This can be said to be a prejudice, or a bad idea. In the past, people did not think correctly. They think that their grandson is a member of their own family and should be treated sincerely. Treating grandson as an outsider is superficial and insincere. With the development of society, this practice is becoming less and less, and no one will prefer boys to girls.

1, throw away some old ideas

There are many traditions handed down from the older generation, many essences need us to learn, and many dross need us to abandon. This statement, like "son preference", is incorrect. The palm of your hand is covered with meat, and you have your own blood. There is no difference between yourself and outsiders. People used to think that their daughter was going to get married and would definitely not be her family in the future, so they didn't like it. I am not particularly good at treating my daughter's children. This is all wrong. Nowadays, many daughters also support the elderly, which should be abandoned. We should treat children correctly and not be partial.

2. Equality between men and women.

This statement is also related to the idea of son preference. Many people think that their daughters will not be their own family in the future, and their children will not be their own family, so there will be some prejudice. However, with the continuous progress of society, people's thoughts have gradually begun to change, abandoning the concept of son preference. In the past, some people always thought that "a woman without talent is virtue" and refused to let girls go to school. It's different now. Men and women are equal and have the right to go to school. Some of the previous prejudices have gradually disappeared. Although some people still have this idea, they will be eliminated under the trend of the times.

We should have the ability to distinguish the previous culture, take its essence and discard its dross. We should continue to maintain some fine traditions and discard some bad traditions in time. People's minds should learn to change, so as to adapt to the development of society. If they can't keep up with the trend of society, they will be eliminated by society.