It's better to be distant. Why are office romances popular? The distance is close, and the feelings are close. It's hard to sit together every day without feeling. Of course, this feeling is not necessarily love, but sometimes love, like other feelings, is not so easy to define; It is easy to transform each other, so you will be caught if you are not careful.

What should I do if I can't establish an intimate relationship in distance? Let the other person know that "you are paying attention to him (her)" through various contact methods. Love rat may contact four or five girls at the same time, so we can only contact one.

If you have nothing to do, contact more, pick you up at work, see you off after work, and when the other person gets used to your existence, then he will naturally accept you.

Second, consider the problem from the other side's perspective.

Give each other what they want. In this way, you can gradually make the other person attach to you, generate trust, generate feelings and generate love. If it is not easy to do materially, it must be done at the level of consciousness. If the other person feels insecure, promise to accompany him; If the other person lacks trust, encourage him.

Normal people build relationships gradually. On the other hand, love rat will give everything that can and cannot be given from the beginning. When you get used to it, he runs away.

So if you want to get love, you have to attack harder. Of course, it should be noted here that it is what the other party wants, not what you want. Otherwise, it may be counterproductive.

Third, persistence, shameless, persistence.

The pursuit of love, we must persist, shameless, shameless.

Looking back, I pursued my lover, and even when my present daughter-in-law told me not to look for her again, I insisted on looking for her. Finally, when I was poorest, I chased my daughter-in-law.

Persistence is the most important personality quality, and it is the quality that we must use to accomplish anything. In the pursuit of love, nature is no exception. When you pursue each other, they are also examining you. Your shortcomings and your strengths will be considered by the other party, but in the end they will form an impression according to the central quality standards. A good impression is half the battle; A bad impression is half the battle. However, persistence itself is a good core quality standard. Ok. Do you understand?

Shameless, but also for persistence. Do you insist when the other person hits you? It's shameful that you continue to insist after the other party hit you. You have to persist to reverse your impression in the other person's mind. If you give up easily, you will lose the chance to reverse.

Fourth, strive to improve yourself.

While pursuing each other, we should strive to improve our abilities in all aspects. We pursue love and hope to get beauty and happiness in love. But we can't put all our energy into this matter.

There is also a famous saying: if we can't reach an object, why not try to walk into some?

Improving yourself will improve your attractiveness. Will improve their success rate in doing anything.

In short, there are many ways to improve the success rate of pursuing love. The project here is definitely incomplete. But if we can achieve mastery through a comprehensive study, we will certainly benefit a lot.