A: "Friends are a kind of encounter. In the vast world, the dust is rolling, among all living beings, in the vast sea of ??people, friends can meet each other, can walk together, know each other, understand each other, and get closer to each other. , It’s really fate.” B: “Friends are a process of getting to know each other, recognizing each other, admiring each other, appreciating each other, and perceiving each other. Each other’s strengths, strengths, and highlights will be imprinted in your mind and will become your upward direction. "A: "Friends, they are the ones who share happiness with you, make you happy when you are happy, decompose difficulties when you are in trouble, help you get rid of loneliness when you are lonely, and are the ones who help you get rid of loneliness when you are down. The person who encourages you." B: "A friend is someone that everyone wants to have, and a person that everyone wants to become. To make everyone become friends and to continuously strengthen the friendship, we need something called friendship. "To water things." The theme of our class meeting today is - Making Friends A: Now let's exchange famous quotes, poems, and excellent songs about praising friendship and cherishing friends. B: "Now I just want to ask you a few questions: 1. How do you think you should make friends? You can also talk about your own experiences in making friends." 2. Ask the students to talk about a good friend of theirs. He ( What is it about her that attracts you? 3. Who is good friends with whom in the class? Why? 4. Among your friends, which category has the most friends? Which category has the least? Which category can be expanded? Why ?………….(students’ answers) A: “Yes, in fact, traditional Confucianism attaches great importance to friendship and proposes the four conditions of “sincerity”, “faithfulness”, “benevolence” and “loyalty”.” B: “Sincerity” It means to be sincere to your friends, trust means to make them feel that you are trustworthy, benevolence means to be sympathetic and friendly to your friends, and loyalty means to be sincere and selfless to your friends." B: "Then let's go on. Let’s watch a skit. I invite classmates XXX and XXX to come on stage.” A: “The name of the skit is - Examination. Xiaohan and Xiaoyu are close friends in school, whether in class or after class. The two were inseparable. During an exam, Xiaohan and Xiaoyu were lucky enough to be seated next to each other. During the exam, Xiaoyu couldn't solve a question, and Xiaohan next to him was scratching his head and scratching his head. Xiaoyu looked at him and said, "Xiaohan, tell me your answer." Xiaohan said, "That's not easy." Xiaoyu stared at him and said, "Are you a friend? Are you a brother?" ' Xiaohan said helplessly: 'Okay, okay, I'll write it to you. ' Then he took Xiaoyu's test paper and wrote. Xiaoyu happily took the test paper and said repeatedly: 'Okay, okay, that's enough. Friends.'" B: "This skit is over, so let's think about it, is this behavior appropriate? What should we do when meeting friends?" .........A: "At home? Rely on your parents, and rely on your friends outside. This sentence illustrates the importance of friends, and also shows that the role of friends is to rely on each other, and more importantly, to rely on each other. It shows that friends should ask for nothing and do not expect to ask for anything from their friends. What, only in this way can we be alone and feel more comfortable." B: "Now, let's play a little game called 'find friends with your hands.'" A: "The rules of the game are to find a classmate to come up and use his hands. Cover your eyes with a red scarf, and ask another classmate to come up and ask him to recognize this classmate by touching him. (Classmates play a game) B: “The game is over, now let’s talk about making online friends.” Knowledge. ” 1. When making friends online, you need to be careful in choosing your friends, and do not post dating ads in a haphazard manner, otherwise it will have negative consequences. 2. There are many people on the Internet, so be on guard against others. Don’t leak your information at the beginning. You are not allowed to give out your phone number and address. 3. If the other party asks about height, weight, measurements, etc. at the beginning, you should immediately cut off the conversation and exit. 4. Some online scammers ask you to use money to start a business together without being able to chat with you. Don’t be fooled. 5. Do not disclose the third party’s phone number, address or other information without the third party’s approval. Otherwise it is not only impolite, but also dangerous.
6. If you are bothered by someone and you don’t know how to deal with it, you can add the other party to the blacklist so that she will not be able to continue to struggle with you no matter how long she has. Sensitive topic: Are there real friends between people of the opposite sex? How should we grasp the boundaries and propriety? For reference only: When interacting with students of the opposite sex, you should be honest, natural and generous, you should grasp the emotional propriety, be enthusiastic but not frivolous, and generous Rather than being vulgar, pay attention to appearance, conversation, and civility. Ask students to express their personal opinions... B: "Now, let's take a short test." A: "Please take out a piece of paper, see the questions on the blackboard, and tick the one you think is yes or no. Just write the serial number. "Question: (1) In addition to your parents or siblings, do you have a close friend with whom you can talk to each other? (2) Do you have two or more friends who have been friends for many years? Old friends? (3) In addition to your peers, do you still have some old friends? (4) When you encounter an accident, can you easily find a friend to help you solve the problem? (5), Do you go to your friends' house once a week? (6) Do you often miss your friends during holidays? (7) When your friends invite you to play, under normal circumstances, do you look for something like " Please politely decline with excuses such as "I'm too busy recently"? (8) When your friends encounter difficulties (such as illness), do you take the initiative to express your concern? (9) Do you often make phone calls or write letters? Do you maintain closer contact with friends far away? (10). Do you add new friends every once in a while? (11) Is the purpose of your relationship not to gain some "convenience" for yourself, but purely to win friendship? (12) When you are busy and a friend comes to visit, will you still warmly welcome him? (13) In addition to giving gifts, do you have more ways to enhance friendship? (14) When you meet When you are unlucky or lonely, do you go out and complain to your friends? A: "Now, everyone can calculate the scores. A tick is one point. If the total score reaches 12 or more, it means you have a strong ability to make friends." B: "A score of 9 to 11 means that you have a good ability to make friends." A: "A score of 6 to 8 means that you can still maintain friendships with friends." B: "A score of below 5 means that your ability to make friends is poor. ." B: "Finally, let us end today's class meeting with singing. I hope that students who can sing will sing together." Summary: What is the warmest thing in life? Not the fire in the cold winter, not the spring breeze in March, but friendship. This kind of emotion can melt ice and snow, surpass fire, and give people infinite wisdom and strength. A person's life without true friendship is a barren life, a desolate life, like a land without green life, like a dead tree without branches, leaves and flowers. There is nothing more beautiful and pleasant in the world than friendship; without friendship, the world seems to have lost the sun. So please students cherish the friendship between friends.