Getting married or starting a career first has always been a question that contemporary young people have been thinking deeply about. Until one day, my friend said this to me: "A good mother and a good wife make a career."

At first, I didn't believe in the so-called hand-in-hand love. Until the story of my brother and sister-in-law changed my mind, my brother may not be as lucky as others since he was a child. His parents divorced and his father remarried when he was very young. It seems to me that he has never been loved by his parents, and he dropped out of school in junior high school. I haven't seen him much since. Until last year, I heard from my parents that my brother was getting married and the woman's family wanted 200 thousand. I said, "How can he afford it?" Indeed, he really couldn't afford it, because he was still working for others at that time and didn't have a deposit of 200 thousand. However, this did not affect the wedding date. The reason is because the eldest sister-in-law and the two of them persuaded the family together.

Maybe in everyone's eyes, what does this have to do with marriage? The problem is that my married brother seems to be a different person. Now he has his own shop and the baby is coming soon. Therefore, I want to say that choice is greater than effort.

Choose a job first when you meet a noble person, and get married first when you meet a lover. Choice is greater than effort. What is more terrible than poverty is to be content with the status quo and set goals, and put chores on both sides # life #