According to the truth, there are always two digressions at the beginning of an article, and I want to say one digression.

Because I really don't know how to start this topic, in fact, this question is very erratic. I don't want to cook it into chicken soup, and I don't want it to be too evil, so I have to pull it.

Some time ago, my former colleague Xiao resigned and complained a lot to me. I still know Xiao very well. He is a big boy, optimistic, cheerful and responsible. Because he is a chatterbox, his professional ability is not bad. In the previous company, I was also an old man. On weekdays, I have a good relationship with everyone. This is everyone's pistachio. I can say a few words to anyone. We are good friends at first sight, and the leader loves to take him to dinner, which can make customers happy.

However, Xiao said that he was never valued in the company (or valued, even when I was still in that company). At ordinary times, it seems that everyone needs him, and there is no right to speak at the critical moment, and the leaders do not give opportunities. They always work hard and lack credit. Recently, the company transferred personnel. I thought I could succeed as a veteran, but I didn't expect to find my name on the promotion list.

Small ah resigned in a fit of pique. In fact, he talked a lot, and I can understand the reasons, but I really can't explain the reasons. One is afraid of running counter to his three views, and the other is afraid that his advantages will change from now on.

What are the advantages of small A? Yes, it is.

Kindness and gentleness

Because I have worked with Xiao A, I can clearly know his usual performance and impression, including understanding the political skills of the leader and the conflict point of Xiao A.

Of course, I have heard more than that around me, and I have seen countless examples. Friends, colleagues, relatives, many people I know are troubled by such troubles, and the reason is often that good men are too kind and cheerful.

You might say that these characters are very good. I don't deny that my own personality actually belongs to this column, but I never show these good personalities too much in my work, because work is a complicated relationship between fame and fortune.

The company is not the place where you are too smart to joke.

Some people are naturally humorous and have their own focus. I am always impressed in the process of interacting with people.

This is a good thing, but don't overdo it.

A former colleague is such a person.

When you go to another company to do business, you can not only talk to the other manager for an afternoon, but also give my sister's contact information to the front desk before you leave.

In the usual meeting, a casual serious gag can also ease the tense atmosphere, and the leaders also laugh, neither talking about business nor annoying.

Smart, lots of ideas. Often give advice to colleagues and think of some tips, which is the intimate aunt of colleagues.

Such people will naturally attract the attention of others. There was appreciation and kindness in his eyes, and he unconsciously immersed himself in it and was complacent.

Smart subordinates and humorous colleagues are definitely the perfect combination of boring work. But if you can't grasp the degree, you will always be a good soldier and never become a general.

In the workplace, you will never think of what others are thinking. You should always remember that everything has two sides.

In everyone's eyes, you are humorous and smiling every day, which proves that you are optimistic and sunny, but you don't seem to care so much about anything. Because no job is without difficulties and there is no time to suffer. You know, crying children have milk to eat.

In everyone's eyes, you are smart and have many small ideas. You always like to express your opinions and are liked by everyone. But do you know why leaders always ask your ideas first? Because your cleverness in expressing your opinions is the trigger for everyone's brainstorming. You are not a dinner, but an appetizer.

In everyone's eyes, you like joking, and you can make your work happy, although everyone knows that you can do your work well with jokes. But everyone thinks you may be a little boy. After explaining your task, you have to ask your boss to look after it more, because you are not at ease! Who knows, you do your work well every time you joke, but next time, what if the joke gets too big?

In the workplace, just the right clever and funny jokes can make your eyes shine, but don't forget the great energy brought by silence and listening.

Always regarded as a good guy, you are everyone's good friend, destined to be only a good friend.

At work, many people are very kind to others, never conflict with others, and always talk and laugh; Many people are warm-hearted, either comforting female colleagues or encouraging male colleagues; Many people are considerate and always act as peacemakers, and the contradictions between colleagues are always solved by his face; Many people, in the eyes of others, have no enemies, no competitors, only friends. You and everyone are good friends.

Yes, that's you, boy.

It is true that a team always needs all kinds of people to share different team roles. Just like Friar Sand, it is important, but not necessary.

But you don't want to be a good person, but you have been a good person. That's your problem.

You can be gentle, but you don't have to be gregarious; You can care about your colleagues, but you don't have to be a pawn in everything; You can fight back in conflict, but you don't have to be good friends with everyone.

Have you ever found that someone can play a few jokes on you because they are nice to you!

Have you ever found that everyone asks you for help, even if it is such a small matter as handing tea and taking things, because you are easy to talk to!

Have you ever found that anyone can ignore your opinions and ideas, even colleagues at a lower level than you, because you won't be angry!

Not only that! Because there's something you don't know.

Leaders will not plan every important decision with you, and even working partners who need peer consultation will not communicate with you in advance. Because they know that you are everyone's good friend! Good friends can enjoy everything, right? But at work, secrets are often not shared, and each team's strategic deployment and mechanism decision-making are secrets (for example, some incentive systems for sales and strategic deployment of the company can be completed with all their efforts without the knowledge of members). )

Therefore, you are often the last person to know, even if you are in an important position. Not to mention, you often feel inadvertently ignored.

As leaders, they are all good at tactics. Since ancient times, the emperor was most afraid of cronyism and cliques. A leader is not afraid of not having the core of team unity, but most afraid of uniting the team against his own leader. Don't say that the leader doesn't give you the right. They deeply know that people in the workplace are ignorant of their faces. Don't say you can't. What if you have rights in the future?

They are all in vanity fair, greedy for everything. Therefore, just because you have the potential to be his opponent, don't say that the leader won't delegate power to you.

Everyone knows that you are a good man, so you can't expect any prestige. If it is a leader friend, how to deal with it? Colleagues will think that I sold your face in those days, and now you are fighting with me. Are you embarrassed?

You can be Friar Sand, but you won't be the Monkey King, let alone Tang Priest. Sometimes you are not even a little white dragon, because Tang Priest can chat with the little white dragon unilaterally when he is bored. Can the leader talk to you?

Just get along well with the team. You are a good person and a good impression in everyone's mind. But pay attention, good people do good deeds, which is a sharp weapon for your disguise and an advantage for you to do things. But if you don't do well, you will become the object of all people's pointing fingers, and of course you may also become a thorn in the side of the leader.

If you turn yourself into a donkey, don't complain about others riding you.

At the beginning of that year, there was a little girl who just graduated from the company and was quite shy. At first, I was assigned to my group and worked as my assistant for a while.

Through contact, I know that she is a kind girl who speaks softly, perhaps because she has just come to the company, and there is always a little timidity in her movements and eyes.

The girl is eager to learn, and several familiar colleagues are willing to help her, and the problems encountered at work also help her think and solve. The little girl is like a happy magpie every day, full of vitality.

Not long after, after officially joining the company, the little girl was transferred to other departments. Maybe it's bad luck, maybe it really offends people. It is common for her to stand there and be scolded when passing through their department's territory. Anyone can shout a few words, but she just needs to massage her back, not to mention bringing tea and water. One day, my colleagues and I were smoking on the terrace and caught her hiding and wiping her tears. My colleague pulled her over and asked what happened.

It turns out that after the little girl was transferred to that department, she started at the bottom. Because she is easy to talk, she is always told to do things. At first, the leader would feel sorry for her. Later, her group screwed up a single task, and her colleagues pointed the finger at her inexplicably. The little girl is also a monk in Zhang Er. She has been thinking and accepting all her mistakes. I want to say that young people should have the opportunity to make mistakes, and nothing serious will happen. Even if you help your colleagues, it's personal. It's just that she didn't expect that from then on, more and more pots hit her face, and the leaders began to get a little bored with her. When she tried to explain, others stared at her, but she couldn't make it clear. The leader could only sigh and shake his head.

Later, when I was drinking with their leader (although my level was higher than mine, I was familiar with all the old employees across departments), I told him about it, and her leader blinked, so why didn't she refute it? Why don't you talk to me?

Why? Kind, shy and unprincipled, thinking that patience is calm.

There are many reasons. Can't you blame your colleagues for being too vicious?

Later, he was transferred to work in the present city and rarely returned to the headquarters. During this time, I went back to the headquarters for a few days because of something, and suddenly found the little girl, dressed in a formal suit, arguing with a colleague about her work and patting the table. Now she is a small supervisor, without the childishness of that year.

I chatted with her old leader and learned that she is now very important in the company. The girl is kind and earnest, recognized by Party A, and dares to express her opinions. She also dares to face Party A directly because of Party A's mistakes, but she has formed her own strong style.

She poured back the sewage of her colleagues several times before, even if the cold water she poured later was boiled and then poured back. The original colleagues did not dare to bully her, for fear of making things big, many things were treated coldly, and even deliberately gave her a difficult problem to solve. Unexpectedly, she solved all the problems one by one, but left a good impression on the top of the company.

Compared with the rapid promotion later, it was more due to her seriousness and talent, but after the company meeting that day, she jumped like a little girl who brought me a bag of hot snacks. She thanked me for helping her when she entered the company.

I said, little sister, you have grown up a lot.

She said, I just dare to speak and make the principles clear. No one can bully me even if I am short!

Haha, who said it wasn't?

The workplace is vanity fair and will be a great success. Although we are not cruel or black-bellied, we are not stepping stones to be bullied at will.

You can be kind and gentle, but even if the bottom line is lower, you can't be without principles.

In the workplace, whether you are working, being a person or doing things, principles are your sharp weapon and your strong shield.

This is the workplace. Not many people want to ride you, but many people will bully you.

It's always good to be kind to others, but please be smart. Kindness is a character, but it is not a good weapon.

If we meet in a narrow way, no weapons will always be looked down upon.

Inspirational quotes in the workplace

1. Success lies not in talent, but in ideals. Tokuda Torao

2. Do you want to be a happy person? I hope you learn to suffer first. Turgenev

Life is a dangerous canyon, only brave people can cross it. Michepan

4. Work hard: Work is the most reliable wealth. Lafontaine

With the support of a noble purpose, persistent efforts, even if slow, will certainly succeed. [Name] Albert Einstein (Jewish theoretical physicist)

6. * * * Same cause; * * * With struggle, people can have the power to endure everything. Ostrovsky

7. The morning of life is work, the afternoon is comment, and the night is prayer. Hesiod

8. Genius is the infinite ability to work hard. Carlyle

9. Perseverance can conquer any peak in the world. bewitched

10, nothing is difficult in the world, if you put your mind to it. Huang xing

1 1, whoever goes to the dance academy will accomplish nothing; Whoever can't dominate himself will always be a slave. Goethe

12, people's thinking is amazing. As long as they focus on a certain cause, they will certainly achieve amazing achievements. [Name] Mark Twain (American humorist, novelist, writer and speaker)

13, we often hear people say that people have a nervous breakdown because of overwork, but in fact, nine times out of ten, they are suffering from troubles or anxiety. Sir lubbock.

14. Struggle is a school to master skills, and frustration is a bridge to truth. Goethe

15, the great cause is rooted in unremitting work, with full spirit, and does not avoid hardships. Rosso

16, the quality of the road lies not in how rugged it is, but in who can finally achieve the goal. Shen baofeng

17, diligence is a good training, and one point of hard work is one point of talent. Hua

18, people's perseverance is the measure of determination. Mutnaibi

19, success doesn't need any special talent, just do the little things you can do well. Viron

20. I think setbacks and hardships are good opportunities to exercise my will and improve my ability. Zou Taofen

2 1, laziness is punished not only by your own failure, but also by the success of others. Jurena

22. Perseverance can squeeze water out of rocks. proverb

I succeeded because I was determined and never hesitated. Napoleon

24. No animal is more diligent than the ant, but it is the most reticent. Franklin

25. If work is a pleasure, life is heaven! Goethe

A machine can do the work of fifty ordinary people, but no machine can do the work of a great man. Hubbard

27, one minute, one minute. For scientists, it is not eight hours a day, but every inch of yin should be precious and every inch of yang should be contested! T.C.Tung

In order to fight, we must twist all our forces into a rope and concentrate on the same attack point. Friedrich Engels

We should turn life into a scientific dream and then turn it into reality. Madame Curie

The most difficult time is the day when we are not far from success. Caesar

3 1, always look on the bright side, this is the secret of my success in life. cork

32. Live honestly and don't dream! Only by working honestly can you have a bright future. Dostoevsky

33. One minute of success costs years of failure. Brown

34. Success is a steep ladder. You can't climb it with your hand in your trouser pocket. anonymous

As long as you are determined to succeed, failure will never knock you down. Og Mandino

36. Only victory can survive, only success has a price, and only cultivation has a harvest. anonymous

No matter what you do, as long as you work hard, you will not fail. newton

38. All happiness is not without troubles, and all adversity is not without hope. bacon

39. Optimism is confidence in the road to success; Nothing can be achieved without hope. Helen Keller

40. All persistence will pay off sooner or later. angel

4 1, there is no other way to succeed except to do your job with all your strength. Don't worry about seeking fame and reputation. Longferro

42. Honor envies success, but success regards it as honor. Rosdan

I am by no means pessimistic. I want to get more jobs. I will work for our socialist motherland until the last breath of my life. Ba Jin

44. If you don't do something useful, you won't succeed. Xue Xuan

45. The most successful people are often those who dare to take big risks. Bergson

46. To love life from work is to know the deepest secret of life. Gibran

47. Courage and perseverance. True wisdom is firm ambition. Napoleon

48. A great cause is rooted in perseverance, continuous efforts, full of energy and no avoidance of hardships. Russell

49. Those who can't learn from failure have a long way to success. anonymous

50. Getting wealth through hard work is the greatest pleasure in life. Balzac

5 1. Once one goal is achieved, set another goal immediately. This is a successful life pattern. Yao le si ka nai Ji

If a person has no perseverance, he can't do anything. newton

53. The human brain and limbs are the same. If you use it too much, it will work, but if you don't use it, it will be useless. yisheng mao

54. What is really remarkable about a real scholar is that he secretly did a lot of great work before his death, but he was not famous for it. Balzac

55. Life can't be twice, but many people are not good at spending it once. Rukai

56. Great work is done not by strength but by patience. Johnson

57. Only by working nonstop for a long time can you feel refreshed and find a reason to live. Chekhov

58. In the process of struggle, you will often suffer setbacks. Only by sticking to the end will we achieve final success. Su Le

59. People with lofty ideals should not neglect the work at hand. Euripides

60, the ruler is relatively short; Every inch has its advantages. Insufficient things; I can't think clearly. Qu Yuan

6 1, it can be said that success depends on three things: work hard and try again. Able to bear hardships and stand hard work

62. The value of life is measured by the times when people work for it. Wei Xu

He who doesn't care whether others appreciate him or not will surely succeed. Kinkir

64. Whoever can enrich every moment with profound content is prolonging his life indefinitely. Kurz

65. One of the great advantages of outstanding people is their perseverance in unfavorable and difficult encounters. Beethoven

66. As long as you stand up once more than you fall down, that is success. Hong ling

67. Life is not equal to breathing, but an activity. Rousseau

No matter what you do, as long as you have unlimited enthusiasm for it, you can succeed. Schwab

69. Strive for success, but don't expect success. michael faraday

70. Diligence should be the decisive factor in the formation of genius. Guo Moruo

7 1, which requires little from people and gives a lot to people, is the style of pine trees. mould

72. Life is like a fable, its value lies not in its length, but in its content. Seneca, Lucius Annaeus

73. If you try something hopeless, you will often succeed. Shakespeare

74. True freedom belongs to those who earn their own living and make a difference in their work. Locklin Wood

75. Work is the value of life, and the joy of life is also the happiness. rodin

76, people help me, never forget; I help people, remember. Hua

77. Only by completing the hard work of its development for a long time and immersing in the task for a long time can we expect to achieve something. Hegel

78. The only way to revitalize the world is for everyone to do the work at hand. Don't aim too high, just aim for great achievements. Chakingsley

79. There are no people in the world who are enthusiastic and brave in pursuing success and can succeed. Napoleon

If I see far, it is because I stand on the shoulders of giants. newton

8 1. Life is gorgeous in the flash and real in the ordinary. fool

82. Only by turning the mood of complaining about the environment into a driving force for progress can we guarantee success. Romain Rolland

The best shortcut to success is to let people know clearly that your success is in their interest. Jean de Labruyere

84. The way to finish the work is to cherish every minute. Darwin

What life lacks is not talent but ambition, not the ability to succeed but the will to work hard. Guo Erwang

What people lack is not talent but ambition, not the ability to succeed but the will to work hard. Buerwei

87. If a person wants to help the weak, he should become strong by himself, instead of becoming weak like them. Romain Rolland

88. Success is addictive, and you want more success after success. Mark Burnett

89. Success lies not in strength, but in persistence. Samuel Johnson

90. To experience life, we must grasp the reality and believe in it. Latit

9 1, I might as well play the role of a grindstone, which can sharpen steel knives, although it can't cut anything by itself. Horace

92. A person's life is short, but if he is stingy, it will be too long. Shakespeare

93. The future is bright and beautiful. Love it, run towards it, work hard for it, meet it and make it a reality as much as possible! Chernyshevski

We know that individuals are weak, but we also know that the whole is strength. Marx

95. Those who achieve great things are not ashamed; Those who have made great contributions will forgive them. Feng Menglong

96. There are no rewards to encourage hard work in the world. All rewards are only used to reward work results. anonymous

Quotations from the classic lines of "Son of the Weather": The weather is reversed because of you, and the world is sunny because of you.

1, it is sunny now!

"I prefer sunny dishes to blue sky."

The sky is deeper than the sea, and it is an unknown world.

The weather is reversed because of you, and the world is sunny because of you.

Nice to meet you.

Whether it is sunny or rainy, I just want to meet you.

I just want to see her again.

8. You let me find the meaning of existence.

No matter where you are, I will try my best to see you.

10 please, we've been together like this.

1 1. Just the appearance of the sky can change people's mood.

12, the sky is another world, since ancient times.

13, I never knew so many people longed for the blue sky.

14, the weather is really incredible, and the appearance of the sky alone is touching.

15, this is a secret about the world that only she and I know.

16, 100% sunshine girl?

17, "Brave Love Together".

18, that summer, above that sky, we completely changed the world.

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