Buddha said, looking back 500 times in the past life, this life passed by. And two people can meet in the vast sea of people, and know each other, love each other and stay together. What a rare fate. But as the saying goes, marriage is the grave of love. Love is a matter for two people, and marriage is a matter for two families. Once married, there will be many complicated things to consider, so there will be more problems. Therefore, it is very common for couples to quarrel, and it is possible that a small matter may become a fuse.

But fighting is not a bad thing. If two people treat each other as guests, there may be a problem. Sometimes when a husband and wife quarrel, friends or relatives will say "quarrel at the bedside and make peace at the end of the bed", which is a folk saying. I think many people have heard of it, but why can couples quarrel at the head of the bed and at the end of the bed? The first sentence of this proverb tells us why! This is because "husband and wife have no overnight enmity."

Sometimes quarreling may be to vent their dissatisfaction with each other. When the quarrel is over, the anger will be gone and nothing will happen. After all, some couples get along like this, and they always quarrel from time to time. This will not only affect the feelings, but the louder the noise, the deeper the feelings. If husband and wife want to spend their lives together, they must learn to tolerate each other. Only in this way can they live longer. And be honest. If you have any questions, you'd better speak frankly and solve them as soon as possible. If you really quarrel, you will quarrel, but you can't hold grudges. It's normal for couples to have friction, but after quarreling and making up, the matter is over. Don't cling to one thing, otherwise it will be easier to intensify contradictions.

Sometimes the quarrel between the two sides may just be impulsive, but in fact, sleeping separately and getting up the next day may not be so angry about the same thing, and both husband and wife always have to show weakness first, say something soft and give each other a step down, so the contradiction is still easy to resolve. Life itself can't be too care about, but it will be very tired. Since you love someone and are willing to form a family with him or her, you are naturally willing to tolerate and accommodate each other. The love and hate in your heart are only temporary and won't last long. Reconciliation is only a matter of time. There will inevitably be bumps in life, but think more about each other's good and forget each other's unhappiness, and life may be easier. Now couples should remember that there is no overnight feud between husband and wife. Instead of getting divorced easily. ?