2. Be good at making happy friends who can enjoy life and live and work in peace and contentment.
Sincerity doesn't mean blaming others' shortcomings, but not praising others' shortcomings.
The meaning of life lies not in holding a good hand, but in playing a bad one.
The place that a person cares more is the place that makes him feel inferior most.
6. The highest and most beautiful state of life is that the flowers are not in full bloom and the moon is not round, and there are expectations in my heart.
7. In the process of growing up, people will become stronger and stronger, and their hearts will become softer and softer. Without a firm will, it is impossible to cross thousands of difficulties and dangers; If the mind is not soft, how can we feel love and beauty, sympathy and warmth? If we can combine the firmness of will with the softness of mind, life can experience a state of understanding, just like the tea fragrance slowly overflowing.
8. The power of thought is one of the greatest forces in the world.
9, gorgeous is very dull.
10, a genius who fails is a fool!
1 1. Life comes and goes, and what we think is very secure may disappear forever in an instant. Even some strangers will make you feel that once you miss some wishes, you may never come again.
12, I like to divide my life into two levels: life level and survival level. The bigger I am, the clearer I can be. The so-called realm of life is what a person's heart must hold; The so-called survival level is what contribution you have made in reality.
13, the so-called rice, eating is not a meal, it is a bureau; The so-called toast is not about people, but about identity. Rejecting noise, returning to tranquility, rejecting luxury and returning to nature are the homework that each of us should do.
14. There are many people around us. Their lifestyle and attitude can be our mirror. The key is to be a man with a conscience.
15, a slip of the tongue means accidentally telling the truth.
16, happiness is just a feeling, which has nothing to do with the rich and the poor, but is connected with the heart.
17, the desolation of spiritual environment and the waste of life energy are the waste of spiritual resources.
18, too many choices, so sleepy.
19. Only by establishing an internal value system can pressure be transformed into the tension of life.
20. "When you cry because you have no shoes to wear, think of those who have lost their feet." Actually, you look at me and I look at you. Everyone has some happiness that others envy, but don't make up others' happiness and squander the value held by yourself. If you want to understand this, maybe your life is being secretly envied by others.
2 1, the phenomenon of excessive consumption is widespread, because people are generally insecure in their hearts and need external and material support and promotion to confirm their life value. But in essence, consumption is just icing on the cake for us, and it is by no means a timely help. It is impossible for a person to get all the support of life value from luxury goods, luxury houses and fancy clothes.
22. Admit the shortcomings in real life and make up for them through your own efforts.
23. The flowers are not fully open and the moon is not round.
24. The hardest thing for a person to recognize is his own heart.
25. Instead of fighting others, it is better to fight with yourself and find ways to improve your quality and self-cultivation.
26. A person's vision has two functions: one is to go out and expand the world infinitely; The other is to come inward and discover the heart infinitely and profoundly. Our eyes always look too much at the outside world and too little at our own hearts.
27. Choosing a friend means choosing a way of life, opening a friendly world and having a shining life.
28. Craftsmen in China in the handicraft era believed that whether they were making Buddha statues or making furniture, their wishes were limitless. Even if it is just to build a golden nanmu cabinet, it may not be a craftsman's life. Grandpa often makes rough blanks, his father finishes rough work and his grandson carefully carves them. It takes three generations to build an amazing cabinet. The Mogao Grottoes have been built for 1600 years. How many generations of unknown craftsmen exhausted their body temperature and warmed the compassion of the Bodhisattva.
29. Most of the confusion is due to the lack of vision. How does a frog in the well know what a broad sky is?
30. Open-minded courage derived from virtue and kindness. A calm heart becomes calm and brave.
3 1 is a hero, a talent and a fool.
32. Caring for others is kindness, and understanding others is wisdom.
33. Leisure has nothing to do with time. Leisure is an inner discovery, leisure is a pleasure of life, and leisure is a rhythm of life. It is a state to be able to prioritize and be busy without chaos. The same work, others may not be able to do, but you can walk calmly in the heavy pressure gap, with unbeaten calmness. This is the real success in the personal evaluation system. Because the biggest enemy of calmness is not the tension of external work, but the anxiety of internal state.
34. In addition to singing, Kunqu Opera also has its own characteristics in dress, gait, gesture and posture. These are called the beauty of programs, which can embody a kind of virtual beauty on the stage. The expressive force of Kunqu Opera is unprecedented, and everything on the ground and in the sky can be presented. For example, if you put your hands together, you will close the door; Pull the handle and the door will open. The most remarkable thing about China's traditional opera is that it takes all kinds of water and Qian Shan. As soon as the program came out, it was vivid and fragrant. That kind of freehand brushwork and vivid expression is the real beauty of China.
35. To make a good friend is to start a good life. Our friends are like a mirror, from which we can see our differences.
36. Leisure is a kind of enjoyment and a kind of life rhythm. It is a state to be able to grasp the priorities and be busy without chaos.
37. Do what you want and don't cross the line.
38. In fact, the deepest and most regretless love does not necessarily have an answer. The feeling of being dizzy with ink is nothing more than an account of one's life.
39. This world is neither the world of the rich nor the world of the strong, but the world of the volunteers.
40. What a person shows off shows what he lacks in his heart.
4 1, the so-called experience is "testing with the body and blood", which is a very profound infiltration.
42. I am afraid that my father is filial piety and my wife is love.
43. A gentleman is an ideal personality standard in Confucius' mind. In the Analects of Confucius, the word "gentleman" appeared 100 times.
44. Courage is to take your time in every major event and find your own way out.
45. China's philosophy advocates a solemn, rational and gentle beauty.
46. A person who knows how to care for others from an early age may be cared for by others when he grows up.
47. In a real competition, the champion always runs before the applause.
48. Life is short, the ecstasy of meeting will inevitably collapse, and all circumstances will be free from people's hearts. If you crawl and panic, even if you go to the best place, you will still be destroyed; If you don't change your firmness and innocence, you will be enriched wherever you are.
49. When he grows up and faces the real society, if he still has a fairy tale dream in his heart, he will have a power to resist desolation. The four suns in his heart will be much warmer than one.
50. Enlightenment is a long process. Constant enlightenment and experience means that there is a ceremony in your heart.
5 1, women like a man and want to hear lies; When a woman hates men, she wants to hear the truth.
52. To be a gentleman is to be the best you can be. According to your own social orientation, start from your side and start from today to become a perfect person. Only when there is real peace of mind can we not be influenced by the ups and downs of life.
53. A person who really advocates learning, his learning is for the achievement of human mind and the ability to grasp happiness, rather than taking learning as a means of making a living and showing off capital.
54. People's taste is pure joy, and everything that is subtle, euphemistic, deep and restrained is just for better precipitation and washing away lead. If one day, when you have traveled all over Qian Shan and tasted the vicissitudes of life, you can return to the original clarity and innocence, which will be true simplicity and true happiness.
55. "Always" should be considerate of the lover, "classics" should resist the lover's nagging, "reason" should be humble to the lover, and men should be "general manager".
56. Everyone has his own Da Vinci code, and he found a symbol. Find your inner base, give yourself a little spiritual ceremony every day, believe that our ideals are rooted, and let us all be quiet students in front of Confucius.
57. If you don't live a gorgeous life, you won't know the bland taste, the shoulders that have never been shouldered, and the freedom to let go.
58. Men strive for self-improvement and women are virtuous.
59. Our eyes always look too much at the outside world and too little at our own hearts.
60. Don't stay away from your childlike innocence because of secular standards.
6 1, there is a kind of person who only does two things: you succeed and he is jealous of you; You failed and he laughed at you.
62. Our eyes look too much at the outside world and too little at our own hearts.
63. Confucius said that "the beneficiary has three friends", which means: first, friends are straight, and straightness means integrity. Second, forgiveness is honesty. Third, friends know more, that is, they are well informed.
64. Enemies become comrades-in-arms mostly for survival, while comrades-in-arms become enemies mostly for money.
65. A happy life in the material sense is only an indicator, and a true sense of stability and heartfelt recognition of political power comes from faith.
66. Learn more, be less proud, take advantage of opportunities and get rid of laziness.
67. Confucius believed that "complaining directly and treating virtue with virtue" was worth advocating.
68. If you don't live a gorgeous life, you won't know the plain taste; A shoulder that has never been shouldered will never know how to let go. Time is different, just respect its original state.
69. The earth is so bleak, life is so short, and the years are ruthlessly getting older by one year. Whether it is autumn or winter, the most important thing is whether people can settle down, whether they can hold their hearts in the fleeting time and not let them drift with the fleeting time. People can grieve for spring and autumn. When all the troubles in spring and autumn are over, our hearts can be precipitated and washed away by spring flowers and autumn moons. This is the taste of poetry that really stays in our hearts.
70. Sick people think that health is happiness, suffering people think that peace is happiness, lovesick people think that meeting is happiness, and people who are all right have no reason to feel what happiness is.
7 1, happiness has nothing to do with poverty, but with the heart.
72. Children, many times, people are scared by themselves and crushed by other people's ideas. If they are not kidnapped by false propositions in their lives, they can avoid a lot of trouble.
73. Nowadays, there are more people in China who need classes than those who need classes.
When I was a teenager, I was naive. Everything is positive. I heard fairy tales and saw beautiful things. When you enter the society, you begin to find that the world is full of cruel competition. You will see many disadvantages and don't know where to go.
75. Since the shortcomings in life are inevitable, it is very important to treat them with what kind of mentality. Different mentality may bring completely different quality of life.
76. Success is an idea, getting rich is an obligation and happiness is a right.
77. If you can let go, you can let go, if you can tolerate, you can tolerate, leaving yourself a vast sky.
78. Too much hesitation is a waste of your life energy.
79. The standard of a gentleman: a kind person, a noble person and an easy-going person.
80. If you stand low, clouds will trap you; You stand tall, and the cloud is your aesthetic object.
8 1, when you have nothing, that's when you start to get it.
The word "crisis" means both danger and opportunity. Don't give up any efforts.
83. Life has no detours. You must measure each step yourself.
84. A person's eyesight has two functions; One is to go out and expand the world infinitely; The other is to come inward and discover the heart infinitely and profoundly.
85, the attitude towards death, one is not afraid of death, and the other is never to die.
86. There are no unqualified students, only unqualified parents.
87. You must measure each step yourself.
88. It is better to become attached to the enemy than to plant thorns. Wealth is not as good as happiness and longevity is not as good as happiness.
89. Similarly, there are differences in sentiment.
Self-adjustment is a way to get along with the world. In the face of the ever-changing world, only when the troubled heart settles down, the heart will not turn with the events. If you can find the width of life in your own cracks, the result will let you know that the heart can really turn.
9 1, distance and independence are respect for personality, and the closest people should also keep this distance.
92. Life is limited, and so is life. Leave limited emotions in the most important place.
A friend is like a book, through which you can open the whole world.
94. Where is heaven and where is hell? Heaven and hell, but for a moment. No place can make you perfect, and no place can really destroy you.
95. You can be busy, but you can't be chaotic.
96. True courage has a contractual system and premise, and this premise is righteousness. Courage is sometimes manifested as inner self-confidence and calmness under rational constraints. Courage without moral restraint is the greatest disaster in the world.
97. Obedience means sympathy, understanding and tolerance for others. Seeking the realm of failure in loneliness.
98. seemingly worthless things will give you a calm starting point.
99. Get along with good friends, and don't do everything by yourself.
100, let's start from the university campus, with your majestic atmosphere, your big vision and your big dreams, be firm, regardless of success or failure, go out and take your time.
10 1, suddenly seeing Bai Juyi's trust in horses, the spring on the West Lake is still true.
102, when playing Lusheng, they were romantic poets; They are strong heroes when they raise their shotguns.
Courage without moral restraint is the greatest disaster in the world.
104, it is very simple to complicate things, and it is very complicated to simplify things.
105, all external forms are for inner peace.
106. Real wealth is a way of thinking, not a monthly income figure.
107, eating, in a sense, is to become attached to heaven and earth. On the one hand, we should become attached to food without prejudice; On the other hand, we should be in awe of everything in the world. People's internal organs have their own operating rules. Many people get fat because they don't follow the way of heaven and earth, don't follow the law of four seasons, and don't conform to nature. Heaven and earth become attached to each of us through food, but have we learned to get along with them?
108, a little confusion can change the direction of life, and a big confusion can change people's temperament (a little confusion is easy to change, and a big confusion is easy to change).
109, go to nature. Do not pursue material luxury, pursue spiritual luxury.
1 10, the arrogance of a gentleman, the arrogance is inside.
1 1 1. In this life, there are all kinds of uncertainties. The only absolute certainty is that we will grow old. What time can we seize? Memory has been frozen and the future has not yet begun. What we can really grasp is the present, and we have dedicated ourselves to the people of the present. If we have less regrets, we will have more complaints.
1 12, forty without confusion, not confused.
1 13, knowing destiny means having a determination to resist the temptation of the outside world.
1 14, Confucius said: "The benevolent is not worried, the wise is not confused, and the brave is not afraid." Inner strength can resolve many regrets in life.
1 15, three attitudes towards life: pessimism, professionalism and idealism. A gentleman should be an idealist.
1 16. To make good friends, we must first have a kind heart, be willing to be close to others, and be willing to make friends; Second, we must have the ability to distinguish.
1 17, the ideal way gives us a starting point and also reserves some energy for our hearts.
1 18, a completely out-of-control life is a failure, and a completely controllable life is another kind of boredom. Walking between controllable and uncontrollable is creation.
1 19, money can help the poor solve problems, but it can help the rich create problems.
120, people's growth should be educated by parents, teachers, books and society. Interestingly, the latter always seems to run counter to the first three.
12 1. The power of faith is enough to unite a country.
122, the most suitable distance is to warm each other without hurting each other.
123, it is also a bad thing for a person to be angry.
124. fortunately, we still have Qixi, which makes us believe that even if it is not a story of human love, there is still a watch depicting streamers that can make my niece: "I am fine, I am working on the loom." I can't break the chapter all day, crying like rain. I weave endless cloth every day, looking forward to a family that can't be reunited.
125, it is easy for China to learn from Americans, but it is difficult for China to learn from China.
126, Xin Zhai is a good way to know yourself and get the efficiency of life.
127. The secret of happiness that Confucius can teach us is how to find your inner peace.
128, the power of a gentleman is always the power of action, not the power of words.
129, there is a principle in communication, that is, you should always keep it simple or even stupid and easy to spread. If you make it particularly profound, it won't spread. The premise of retransmission is simplicity and stupidity.
130, managing your strengths well can add value to your life; Managing your shortcomings will devalue your life.
13 1. To be a gentleman, you must have "perseverance". When we really have some determination and broad realm, we are not far from the gentleman.
132, if you have really heard the chirping of insect frogs on summer nights and the sound of autumn wind blowing through the treetops, you can hear your heart slowly returning from the impetuous world. The aesthetics of this world is sometimes a peaceful heart, and then you can see Qian Shan.
133, we have a happy attitude towards life, which is to pay tribute to the highest classicism.
134,21The survival rule of century work is to build a personal brand and turn your name into money.
135, modern marriage is the product of emotion and the crystallization of competition.
136, there is no difference between good and bad, and it is created by idealism. Facing the complex world, we can choose to travel well and adapt ourselves. We can learn to travel through things. When we walk along the road of dreams, don't forget to stop and take a look at the four seasons of wind and rain, listen attentively and be confused attentively, and maybe there will be more unexpected gains.
137. The child is happy because she believes in everything, is naive and romantic, and has dreams. The old man is happy because she has lived a hard life and is satisfied with the present.
138, complain less, complain less, and regret less, and you will succeed.
139. True harmony is not only the harmony between neighbors in a community, but also the harmony between people, including the harmonious and happy growth of everything on earth; People have a reverence for all things in nature, a conformity and a tacit understanding.
140, happiness is how you look at the meaning of these things to life. Life gives you what you care about.
14 1, you get low-level happiness, and you ask for high-level happiness.
142, the earth is moving, and a person will not be in an unlucky position forever.
143. Enterprises should have unique resources that cannot be stolen, bought, demolished, taken away or slipped away.
144, use your head when you speak and consider the consequences when you do things. Think far first, and then be careful, so as to avoid hurting others and reduce your regrets in the future.
145, there must be some untapped potential in our growth.
146, who dares to make dusk lonely? Who dares to prove the power of an emotion with a heavy sadness?
Caring for others is kind; It is wisdom to know people and be good at their duties.
148, be tolerant and leave yourself a vast sky.
149, he has a kind of confidence and calmness under the restriction of reason, which is because he is broad-minded and ambitious.
150, a person has the responsibility to turn his knowledge into productivity when he is young. You can't say that a person is happy when you are young. In fact, this kind of non-accession to the WTO will make people feel that there is no sense of value realization, and you are quite irresponsible.
15 1, which is believed to be a kind of strength; Affection is a blessing.
What kind of relationship can two people have? The earliest relationship between two people is "ice", and the word "ice" actually means that two people are together in order, with the same behavior and the same heart.
153, the more proud people are, the more they hide, and the more painful they are, the more they make a mountain out of a molehill.
154, "The sea ends, the sky is the shore, the mountain climbs to the top, and I am the peak." When the mountains and rivers silently accepted me, my life was full of vitality in an instant, and I suddenly understood that the flowers in Nanshan were not outside this heart.
155, there is great beauty in heaven and earth, and still water is deep. This seemingly abstruse universe is actually simple and simple, ordinary and safe. Time goes by, one city and one pool, all in every ordinary life, every calm smile.
156, complaining will only lead to a vicious circle of interpersonal relationships, and we will lose not only our own happiness, but also the happiness of future generations.
157, the best attack is to attack yourself.
158, it is not advisable to return bad for bad, and it is impossible to return bad for good. It is also a waste of life for you to face people and things that have failed you with unworthy kindness.
159, think more, see more, blame less, complain less and regret less.
160. Nowadays, we are all more and more like people, but less and less like animals.
16 1, the so-called growth is not to be smooth and hypocritical, but to learn to follow the fate by adhering to a group of true qi.
162, people have two eyes, both of which are parallel, so we should look at people equally; People's ears are two-sided, so don't listen to one side of the story; Although people have only one heart, they have left and right atria, so they should not only think for themselves, but also for others.
163. In a sense, what a person sees is what he has in his heart.
164, no matter how busy you are on the road of life, you might as well take some time out of your busy schedule, calm down, look back at the initial starting point and look forward to the final destination, and then embark on a long road of life with a calm self.
165, tea should be served under the paper window of the tile house, with clear spring green tea and elegant ceramic tea set, which can be shared by two or three people. Half a day's leisure can be worth ten years' dusty dream. After drinking tea, you can continue to practice your career, whether it is for profit or not, but it is also indispensable to have a leisurely tour occasionally.
166, the meaning of Hangzhou is beyond things. Even in the era of hasty efforts, the city still makes people believe that the clouds are light and the wind is light, and the flowers are full.
167. Classical beauty is a kind of harmonious beauty.
168, we don't lack the ideal of HTC, what we lack is the ideal and practical road.
169, the real happiness in life is the happiness of the soul, which is sometimes not closely related to the external material life.
170, with a month's time, looking forward to a complete; Spend a year looking forward to a reunion; Spend a lifetime looking forward to the bright moon in life; Pray that your heart has all the reasons to be grateful like the bright moon, and reflect your heart with the glory of the times.
17 1, our life is just a handful of time borrowed from the years, bearing our own name and following the order of our lives.
172, people allow a stranger to get rich, but they can't tolerate the promotion of people around them. Because there are contrasts and interests between people at the same level, strangers do not have this problem.
173, full of delicious food, you have to have good teeth; If you have money, you have to spend money
174, my mind is full of what I have earned, and I will eventually get tired of what I have earned and become a dull pain in my life.
175, with an optimistic and positive attitude, grasp the discretion of communication with others, make yourself a person who makes others happy, make your happy heart an energy source of sunshine, radiate others, warm others, and let family, friends and even the wider society get some reasons for comfort from yourself.