The famous sayings about making friends are as follows:

1. There are three friends who benefit and three friends who lose. Friends are straightforward, friends forgive, and friends hear more, which is beneficial. Friends will make friends, be friendly and gentle, and friends will make friends, which will damage you-The Analects of Confucius

2. Once you die, you will know your friendship; One is poor and one is rich, and even a state of intercourse; One is expensive and the other is cheap, but friendship is seen-Historical Records

3. Those who pay with money will give it up when it is exhausted; Those who make friends with color, fall in love with Chongqing —— Warring States Policy

4. There are no young and old in life, so why should we make friends with the same tune first —— Du Fu

5. It is enough to have a bosom friend in life, and we should treat it with the same bosom! -Xu Shidong, a bibliophile in the Qing Dynasty

The best way to make friends

First, talk about money: directly touch the interests and help each other.

Friends are not only people who meet in life, but also people whose interests are related. Few friends completely set aside their interests. However, some people are very suspicious of borrowing money. They think that people nowadays borrow money to be grandchildren and pay back money to be grandfathers, and they don't talk about credit. I will also be cautious about making money together, and everyone wants to get more money.

Therefore, it is worth a long-term relationship to test each other by talking about money, as long as they communicate with you very readily. The person who lends you money is a benefactor; You are willing to lend him money, which shows that he has certain value, at least human nature is reliable.

the writer San Mao once said, "Don't have money with friends, don't lend money to friends. If you lend money to others, just like Mr. Hu Shi, I don't ask for it back."

second, talk about books: find people with the same cognitive level and make progress together.

There are some friends called "book friends, literary friends and pen friends". There are also some friends who are poor and can't help you financially, but they can help you academically and improve your cognition.

Bernard Shaw, a Nobel Prize in Literature winner, said, "If you have an apple and I have an apple, exchange them, and each of us still has only one apple; If you have an idea, I have an idea, and exchange with each other, each of us will have two ideas. "

in a money transaction, you give me one hundred and I will give you one hundred back. Or when money comes and goes, it will calculate some interest. A dinner party means that you treat me to a meal, plus a bottle of good wine; Next time I invite you to dinner, I'll try to make the wine more high-end, or I'll look for local wine in the countryside. Being drunk and getting hurt is really a waste of money.