story. However, fighting for one's own life, for one's own ideal and for one's own value is the best thing that everyone can do for his own life story. So, don't fight at this time, but when.
This movie tells me that you have to earn a happy life by yourself and you can save yourself. Life is not easy, but there are many people who are more difficult than you. Therefore, no matter what difficulties you encounter, you should be optimistic about life. As long as you don't give up your efforts, the lucky kiss printed on your forehead will bloom forever. Like Chris, all sufferings can be a roller coaster to success and luck. No matter what kind of difficulties you are in, you must persist in your belief in happiness, your desire for success and your love for your loved ones. He gave me a deep shock, and I was moved by his strength, optimism, courage and hard work. As growing college students, we should constantly know ourselves, improve ourselves, shape a sound personality and strive for our ideals.
After reading Happyness's Pursuit, I can only remember the general outline of my childhood, just like impressionist paintings, leaving only some vague images, but I can't forget one scene, that is, the sweet smell of thin syrup cakes after heating in an iron pan, and then I only see the syrup cakes crackling and magically turning into candy blocks ...
Once upon a time, I was always silent in the pain of the past. I have been thinking, if our hearts can be equated with a world, are only travelers willing to live in this world? Distance is not close in the world. I want to be close to your heart for a long time. The road ahead is long, and I clearly see the texture carved on me by time and growth. It turns out that watching yourself grow up is really a cruel and cruel thing! When loss becomes eternal, we will learn to grasp it slowly. I am glad that happiness is not far away from me. I don't want to find that losing you is the biggest regret in my life when I can't turn back. But eternity is nothing more than a panic formed by connection, which is used to soothe the lost love and the pain of death. However, my life is doomed to be irrational. If I am calm enough, I may be able to blossom a blissful flower in a tragic life. So I have been waiting for a day, two days, a year, two years, waiting for happiness to come to me. Maybe after a long wait, it becomes a kind of faith, and people with faith will eventually be happier. In fact, going with the flow of people is the most cruel resistance to life arrangements. And there is a person who is willing to gamble my happiness with his youth and all his future. I said I knew the end of my life and he did this to me. I said that no matter how lively it is, it will eventually be separated. He gave up the rivers and mountains to please me. He dumped the city to enjoy my smooth life and gave up the rivers and mountains to please my trivial years. How can I bear to let him down? The best love in the world is to let the person you love find her love. After all, I found it. Any choice, as long as you keep going, you can reach your destination.
Including the pursuit of Happyness from one heart to another, I know that I have really bid farewell to the past.
After reading The Pursuit of Happyness, I have read 7 articles and 3 articles once, but I really think this book is worth reading and thinking about, so I still arrange time to read it again. I still don't think reading this book twice is enough.
Christopher Garner, the hero, is a clever salesman. He is diligent and willing to work hard, but fate seems to be playing tricks on him, and he can't make his family live a good life. After all, his wife Linda left Chris for America, because she couldn't stand the pressure of bringing home the bacon, leaving him and her 5-year-old son Christopher. His career failed and he became a single father. Because he had no money to pay the rent, he and his son had to be evicted from the apartment.
I think there is a saying that no one will forget. They were homeless at night and slept in the subway station that night. A big man sleeps in the bathroom of the subway station with his sensible son. When someone knocked at the door outside, Chris's tears came out and hugged his sleeping son tightly. At that moment, strong tears betrayed the helplessness of a big man. In the following days, the single father worked harder. On the one hand, he wants to achieve his long-term goal as soon as possible and become a qualified stockbroker. On the other hand, his short-term goal is not even short-term He just wants to go to the welfare home as soon as possible, to occupy a place for his son and himself to spend the night ... to fight for the open space where everything can live temporarily. There is no money to eat during the day, and you have to queue up for relief and eat food that is barely wrapped in your stomach. The poverty of life is very frustrating, but for the sake of his son's future and his faith, Chris gritted his teeth and told himself clearly with his helpless eyes that I must realize my dream one day.
Chris's son likes playing basketball. That time on the roof, he said something to his son that impressed me deeply. "When you have a dream, you must defend it." Judging from Chris's own actions, he really did it. He has been defending his dream of becoming a stockbroker. Although it was only an internship opportunity at first, and there was no basic salary, only 20 people were recruited in half a year, and only one of the 20 people finally became a formal agent, but Chris succeeded.
I am reminded of an old saying of China: "Heaven is going to drop a great post, and people must first suffer their minds, their bones and muscles, their bodies and their bodies, so as to confuse their actions." I really want to say that heaven is unfair. I like to push people against the wall in different ways when they are down and out. It can be said that during that time, he didn't want anything but to realize his dream, just hoping that his children would have a good time! To solve the problem of food and clothing, renting a house is not a luxury! In the church, he sang the hymn of the Lord Jesus excitedly, because his son was very good and sensible, and the father and son embraced happily! From shabby apartments to motels, public toilets and church shelters. Step by step down and out, looking for hope in despair, life will eventually move towards glory. All the grievances in the church suddenly turned into tears and hymns.
After watching The Pursuit of Happyness, I can't calm down for a long time after watching this movie. Let me see the hero's optimism, strength, self-confidence and never give up, but also realize the indifference, helplessness and hardship of the world. The failure of career, the abandonment of his wife and the embarrassment of life did not crush Chris. On the contrary, the painful experience made him more confident and self-reliant. In the predicament, he firmly believed and never gave up. Finally, when happiness came, he firmly grasped his happiness.
Aren't we the same in life? Life is a long journey, no one will be smooth sailing in this journey, and no one can predict what will happen in this journey. But one thing we can be sure of is that when God closes a door for you, she will open a window for you.
This story reminds me of thirteen years ago. Thirteen years ago, just after graduation, I left my hometown with longing and hope and came to Jinan, the provincial capital. At that time, all I had in my pocket was 100 yuan given to me by my mother. Finally, I found a job in sales promotion, selling daily necessities for a trading company. It's hard to imagine walking around the street with big bags and small bags every day. The first scene rejected by the customer, the first scene scolded by the customer, the scene of a person hiding in the corner crying …
I still remember it. That experience made me realize more deeply that when we are in trouble, giving up on ourselves will only make our situation worse, and we will get nothing but a little sympathy. On the contrary, it is time for us to work hard and save energy. When happiness comes, we can firmly grasp it, as long as we persist in faith, set goals and never give up. Coincidentally, recently a colleague was admitted to a financial institution in the city through his own efforts. In everyone's eyes, he is a lucky man. But perhaps no one saw the hardships he paid in this process. In this world, everything is a process from quantitative change to qualitative change. When we envy others' luck, we may not see how much others have paid in this process. When we watch TV, entertain and chat. ...
Maybe someone else is studying business, maybe studying professional knowledge, maybe aiming at the last position. ...
However, we often only see the success of others, but rarely see the hardships that others have paid behind their success. One hundred people, one hundred people have different lifestyles and one hundred different interpretations of happiness. What kind of life you choose, what kind of action you have to take. So don't blindly envy others' success. If you want to succeed, if you want to be the master of your own happiness, then start from bit by bit, start from the nearest goal and stick to it! Hold on! Hold on!
When happiness knocks on the door one day, you can catch her without hesitation, and then you will be the lucky one in others' eyes. In our daily work, we should always remind ourselves, are you really ready to pursue Happyness?
Comments on The Pursuit of Happyness 7 5 Whenever I mention the words "happiness" and "knocking at the door", I can't help but think of that movie-The Pursuit of Happyness.
The movie Chasing Happyness tells the story of a bankrupt salesman running around with his five or six-year-old son, trying to become a stockbroker.
When I first heard the name of this movie, I thought it was a romantic movie. Later, I learned that it was an inspirational film. After reading it, I admire Chris, the hero. How difficult it has been since he succeeded. But he has never cried to anyone, and he is still struggling. If it were me, I'm afraid I would have given up and lived on the streets. Chris finally became a stockbroker, not because he was proficient in mathematics since childhood, but because he never gave up, never backed down, and was honest and diligent. He never complains about the hardships of life, and always believes that all current poverty is only temporary. And when his son is sad and desperate, he will also give encouragement, but also encourage himself. If it were me, maybe I would be completely desperate and cry that God is unfair to me. Before watching this movie, I often think about how sad my life is and I am not happy at all. But after reading it, I feel that I am already very happy compared with Chris.
After watching this movie, I understand that "a person's success depends on his persistence and hard work".
After reading The Pursuit of Happyness, article 7, article 6, The Pursuit of Happiness. When I saw this name, I thought, this story must have a happy ending. The story that can be seen at a glance may not be very exciting. But for me, who is in the hesitation period of my career and I don't know the direction of advance and retreat, I have given endless encouragement at the moment.
The prototype of this film is the true story of chris gardner in a program in 2003. The film tells the story of how Chris faced incredible difficulties, how to overcome the dilemma of career failure, his wife leaving him and being homeless, and finally succeeded. This is not only a story of going from poverty to wealth, but also a successful case of realizing his dream. To inspire our generation of comfortable people who wander on the edge of their dreams.
Although there are still many flaws in the film, these do not affect people's positive evaluation of it. For Chris, he is a good husband who dares to face the reality and take on family responsibilities. Is a good father who always protects his children and strives to create happiness and happiness for them. A good man who never gets discouraged in the face of adversity and works hard for happiness. As far as this plot is concerned, this is a touching father-son story, and it is also a microcosm of greatness and diligence shown in adversity. After watching this movie, I asked myself a natural question: Can I do it? Can I endure and face so many sufferings and misfortunes like Chris? I remembered the famous saying of Dozzi Pincuo: Cowards are worn away in the face of difficulties and hardships; A brave man will sharpen his will. In the face of reality, he may be a brave man, but I have become a coward.
Chris's success lies not only in his diligence and open mind, but more importantly, he can recognize the essence of the whole event, and he doesn't care about making decisions. Once he has made a decision, he will definitely work hard and will never give up easily. Even if the road ahead is difficult and dangerous, he should face it calmly. My summary of Chris' success is as follows:
Be able to define your life goals.
A life without an aim is like a kite with a broken line and no center of gravity. The goal is the real determination to expect to achieve your career. How to set goals, you can't daydream, which is somewhat unrealistic, and you can't be too quiet about the inherent life orientation in the past. You have to make a new plan for your life at the right time, according to the basic points of life and constantly changing due to the environment, in order to be truly successful. Chris's original dream was to realize his life goal by selling the so-called "time machine", but in the end he found it was a mistake. This kind of product sales that can't adapt to the contemporary society can not only change his current predicament, but also push himself to the abyss of failure step by step. Only in another way can it be the only way for him to change his current poor life. Through understanding brokers, combined with their actual situation, I finally determined my career goal-stockbroker. In his view, he has two elements to become a broker: mathematics and interpersonal relationship. In mathematics, he can. Although he has no interpersonal relationship at present, he believes that good interpersonal relationship can be established through good communication skills. This is also the premise that he believes he can become a qualified broker.
Be good at seizing opportunities
Gorky said that in any case, only those who are good at using opportunities can get it. Opportunity is created by God, and the expected opportunity is not equal to the created opportunity. Half of a person's success is opportunity. Once the opportunity is lost, it will be a lifelong regret. Seizing every opportunity to prove one's ability is the starting point to achieve the goal. Chris just caught this, happened to meet Mr. Torstel on the road, and showed him his ability by playing magic. Finally, he was appreciated by those people and became a powerful promoter of his internship. In my opinion, on the road of life, we will wait for opportunities through our own efforts, but the most exciting opportunities also have shortcuts. Writer Liang once told the top secret of some lucky people's success. He said: some people catch the express train of opportunity and go with the wind; Some missed it and regretted it for life; Some people fail to realize their talents all their lives and bury them silently. So when opportunity knocks, don't hesitate to open the door, or it will knock on someone else's door.
Make decisive decisions about the difficulties encountered.
As soon as it is interrupted, it is chaotic. Conceptual thinking determines life, and choice determines success or failure. On the long road of life, how to choose may really make people hesitate, but the limited time will definitely not give us too much room for thinking. Sometimes, we have to make a decisive decision. If Chris is at a loss in the interview because he can't get the approval of the recruiter, then he won't get the internship opportunity. During his internship, Chris learned that he had no salary and the admission rate was only 1/20. If he could not decide whether to participate in internship training, he would never become a stockbroker. Although it is inevitable to hesitate to think, we should be more decisive and bold. When we feel ready, the opportunity may not belong to us, so as to minimize the regret caused by missing the opportunity and strengthen this sense of urgency! Because opportunities always slip away in our indecision.
Self-affirmation and self-comfort in adversity
This movie reminds me of Robinson's life on a desert island. In such a desperate situation, anyone must first solve their psychological problems and adjust their mentality before taking the next step. That's why Robinson found a reason to live despite his desperate situation. Like Robinson, Chris's feeling of life in the dinosaur era from the loss of being cleared out of the house by the landlord to sleeping in the subway station also shows that he can complete his psychological adjustment in a very short time and lay a good psychological foundation for his smooth survival in this city. His self-consolation is also worthy of recognition.
Interpersonal relationship is the key to Chris's success.
As a broker, interpersonal relationship is very important. If you want to be an excellent broker, you must deal with the interpersonal relationship between him and his boss and colleagues, and the most important thing is to get on well with customers. Because brokers, not students, are in the workplace, interpersonal relationships are as important as sales performance. Without good interpersonal relationships, you can't make good achievements, and you can't succeed without good relationships with leaders. Since his internship, Chris has been constantly building his own interpersonal relationship. In front of the boss, he often says hello to Frame and even lends money to Frame. Even if he is in a hurry to meet a client, he will help Frakes park the car. In the intense study on weekdays, he will never forget to help his colleagues do some trivial things. On the customer side, he also knows how to establish good interpersonal relationships with customers in different ways, such as home visits and telephone thanks. Because of the outstanding performance in interpersonal relationship and sales performance, it was recognized by the major shareholder Frame, so it was successful among the two people who got the highest score.
To be the best of yourself is to think about everything from your own point of view. At first glance, it seems easy to think that it is a narrow and selfish biased view, but it is not. After watching this movie, I know that this sentence encourages people to face their life with a positive attitude, and everything is in their own hands. Look at yourself objectively and see how to choose your own success and fight for it.
Chris made me understand that everyone has the freedom to choose. Frank said: in any extreme environment, people always have the last freedom, that is, the freedom to choose their own attitude. In fact, any one of us can create our own life and change our status as long as we have a dream and enough will and determination. I believe that as long as we continue to work hard, we will succeed. I remember Chris' words: Don't let others tell you that you can't be a talent, not even me. If you have a dream, you have to defend it. Those who have accomplished nothing want to tell you that you can't achieve great things, that is, if you have an ideal, you must work hard to realize it.
After reading The Pursuit of Happyness, seven classic literary works are always full of touching spiritual strength. The Pursuit of Happyness is a small investment movie with no special effects, gorgeous scenes and deep music. However, relying on simple stories, everyone can experience and feel, which is enough to conquer Hollywood and the audience. This movie still brings us a lot of reflection. Here, I will focus on some experiences about the workplace of the task force.
How can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain? Plum blossom fragrance comes from bitter cold. At the end of the film, when Chris was officially informed of his employment, his eyes turned red and his hands trembled, thanking him again and again, just like the narrator at this time: this period in my life is called happiness! This is happiness, real happiness ... these truths in daily life may be known to all of us, and how to guide practical work in combination with work is worth thinking about by every manager and professional. In the real enterprise management environment, we will find out how to motivate employees, make them willing to work and have a grateful heart, which is an artistic knowledge. In the film, Chris's efforts and hardships when he finally got the job opportunity were from the heart. At the same time, we can see that the rules of the game of the company he applied for are set like this, that is, there is no salary for half a year, and one of the top 20 people is selected. This rule convinced the participants that they were willing to gamble and lose. The enlightenment of this point is how to ensure openness and fairness when we make management systems and incentives, so that those who participate in the competition can respect the rules and their opponents, thus achieving the company. There is an old saying in China that "the poor are not equal". Haidilao is an admirable enterprise recently. The quality and treatment of employees are not high, but the happiness has indeed spread to every customer, supplier and even competitor from the inside out, and it has become the object of emulation in the industry. The design of the system is based on human nature, and the management concept is based on humanistic care. Personally, this is the cornerstone.
How to motivate my resources from company to company and give full play to people's initiative and enthusiasm? The pursuit of Happyness also shows its mystery. When a group of interns experienced a day's practical training and the supervisor pointed to the opposite office building and told everyone what the specific task was, everyone rushed to the front line of work crazily, because they knew in their hearts what every step and every phone call meant to them. This tests the wisdom of every manager. When motivating employees, not only draw cakes, but also give a detailed plan to eat cakes. All the work is finally implemented in a small process, a phone call and a drawing. At the same time, employees can clearly see how much they can gain from their efforts, rather than determining their income according to the mood and face of the person who allocates resources. Experienced trainers know that if you take props yourself when doing group activities, the value of props is generally very small. If the performance of designing a small activity is related to the acquisition of props, then the final props will be paid more attention and used. This contains the consistency of commitment of one of the six major influences of human beings in social psychology, that is, the more difficult it is to obtain something, the more people will pay attention to it.
Different people have different opinions. There are a thousand Hamlets in the eyes of a thousand audiences. I believe everyone will have their own ideas after watching the movie Chasing Happyness. This paper only expounds some personal views from the aspects of humanization, fairness and initiative of management system.