1. Respect for gentlemen is a sign of virtue, fear of villains is not considered incompetence. Take a step back, the sky is high and the sky is vast, let yourself be at peace. If you want to make progress, you need to think about regressing. If you want to start, you need to think about letting go. If you are successful, you should not go back to it again. You should have room for success in everything you do.

2. Don’t be afraid of doing something wrong. Even if you are wrong, don’t be upset. Life is all about right and wrong. What’s more, there are many things that, looking back, right or wrong no longer matter.

3. If you are in good times, don't be arrogant and bloom with the azaleas all over the mountain. If you are in adversity, never give up. Like the defeated Magnolia, wave to the world again in the next spring.

4. People always persuade others like wise men and torture themselves like fools. Ultimately, you have to admit that you are still a stranger to yourself.

5. If you want to live the life you want, there are no shortcuts. Even if you work hard and get nothing, you can’t give up on yourself. As long as you get better every day, you can see better things. landscape.

6. What women need is a clean appearance, because when you get older, whether wrinkles reveal wisdom or vulgarity is what you have to do now.

7. Who is the passer-by in life? There are always some people passing by, leaving some traces in life, leaving a little afterglow, leaving some sadness, leaving some touching.

8. How can I not be as perfect as everyone wants, but I just want to be worthy of my heart. It’s not difficult to do it well the first time, but it’s difficult to do it well every time. Facing the sun, there is a shadow; facing the sun, the glow is endless.

9. When you have nothing, God helps you empty the trash and lets you put in the things that are most useful to you.

10. People should control their own desires instead of being controlled by desires. It is human nature to pursue comfort and enjoyment, but it must also be tempered. The reason why we live a tired life is often because we mistake desires for needs, which makes us exhausted and trapped deeper and deeper. A word about desire

A word about desire

1. Recently I have been reading guidance articles on parenting education, and I have shared a lot of experiences and complaints, plus some who are already on the road to parenting. After talking with advanced mothers, I suddenly looked back and realized that this is an area that can easily lead to parents trapping themselves. Some people’s parenting concepts actually contain expectations, desires and complex human nature; some experts’ methods can only be listened to and used as punches. Appreciation of Kung Fu. Only by improving your inner strength in life can you run your own home well.

2. When life is boring, the thought that it would be better to die and start over will always pop into your mind. Maybe one day when I have enough money to satisfy my desires, I will definitely test my idea on the road.

3. There is an angel in everyone's heart, and there is a devil in everyone's heart. In real life and in specific circumstances, the key to whether a person is an angel or a devil is his or her own choice. If the will to be an angel is strong, a person will become an angel. If the desire to be a devil is strong, a person becomes a devil. People can't always be angels, and people can't always be devils. It's just that some people spend more time as angels, and some people spend more time as devils.

4. No desire, no interest, not even wanting to eat.

5. Everyone is seeking happiness, but what exactly is happiness? It is a state of mind that is fulfilled, sometimes related to money, sometimes not related to money. Even if it is related to money, psychologists have found that money only plays a 20% role in various factors that affect happiness. So the root of happiness does not matter how much money you have, but how much you reduce your desires.

6. The earliest source of all things in the universe is unity, division and struggle due to desire. Where there is oppression, there is resistance. Where there is killing, there is revenge. A new vicious cycle of world regression has begun. I hope more people can realize that only love can make everything harmonious.

7. The desire is the desire to fish what I want; the desire is the hope that the child will become a dragon. Desires are also needs.

8. The desire to survive, the longing for the future, and a stubborn heart that refuses to admit defeat

9. Life is not bitter at all, but what is bitter is excessive desires and no physical and mental balance. No matter how tired you are, you have to carry too much; no matter how hard it is, you have to use today's smile to sing it into a calm memory; no matter how tired you are, you have to use the forgetfulness of the moment to travel through the world of mortals, so that your heart is calm. Getting to know someone depends on fate, understanding someone depends on patience, conquering someone depends on wisdom, and getting along with someone depends on tolerance.

10. I really hope that I can live my life without too many desires, pursue my hobbies or work hard to do meaningful things, but the reality is always so contradictory!

11. Ordinary love will quickly show weakness after the initial bravery driven by desire. It demands reward and self-satisfaction. Therefore, most of the emotions in this world are neither strong, nor noble, nor bright. Just trying to vouch for myself.

12. Why are we unhappy? I think we always want to control things that we cannot control, such as our lives, property, other people's thoughts, fame, fortune, and status. People who love us should not change their minds. ! We want to control what we can't control, but we don't control what we can control. We can control our negative emotions, desires, and every moment, but we don't control it, so we will always be in pain.

13. The days are still the same, over and over again. I don't want to talk less and less, I live in my own world, and my contact with the outside world is limited to work and perfunctory. No matter how big your worries are, you keep them to yourself and have no desire to talk about them. It seems that everything that can't be let go can be slowly let go, and it doesn't matter anymore. Those who are mine cannot be driven away, and those who do not belong to me are forced to stay in vain. Let nature take its course, and I will still be there!

14. Man is a body of desires, whether spiritually or materially. It can be said that excessive spiritual desires are to achieve material needs, and excessive material desires are to achieve spiritual needs. Religious worship of the pope and secular pursuit of material are both an individual's dependence on the outside world and the emptiness of losing oneself. Chasing desires without inner culture is dangerous. There have always been only wars for desire in this world, but no wars of restraint and moderation.

15. Successfully crossed the Fire Phoenix Line, mainly on foot. I still have a desire to walk through the Mohe Aurora in MacLehose.

16. The most ideal living situation is actually this: struggle in a big city and live in a small city. Don’t struggle until your eyes are dim. You must know when enough is enough. Status, money and desires will never end, but life must be experienced with all your heart at the right time, because you only have one life, so don’t waste it.

17. All thoughts originate from the heart, and all things are created from the heart. If you don’t want to experience so many changes and encounters, don’t be tempted. If you have no desire in your heart, you have nothing to fear. No one can change you.

18. No pain, no gain. Desire, self-discipline, motivation, focus.

19. Life is too realistic. Everything is so natural. Many things have passed, but the state of mind has not been forgotten. Life should be happy. Life is alive and cannot be without desires. Life is always changing. , the environment is always unpredictable, and in real life, various emergencies always emerge in endlessly. The heart should be like a tree, standing in silence, able to accept sunshine and tolerate wind and rain.

20. The degree of popularity of a star should be directly proportional to the desire of the star.

21. Think about it, because of our laziness, we always think that the future is long, and we can put off everything we do, so many plans, travels, love, and exploration of life have not been implemented! When disaster strikes, we will do nothing. We will find ourselves returning to a mediocre life day after day, and our desire for life will be exhausted.

22. Greedy people are always worried, while contented people are always happy. If life is a grain of sand, desire is a bottomless pit; if life is a drop of water, desire is a rolling river. Using a short life to race against infinite desires, who can win? Desire in life, once it is hard, you cannot get it, and if it is hard again, you cannot let it go. Greedy people get stuck in it over and over again, while contented people just give up when things get better. It is better to look at the situation indifferently and cherish those who are destined to come; to cherish those who are not destined to go, just let it go.

23. People's desires should not be too strong, and life requirements should not be too high. I am very satisfied with my current working status. I work in the office every day to calculate accounts, ship goods, and do micro-business in my spare time. I have two jobs. We take turns and take care of the baby every night. Although we are tired, we are very fulfilled. People, just be happy every day.

24. Language is really a skill. Comfortable language makes people feel comfortable. On the contrary, it has nothing to do with good or bad. Unconscious self-language will always make you lose the ability to continue talking. desire.

25. Temperance, as a good moral character, first manifests as moderation in the choice of interests. Our country has attached great importance to the distinction between justice and benefit since ancient times, emphasizing that when people face interests, they should use morality as the guide and criterion to make correct choices. This is what sages often say: think about the meaning when you see the benefit, think about the meaning when you see it, take what you deserve, get what you deserve, and don't take anything rashly. Thinking about interests before taking advantage of others is to exercise restraint on the issue of interests. Temperance is secondly expressed as the reasonable regulation of desires.

26. Big cities and small cities are just mirror images that emerge when you are dissatisfied with yourself. In fact, people in big cities generally cannot go back to small cities. No matter how warm the people are there. People in small cities cannot go back to the countryside. No matter how attractive the scenery there is. People are embedded in the environment, engulfed by the environment, think in the direction guided by the environment, and release desires in a way permitted by the environment. Good or bad, you can't go back.

27. Calm down, remember your heart, reduce your desires, and face life without being afraid of rumors.

28. You can’t own it with a smile, but you can give it up with a smile. Happiness in life requires a normal heart to carry it. Appropriate giving up is an elegant turn in life. The reason why people suffer is often because they have too many desires and too little satisfaction. The practice of life is largely about the control of desires.

29. While riding the subway, three novel ideas were running through my mind. How to start, how to unfold, how to depict characters, and how to develop details.

Everything went down smoothly, as if I had already seen the text appearing on the document. Suddenly, I felt very tired. These were all too familiar, and I felt comfortable writing them. There was nothing new waiting for me. I suddenly felt no desire to write anymore.

30. I feel uneasy about the future, but also full of doubts about the past; I don’t want to give up the present, but I don’t want to offend the future, and I always want to find a way of life once and for all. But society is changing rapidly, life is short, and everything is spinning around in precepts and desires.

31. Learn to quiet yourself, immerse your thoughts, and gradually reduce your desire for things; learn to always return yourself to zero, and treat every day as a new starting point. When you feel irritable, drink a cup of tea, play some soothing and soft music, close your eyes, reflect on the people and things around you, and slowly sort out the new future.

32. People may be vain, have low self-esteem, and may have desires. Restrain it, suppress it, don't let yourself have too much desire for material things, and don't envy others. Only when you have tasted pain can you understand what equality is.

33. Indulging one's own desires is the greatest harm; talking about other people's privacy is the greatest sin; not knowing one's own faults is the greatest illness. Aristotle

34. Let me tell you, I feel like I am alive recently. There are more and more things that I want to do and can do, and my energy and courage are becoming more abundant, but my desires are correspondingly decreasing. Every morning I wake up with joy in my heart. This is unprecedented in the past twenty years, or it is unknown whether it is a gift of fate. This state is very precious, and we must work hard to keep it longer.

35. May the years temper my full soul and thin desire.

36. Now I understand that sentence, you will only suffer when your ability cannot satisfy your desires, so you must eliminate your desires.

37. I remember skipping class to play piano in the rehearsal room when I was studying, and now I have the desire to skip class and go home to play piano at work. In fact, if you break the rules and do what you like, you will work harder and do better, but you must be prepared to pay the due price.

38. I started to hate eating when I was sick and lost my appetite. I'm hungry but I don't have any desire to eat. I see the tempting pictures and I don't have any desire to eat. I just starve to death!

39. Depression is due to incompetence, worry is due to unsatisfied desires, and irritability is a sign of cowardice

40. Russell lacks the desire to actively attack, so It's completely unfeasible for guards now, not even the most basic pick-and-roll jump shot. Give me a fart. A talk about the desires in life

A talk about the desires in life

1. Most of life is about switching back and forth between the desire of what you want and the boredom after getting it. That’s it!

2. Suddenly I started to miss someone again, that familiar name. Once upon a time, I wanted to buy my grandma some delicious food and give her red envelopes for the New Year, but in the end I still couldn’t realize this wish. Life The significance of being a person is not how much money you can earn or how many houses you have, but what you can give to others, whether it is spiritual or material! More material things will amplify a person's desires, but spirit and quality can be passed on!

3. I just had a phone call with Mom. Mom said that there was a pervert driving a car in front of my younger brother’s school that morning and deliberately hit people. Three people died and five were injured. They are currently investigating. I was so scared that I told Mom over and over again. , I must go to pick up my brother. I even want to ask for leave for my brother. The desire to go home for the first time in my life is so strong

4. Only those who know how to control their desires can enjoy the true meaning of life. Fun, only those who know how not to care can enjoy the harmony of both sides, and only those who know how to let go of themselves can enjoy the ease and ease of life

5. Happiness in life requires a normal heart to carry it. The reason why people suffer is often because they have too many desires and too little satisfaction. Life practice, to a large extent, is the control of desires. Everyone has desires, but desires that exceed one's tolerance will only make one fall into a painful quagmire. Learning to be satisfied is to hold the key to opening the door to happiness.

6. If life is a grain of sand, desire is a bottomless pit; if life is a drop of water, desire is a rolling river. Using a short life to race against infinite desires, who can win? Desire in life, once it is hard, you cannot get it, and if it is hard again, you cannot let it go. Those who are greedy will get stuck in it, while those who are content will take advantage of it. Those who are destined to come, cherish it; those who are not destined to go, just let it go. Being tolerant is great, being without desire is strong.

7. On the journey of life, do what makes you happy. Life is not bitter at all, but what is bitter is excessive desires; life is limited, and everything you gain will eventually be lost. As long as you cherish it with your heart, you don't have to worry too much about losing it.

8. I thought about life while taking a shit, and I have lost more and more of the original impulse of human beings. Recently, I feel that I am not interested in many things, including my favorite food before, but now I can’t see anything. I have no appetite, browse e-commerce websites and have no desire to buy anything. 1/4 life crisis, what I look forward to finally realizing is planA.

9. To be successful, you must be good-looking, decent, gentle, and popular. Find that your goal is to live a perfect life.

If I can't do it, I'll make myself very tired. Why do you need so many desires in one life? Just be happy. So I should cultivate my mind first.

10. If there is no desire in life, there will be no harm. Being content and happy, this is happiness!

11. The so-called glorious life is just a prisoner of desire. Schopenhauer

12. Life seems to always start over again. After all these desires fade away, it seems that all I want is humanity, work, dancing, and what I truly cherish, love and justice.

13. The real busyness is not the body being busy, but the heart being busy; the real tiredness is not the body being tired, but the heart being tired. It is inevitable for a person to be tired from traveling and working all his life. When you feel busy or tired, it's either because you've lost your value or because you have too many desires. When life has a direction and a reason to work hard, the mind will be at peace; when it cares less, is more tolerant, and is satisfied, the mind will be at ease. Just let nature take its course, be content with the situation, and know how to let go, and life will be more perfect.

14. If one day you find that all your previous efforts are in vain and you will not get the rewards you deserve, but others can easily get what you have worked so hard to get, you will What do you think? When you start to grow up and start to doubt the world and life, can you balance your desires in your heart and tell yourself that you will lose when you get it, but you will still be crazy at night. It is unfair, so how can you stay awake. Might as well drink some wine and have a good night's sleep.

15. The greatest wealth in life does not lie in how much you have, but in your restrained desires. If you are not satisfied with everything you have, you will not feel happy even if you have the world. The so-called contented person is always happy, which means knowing how to make choices, being willing to give up, and knowing when enough is enough. Contentment is a state of tranquility and peace, and constant joy is an optimistic and open-minded attitude towards life.

16. We are cautious on the road of life, lest one of us is accidentally caught by desire and never get back; even the devil in the city of sin is also waving to you, tempting you to go there. Being around you will tempt your thoughts and even your soul to sink and fall, and then you will never be able to stand up again.

17. What really confuses you is not your life but your desires.

18. Schopenhauer said that when people have desires that are not realized, you will be in pain. Once your desires are realized, you will become bored again. Life is a constant wandering between pain and boredom. During the day, your time belongs to your boss. After work, your time belongs to your children. There are 24 hours a day. How much time do you have left for yourself? OK go to bed early tonight! !

19. You must experience ups and downs of the plot, live a fulfilling life, and have huge ambitions and desires.

20. Too much desire will become a burden. The smaller the desire, the richer life will be. Greed is the most real poverty.

21. Life is a mass of desires. If desires are not satisfied, it will be painful, and if they are satisfied, they will be boring. And life is swinging between pain and boredom. Happiness is nothing but a temporary cessation of desire. Troubles are there every day, and they will disappear if you don’t pick them up. Don't forget people's kindness, don't remember people's faults, don't think about people's faults, and don't care about people's complaints.

23. Unless you have fought through sorrow and fear, endured the era when your dreams were shattered, been injured by intense desire, and exhausted by conflict, child, you are not considered a real person. Live it, this is life.

24. There is suffering in everyone's heart. You have to be silent when you are depressed, and you have to hold on when you are depressed, because no one can explain it. Everyone has some experiences in their heart, and they have to accept hardships and bear setbacks because of growth. Don't talk nonsense when you don't understand. Don’t talk too much when you understand. When you are upset, speak slowly. If you have nothing to say, don't say it. The path of spiritual practice is like a bitter medicine. Only by taking it can you cure the diseases in life. There are many stubborn diseases in life: endless desires, inability to let go, inexplicable loneliness, and unspeakable difficulties. Life is like the sea, tolerance is the boat. The ears cannot hear right and wrong, the eyes cannot see fighting, and the mouth cannot say hurtful words. What is joy? I have experienced many ups and downs, but I have not been defeated by them; I have felt a lot of sorrow, but I have not been immersed in it and cannot extricate myself. And after every difficulty, we become stronger and stronger; after every pain, we understand the meaning of love more and more. The mind becomes softer and softer; the mind becomes wider and wider.

Twenty-five. I almost ran all over Taipei and broke my leg. I couldn’t buy the eye shadow I wanted. I wanted to sit on the floor of the mall and cry. There are always so many things in life that make people collapse. I feel so sad all of a sudden. I have too much desire and too little money. Let’s start a relationship. Let’s hug my boyfriend’s neck and rub my nose. Maybe I can survive again

26. It’s normal to have regrets. A life without regrets is a confused life. Without regrets, there is no joy in life, and without regrets, there is no happiness in life. The greater a person's desire, the more regrets he has; the smaller a person's desires, the fewer regrets.

27. Life is just a mass of desires. When desires are not satisfied, it is painful. When desires are satisfied, it is boring. Life is just wandering between pain and boredom. I have to hold on when I go to Macau this week, and I can’t buy too much

28. It’s always good for people to be a little older. They become more and more considerate of the difficulties of other people’s lives, and they become more and more understanding. Some people's choice. No longer hysterical about things that you can’t get, and no longer entangled with people and things that have little to do with your real life.

We have learned to take responsibility for both the good and the bad. We have seen the cruelty of life and strengthened our hearts. With a little desire and longing of our youth, we bravely go on the road and live up to the rest of our lives.

29. Life is actually a battle between ignorance and awakening, a battle between fear and desire. Sadly, for many, leaving school is the end of learning rather than the beginning.

30. There are many things in life that cannot be achieved, so we need to be patient; there are many desires in life that cannot be achieved, so we need to be patient; there are many sufferings in life that cannot be avoided. , so you need to be patient; there are many pains in life that cannot be forgiven, so you need to be patient. The calmness of the moment is forbearing, but the forbearance at this moment is for a more perfect explosion in the next step.

31. Desire is a black hole that cannot be filled. Greed is the root of all evil and the source of all pain in life. The poor have the desires of the poor, and the rich have the desires of the rich. Some people can resist the temptation of money, but they may not be able to resist the temptation of beautiful women. Some people can resist the temptation of money and beautiful women, but they may not be able to resist the temptation of power. There will always be things that are reluctant to let go. This is a human weakness and also Where the richness of man lies.

32. Read too many historical stories and books, and read too many human desires, helplessness and sorrow. The ups and downs of life are not easy, the balance of yin and yang changes, understand others more, and free yourself more. Write the past on paper and turn a new page tomorrow. Being alive and having sound limbs, what else can't we face calmly? Buddha said: Everyone is destined to meet you. In the same way: when something happens or when something is certain. If the mind is calm, then the Tao will be natural; if the mind is broad, then virtue will be as great as a valley; if the mind is strong, then the swallow will be transcendent.

Thirty-three. We are all still young. Our dream life is an ups and downs of daily life and bustling excitement. We need to have a lot of money, surrounded by a circle of close friends, and a big house with floor-to-ceiling windows. You want to hold a glass of wine to face the long night, you want to be drunk and sleepy and still have someone to care about you, you want to be kissed awake by your beloved, and there is also a huge bathtub to linger with the person you love most. You need to experience ups and downs of the plot, and you also need to live a fulfilling life, with huge ambitions and desires. Quotes about restraining desires

1. The more opportunities you have to be talked about, the more you want to be talked about. ——Bertrand Russell

2. Wealth is like sea water. The more you drink, the more thirsty you become; the same is true for fame. ——Schopenhauer

3. Desire is the source of human suffering. It is true that desires can bring people joy and happiness; but behind joy and happiness is suffering, and the extremes of joy will lead to sorrow; after all desires are realized, disasters are inevitable. ——(Egypt) Yusuf Sibayi

4. Be free from desires and keep your mind pure. ——Cheng Hao, an educator in the Song Dynasty

5. Less desire makes you feel lighter. —— Huang Zongxi

6. Those who are addicted to lust are like horses chasing misfortunes. —— Liu Xiang

7. If an animal needs something, it knows the extent and quantity it needs, but humans do not. ——Democritus, the desire for fame is much greater than the desire for virtue, because fame is the reward of beauty. Without it, who would be willing to embrace virtue? ——Yu Waina

8. Desire is like charcoal fire, it must be cooled down, otherwise, the fierce fire will burn the heart. ——Shakespeare

9. The day lotus blooms only in the sunshine, and the night lotus blooms only in the moonlight. People who can restrain their passions don’t hug other people’s wives. ——India

10. As long as a man is flattered and his pride and desires are satisfied, he is easily deceived; and artists who are full of fantasy are even more easily deceived. ——Romain Rolland

11. People are enemies of the unknown. ——Turkey

12. The best way to nourish your heart is to have few desires. As a person, he also has few desires, even if there are some who don't have them, he is a few; as a person, he also has many desires, although there are some who have them, he is a few. ——Mencius

13. Everyone wants knowledge, but no one is willing to pay the price. ——Yu Waina

14. The desire for knowledge is like the pursuit of wealth. The more you pursue it, the stronger the desire. ——Stern

15. The desire for power is the most notorious desire. ——Tacitus

16. Even a wise man can hardly give up the weakness of pursuing fame. ——Tacitus

17. The pursuit of fame is almost synonymous with advocating excellence. ——Herzlit

18. There are two tragedies in life. One is that your desires are not satisfied, the other is that your desires are satisfied. ——Bernard Shaw

19. Three-quarters of the world’s requirements are unrealistic and are based on fantasy, idealism, hope and emotion. ——Ruskin

20. When controlled by desire, you are small; when inspired by passion, you are great. ——James Allen

21. People often hear this sentence: "It was desire that destroyed him." However, this is often wrong. It is not desire that destroys people, but incompetence, laziness, or confusion. ——Pierre Bourgoux

22. There is always one heart in the world waiting for and calling for another heart. ——Cervantes

23. People cannot set a time for lust.

——Romain Rolland

24. The greatest enemy is your own lust. ——Iran

25. On the edge of fullness and boredom, desire is still limited by geography. ——Jean Rostand

26. Limited ability, boundless desire: Man is a god who has been demoted to the mortal world, and he has not forgotten everything in heaven. ——Lamartine

27. If a person can curb his various desires and live a life without seeking, then he can be regarded as master of his own life and his own destiny. ——(Egypt) Yusuf Sibai

28. The taste of fame is so sweet, so we love everything related to it, even death. ——Pascal

29. The desire for fame is an irrational desire of human beings; even the philosophers themselves seem to be extremely unwilling to give up the weakness of pursuing fame. ——Montaigne

30. Too much desire harms justice, and too much worry harms wisdom. ——Liu An

31. There is nothing more selfish than the desire for fame. Working for others is just to exchange for your own reputation. ——Lando

32. Self-control is the instinct of the strongest. ——Bernard Shaw

33. The desire for knowledge is a natural tendency of human beings, and any person with a sound mind will do whatever it takes to obtain knowledge. - Cy Johnson

34. Wealth and reputation are falling before our eyes, but they cannot change our ambitions. ——Wowenag

35. The key to saving trouble lies in abstinence. ——Liu An

36. People who have desires but no actions can only produce plague. —— Blake

37. Indulge yourself in the pleasures of pleasure, and be followed by sorrow. —— Shen Juyun, an educator in the Qing Dynasty, "Xiyan Tuyu"

38. Once a person becomes a slave of desire, he can never be freed. ——(Thailand) Cha Gaojidi

39. Those who are faster than they want are faster than they are.

—— "Yan Danzi"