1. The road is trodden by others, but the heart is controlled by oneself. Instead of complaining about the good or bad fate, it is better to adjust your mentality and live a good life. The road is wider than the heart, and the life is not as good as the heart! Don’t forget your original intention.

2. When you are young, don’t bully others; when you are old, don’t humiliate others; when you are in front of others, don’t praise yourself in public; when you are behind others, don’t bully others. Don't slander others; when you are above others, don't treat others as others; when you are below others, don't treat yourself as someone else.

3. A person should know his position, just like a person knows his face. This is the most sober consciousness.

4. Life is not about gaining, but about letting go. Whether it is prosperous or desolate, you don’t have to be too nostalgic about the scenery you have seen. After all, if you don’t move forward, life has to move forward. No matter how big the pain is, you will forget it as soon as you sleep. Carrying yesterday and chasing tomorrow will exhaust every moment. Only by forgetting while walking can you feel every happiness that comes your way.

5. Growth is the realization of self-survival and the ability to think independently. What we call maturity is self-cultivation that eliminates arrogance internally and eliminates prejudice externally.

6. Nine times out of ten there will be dissatisfaction in life. Since we cannot control our destiny, we should let nature take its course, find our inner self, don’t lose ourselves, and gain inner peace! If life is simpler, happiness will last longer.

7. There are two things that are definitely a loss-making business: one is losing your temper, no matter how reasonable you are, you will inevitably offend people and lose opportunities; the other is making a promise impulsively, and the mind is broken. If it's hot, I'll get myself into a lot of thankless trouble. Therefore, keeping your mouth shut when you have emotions is a practice that everyone must do.

8. If no one comes to comfort you when you cry, don’t be afraid, you are learning to be strong; if no one cares about you when you are upset, don’t worry, you are learning to endure it; if no one is there to rely on when you are tired, don’t Panic, just in time to learn to be independent. The chrysalis that emerges from the cocoon can become a butterfly. If you want to be reborn, you must first transform. If you want to grow, you must undergo training!

9. When you walk to a water-poor place and sit and watch the clouds rise, you realize that the most important thing in life is: find something to eat, find something to drink, find someone who loves you, and find someone who loves you. A lifetime of friends who can give you blessings at any time is enough.

10. If you have money, get things done! No money, do a good job! Snakes don't know they're poisonous, and people don't know they're wrong. Your kindness is like a piece of candy to others, it is gone after you eat it. And your badness is like a scar that will exist forever. This is human nature!

11. People are inevitably born with self-pity. Only by staying awake at all times can we see clearly where the real value lies.

12. Real connections are not in the number of friends, but in the quality of friendship. Real connections are not about routines, but about sincerity; not about quantity, but about quality; not about icing on the cake, but about providing help when needed.

13. Many things in this world are hidden, and what you see may not be true, and you may not be lucky enough to see it.

14. You can be alone, but you are not allowed to be alone. You can be lonely, but you can't be empty. You can be depressed, but you are not allowed to fall. It’s okay to be disappointed, but don’t give up. Remember, children without umbrellas have to run harder.

15. Life is like this. It is impossible for everything to be perfect, but imperfect things pave the way for future perfection. Face every shortcoming calmly and meet the next challenge. .

16. Be dedicated when choosing, try your best when taking action, persist without complaint, and end without regret. If you can do your best in everything, you will have no regrets in life.

17. In adversity, wise men advance despite difficulties, while fools stay depressed. Instead of believing in relying on others, it is better to believe in relying on yourself. Those futures that seem unreachable will become the calm and peaceful things you have experienced!

18. Self-change is a very difficult but addictive thing. There are always challenges in life, you just need to overcome them one by one, shed your vulnerability and put on new armor again and again.

19. Don’t complain. Complaining will always show your inability. Because if you have the guts, you can change things, not just endure them.

Since you can't change it and it's not enough to walk away, then just accept the reality silently.

20. No matter where we go, we must learn to support ourselves, give ourselves more encouragement when we fail, give ourselves more warmth when we are lonely, and be diligent to make our hearts lighter.

21. Anger is punishing oneself with other people's mistakes; distress is torturing oneself with one's own mistakes; regret is using helpless past events to destroy oneself; anxiety is frightening oneself with virtual risks.

22. When being strong becomes your only choice, you will know how strong you can be. When you can't hold on, remember to tell yourself, hold on a little longer. If you think about it a thousand times, it is better to do it once. A gorgeous fall is better than meaningless wandering.

23. Don’t wait until the person is gone and the relationship fades before you regret it; don’t wait until your heart is far away and the fate is gone before you sigh heavily. Meeting people depends on fate; getting along with people depends on sincerity. Knowing each other is happiness; cherishing each other is warmth.

24. No matter who you are, or what you do, just give it 70% to 80%, and leave the last 20% to 30% to your imagination.

25. Decades of life are full of ups and downs, bitterness, spicy and salty, with all kinds of tastes. Open the window of your soul and breathe the fresh air outside. Don't let yourself live too tiredly. We should learn to be open-minded and take things lightly, learn not to force things, and learn to hide things deeply. Relax yourself at the right time, find catharsis, and decompress your tired mind.

26. There are many stations in life. As long as your heart is quiet, whether you are standing outside the world of mortals, quietly admiring the prosperity, or in the world of fireworks, tasting all kinds of flavors, you will feel more calm and calm.

27. When you have to give up, give up decisively. Only by letting go can you go far! Only by giving up can you pursue something. People who are unwilling to give up anything will lose the most precious things.