In life, we are often troubled by various emotions such as anxiety, impatience, not being able to get what we want, not being able to let go, etc., so we will fall into all kinds of unreasonable pain and it is difficult to extricate ourselves.
Everything in this life makes us anxious and weighs us down.
We are often troubled by the troubles in life. Only by adjusting our mentality can we be contented.
The best mentality in life is to know how to let nature take its course.
When Lin Qingxuan was young, he had a very anxious time. He often missed food and food in pain and could not sleep at night.
He sought explanation from a Zen master.
The Zen Master said to him: "People need to practice."
Lin Qingxuan was confused: "How to practice?"
The Zen Master replied: "When you are hungry, just Eat and sleep when you feel sleepy."
Lin Qingxuan was still puzzled.
The Zen Master also said:
Therefore, the first thing to let nature take its course is to do the things in front of you well. People who can do the things in front of them well are already extraordinary.
Only by doing the things in front of you well can you do other things well.
However, we are often unable to calm down and do the things we should do well because of the distractions of other things. In the end, we fail to do the things we should do well and the things we should not do.
Waking in vain, accomplishing nothing, and feeling anxious and annoyed all day long.
Adjust your mood and let things take their own course. You must first learn to do the things in front of you and do what you can.
Nine out of ten people will have anxiety, and nine out of ten times the reason for anxiety is also worry about the future. We often feel panic and fear because of things that have not yet come.
As the saying goes: "If a person has no long-term worries, he must have immediate worries." Uncertainty about the future will make us fall into various risk considerations, so the imagined giant beast in our hearts will It will get bigger and bigger.
In the end, our current happiness will be swallowed up together.
Most of people’s troubles are caused by us thinking too much about the future and neglecting to enjoy the present life.
In life, what defeats us is not the cruelty of reality, but the unfounded and terrifying beast in our imaginations.
Facts have proved that most of the many things we think about every day are things that will never happen, and your worries day and night are all in vain.
Let nature take its course, and don’t let things that haven’t happened yet ruin our positivity and good mood in life now.
You need to remember an old saying: "The boat will straighten out when it reaches the bridge."
When living in this world, we need to clearly understand one thing, that is: the true meaning of worldly affairs is that there is no Perfection, if a person is not destined, it is useless to force it.
People and things in this world are all gatherings and separations caused by fate. We are destined to come thousands of miles to meet each other, but we don’t know if we are not destined to meet. Things that are supposed to come will always come. Things that don’t belong to you, you can’t even ask for.
In this world, perhaps there really is the so-called luck and destiny.
As the saying goes, "Do your best and listen to destiny." If you still can't get what you want after working hard, then it means "the destiny is not enough" and you have no chance to get it.
Therefore, just do your best in everything. If you do everything you should do, then even if you fail to succeed in the end, you should be worthy of yourself.
Put your mind at ease and let everything go. When fate comes, you will be greeted with a smile, and when fate goes, you will wave goodbye.
Nothing can always accompany us throughout our lives, and there are too many things that are destined to miss us.
As a person, you don’t seek for nothing, but you seek to cherish what you have and strive for what you can. Only if you focus on your own side and surroundings, and don't seek the distant starlight.
In a person's life, only when you truly see what you have can you feel the wealth and happiness of life.
Many people around us, including ourselves, are often trapped in the past, entangled in things that are unfinished, unfinished, missed, and things we didn’t have time to fight for.
Every time I dream back in the middle of the night, I feel extremely sad, and a wave of regret and annoyance arise spontaneously, which tortures me so much that I can't sleep peacefully.
However, the so-called "missing" does not mean that the end point is wrong, but that it has passed. All these things are like time, it will pass after it passes. If you cannot let go, it will only increase the disaster.
Our life is indeed like a poem by Su Shi: People are like Qiuhong who has a letter, and things are like a spring dream without leaving a trace.
People may be like flying dragons in autumn, leaving traces when they come and go, but things in the world are like a big dream in spring, leaving no trace when you wake up.
The significance of many things lies in that time. If you had done it and met it at that time, then life would have been a different scenery; but if you missed it, even if you come back again, it will no longer be the same. The way it was before.
Let nature take its course. The last thing is to learn to let go of the past. You can sigh and miss it, but you can't let it go.
The reason why people’s eyes are in front is to teach you how to look forward. Frequently looking back will make you unclear about the road ahead.
Our whole life is an inner practice. The more difficult things are in the world, the stronger our hearts become.
Letting nature take its course does not mean that we should treat our lives with a negative attitude. But we need to know how to cherish the things in front of us, hold on to what we have, and let go of what we miss.
Only when you treat people and things with such a positive and optimistic attitude, you will not miss out again and add regrets, and your life will be truly rich and happy.