1. The room of the soul will be filled with dust if not cleaned. A dusty heart will become gray and confused. We go through many things every day, happy and unhappy, all settled in our hearts. When there are too many things in the mind, it will become chaotic and disorderly, and then the mind will also become chaotic. Some painful emotions and unpleasant memories, if filled in the heart, will make people depressed. Therefore, sweeping the floor and removing dust can brighten a gloomy heart; clarifying things can help you say goodbye to troubles; throwing away some unnecessary pain can create more and greater space for happiness.
Appreciation: People can only reap the success they truly deserve in a relaxed and happy rhythm by acting within their capabilities, letting go when they should, and stopping when they should.
2. Bitterness and joy are all determined by one’s own judgment, which is not necessarily directly related to the objective environment. Just like a woman who does not like jewelry, even if she is in an environment that attaches great importance to vanity, her self-esteem will not be hurt. . A poor scholar with thousands of books does not want to exchange diamonds or stocks with a millionaire. People who are content with pastoral life do not envy any scholar's honorary title or high official position and salary.
Appreciation: Your hobbies are your direction, your interests are your capital, and your temperament is your destiny. Everyone has his own ideal paradise and a world of flowers and flowers that he is happy to enjoy.
3. Smile and sing the songs of life. Don't complain that life has given you too many hardships, and you don't have to complain that there are too many twists and turns in life. If the sea loses the rolling of huge waves, it will lose its majesty. If the desert loses the wild dance of flying sand, it will lose its splendor. If life only seeks smooth sailing with two points and one line, life will lose the charm of existence.
Appreciation: Play calm strings with a smile, face setbacks, accept happiness, taste loneliness, and overcome sadness.
4. Bear happiness. Happiness requires enjoyment, but sometimes, happiness can easily defeat a person. When happiness suddenly comes, people are often overwhelmed by the whirlpool of happiness and fall from the peak of happiness. To accept happiness is to cherish happiness instead of just settling in it. It is like facing a jar of old wine. Drinking it in one gulp will often make you drunk and unconscious. Only by sipping carefully and slowly can you taste the real mellow and sweet taste. .
Appreciation: Life is a kind of endurance, and you need to learn to support it. Support career, support family, and even support the entire society. Where there is support, there will be tolerance. How much weight is supported, how much pressure must be endured.
5. Don’t rub each other against each other in the dispute between people and me. Some words may not sound serious, but if you are not careful, they will weigh heavily on others' hearts. Of course, you must also train yourself not to be easily hurt by other people's words. You can't determine the length of life, but you can expand its width; you can't change your natural appearance, but you can always show a smile; you can't expect to control others, but you can take good control of yourself; you can't completely predict tomorrow, but you can make full use of today ; You can't ask for everything to go smoothly, but you can do everything with your heart.
Appreciation: A person's happiness is not because he has more, but because he cares less. More is a burden, another kind of loss; less is not insufficient, but another kind of surplus; giving up is not necessarily a loss, but another kind of broader possession.
6. Life is like a dream. Life comes from nothing and goes from nothing to nothing. Life and death constitute society and the world. From the perspective of impermanence, life is like a dream. Therefore, only if a person lives a vivid and meaningful life, can he live his life in this world in vain. "Life is like a dream", "The geometry of life", from the perspective of the shortness of life, life is indeed a dream. Therefore, how to improve the quality of life and how to live meaningfully has become a permanent topic for people; "The green mountains are still there, and the sunsets are red several times." Compared with the eternal nature, life is just a dream.
Appreciation: In this sense, in the tolerance of nature and in the long river of history, "people leave traces when they pass by, and geese leave their voices when they pass by." After suffering, we should leave some footprints and a little spirit to be with the mountains and rivers.
7. For the soul, people struggle for a lifetime. If they can finally earn happiness all day long, they have realized the greatest value of life.
Some people are supposed to be happy, but they seem to be troubled; some people are supposed to be troubled, but they seem to be happy.
People who live a confused life are likely to be happy; people who live a sober life are likely to be troubled.
This is because sober people see things too clearly, and when they are serious, their lives will be full of troubles; while confused people care less, and although they live a simple and rough life, they have found the great realm of life.
Appreciation: The troubles in life are self-inflicted. It's not that troubles can't be separated from you, but that you can't leave them behind. Everyone is happy. However, your happiness is often in the eyes of others.