When I saw this topic, I thought of a classmate in my university dormitory. He was very confident. Because of his confidence, we thought he was different.

The whole group said in the dormitory that if the president of the student union invited him to dinner and the leader of the Youth League Committee invited him to dinner, he would be promoted. I would often come back drunk before turning off the lights and start chatting.

We have always been puzzled because we didn’t think he had a cool side. Later, a member of the student union said that this classmate often shamelessly asked the student union president and the others to have dinner, and often cleared the table.

What I want to say is that some of what we see is true, and some of it is mythical, but it is actually intriguing.

Some people’s self-confidence comes from their deep-seated unwillingness to admit defeat. They cannot be slutty with wealth, cannot be surrendered by force, and cannot be moved by poverty or lowliness. He will always stick to his beliefs and never change his true colors. There are many such people around him. They have graduated 10 years ago. Some students still maintain their original mentality and struggle step by step.

The self-confidence of some people, the so-called self-confidence, is that they don’t know the heights of the sky and the earth, and they don’t know how much they weigh. They are blind, opening their mouths to change the world, and keeping silent to benefit mankind, but what they actually do is absurd. .

Therefore, you must have your own opinions on the self-confidence of confident people.

In this era where people can’t stop and are nervous and suffocating, we need self-confidence, otherwise it will be easy to be overwhelmed or degenerate. We must have the self-confidence that “I am born with talents that will be useful”, and also You must have a clear understanding of yourself, know what you can and cannot do, and try to break through the limitations within your own abilities.

If boys are addicted to general self-confidence, they are prone to rashness, because self-confidence has the power of self-righteousness to win. It gives people the courage to persevere. However, there is a mysterious self-confidence. Excessive self-confidence is complacency. If a person is complacent, he will be proud and relaxed, underestimate the seriousness of the problem, judge things superficially, be arrogant, arrogant, and act recklessly.

A person has a maniacal self-confidence, and there are dangers lurking in his thoughts. He is overconfident, miscalculates the consequences, and is stubborn. Sometimes he is full of enthusiasm but has a cold heart. Sometimes he is cooled by failure. He steals the chicken but loses it. rice, the bamboo basket fetched water in vain. Being overly obsessed and self-confident can easily lead to misjudgment and misunderstanding. Emotionally, you can be hot-tempered but cold-hearted. Your good intentions can be overwhelming, and you can be despised by others for being sentimental. It is futile and laborious. When the time comes, you will be dumb and eat Coptis chinensis, and you will find yourself in trouble.

Therefore, people must be confident, but they must not be obsessed with ordinary self-confidence. Self-confidence must be down-to-earth and pragmatic, and it must be fully grasped, modest, prudent, and calm. Self-confidence requires self-awareness, which lies in strategizing and winning a victory thousands of miles away. Only when you are confident about winning, can you be pragmatic.

Where does confidence come from? What do you think about the obsessive self-confidence of some boys?

Confidence comes from a person’s spiritual world and from his thoughts. It has a noble realm and connotation.

"If you are confident that you will live two hundred years, you will swim three thousand miles into the water."

These are the words of a great man.

These words demonstrate Mao Zedong’s great talent and broad strategy.

Ren Zhengfei’s confidence comes from his love for the motherland and the people.

It comes from his dedication to his career and his national pride that always smiles.

That is your national brand that represents the image of the country, catching up with Apple’s Huawei mobile phones.

What you show is the pride of the Chinese nation!

Kong Ming and Zhuge Liang’s confidence came from the gentle swing of his feather fan. His empty city plan will make you bend over.

Every child is as smart as Kong Mingzhi, full of economics and courage.

However, there is something wrong with the obsession-like confidence that comes with it.

I am blindly optimistic and confident, and I have committed a major taboo in life from the beginning.

I have a mother who has been with me since I was very young.

My mother was suffering from pain. At that time, the family was poor. I often worry about my livelihood.

Eating and drinking have become the themes of today's era.

When I was a child, I was smart and well-behaved, and I was a person who could make great achievements in my life.

Although my mother understands all the truth, she often doesn’t listen to other people’s advice.

When I was very young, I had an aunt who was a high-ranking official, but he had no heirs. I have long wanted to give her a break.

I am sensible. When I first joined the army, my aunt died in the line of duty.

At that time, my mother and I were dependent on each other, and it was obvious that she was reluctant to let go.

Later, because he did not have a good diploma, he took the civil service examination and got the first place in the county, so he started working.

At that time, others said: "You have two options. 1. Use external forces to find a support point and a reliance. 2. Learning a decent technology is the last way you can achieve glory in life. "

My mother, I haven't listened to you yet!

I am still confused and can’t find the direction to work hard!

However, you are still busy and confident!

Hello, just like others are saying about my blind confidence!

Confidence and inferiority complex are opposites. In comparison, self-confidence is what we should learn from.

When a person encounters some setbacks in life and other people’s disapproval, what we need is self-confidence. Go on better

When we make a friend who has a very low self-esteem, we have to help him lose his low self-esteem and gain confidence

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But don’t be too confident. After all, if you are blind, one mountain is higher than the other.

Being modest among the best will leave a good impression on others

To sum up, it is better to be confident than to be too confident. Be Stronger than Inferiority

Confidence is also belief. When a person stands in the world, no matter his level, he must have some confidence in his own life. If he does not have self-confidence, he will fall. Who will work hard to win, but self-confidence is not willful. You must believe in yourself and others, learn from others' strengths, be able to recognize your own shortcomings, and proceed from the reality of the customer. Only with such confidence can you walk a good path in life. If you do not act according to reality, you will only be able to gain self-confidence. If you fail, you will be self-confident and unconfident, and you will doubt everything, even if you don’t believe it, no matter what others say, it is even more undesirable to be willful. If you don’t hit the wall, you won’t look back, and even if you hit the wall, you won’t look back. You can only go to extremes, self-confidence, and belief. , Faith may be indispensable, but there are also people who blindly follow others. People are right and people are wrong. If you really follow the wrong, there is nothing you can do. No matter how big or small your ability is, as long as you identify the right path of life and go on firmly, the result will always be good. , This is true self-confidence,

I think there will always be a few such existences around everyone.

Many straight men feel good about themselves, and they also judge the people around them with a critical eye.

When faced with such people, I tend to stay away. What they lack may be frustration.

If boys study more and learn more skills, and have the ability to make money, they will naturally have self-confidence.

First of all, I want to say that being confident is a better performance, so that you can highlight yourself and not be timid in doing things. Of course, don’t overdo it and become conceited. Then let’s talk about how to deal with some boys’ self-perceptions. Good reasons:

1. Family reasons. A good family environment and atmosphere have a great relationship with a person's growth and character development. Superior living conditions and parental love will make a person happy. It will create a sense of superiority and your self-feeling will become better.

2. Personal ability. If you are a genius and are praised every day, or have many skills and are praised every day, I think it is impossible not to be confident and feel good about yourself.

3. Strong self-esteem. Men’s self-esteem is very strong. Some people do things they regret because their self-esteem is humiliated. Some people appear to be very confident, but in fact they are supported by their strong self-esteem and do not want others to see that they are not good enough. On the bright side.

It is a good thing for a man to have self-confidence, as it will enhance his aggressiveness, but he should be careful not to overdo it.

I feel that a large number of straight men in China are very confident~

1. I feel that my body shape is very standard, a very good series

A certain man always says that his body shape is very standard , has a good figure, and can hold up well even when wearing clothes... Every time I hear it, I can only respond with an awkward but polite smile.

Once he said again: "Every time I tell my classmates that I have a good figure, they make fun of me..." Although I thought to myself: the people's eyes are sharp~ but I still said euphemistically: Then I say this to you because you have a good relationship with classmates. Once, a few friends were together, and the friend described the man as follows: "I see you are a little thinner this time than last time", "Your figure... um~ it should be quite suitable for playing basketball... ”

BTW: This man’s figure is actually acceptable among the general public (excluding sports and fitness enthusiasts). His legs are neither fat nor thin, which is considered standard. His upper body is a bit fleshy but not fat. He is said to be muscular. Well, you don’t have a body type that has any muscle lines. Anyway, you just need to lose fat and gain muscle.

2. I feel that I am very popular and can get along with all types of people.

I say that I love helping others and am often willing to do some free, time-consuming and energy-consuming tasks. things. He said that his classmates and colleagues all like to ask him for help. He is very popular and can fit in with any circle... Once he talked about how "tortuous" he was in doing these things for everyone (probably because it didn't go his way and he needed to be very special). ), I thought he was complaining, so I asked, "Is it because you don't know how to refuse people?" However, people seemed to think it was okay for him to do this, and he was happy with it, so I wouldn't make any comments.

My friend uses 4 words to describe his appearance: Loyal and honest

Regardless of whether he is a man or a woman, he basically has a good personality, a good temper, and does not care about anything. As long as he is not afraid of social interaction, his appearance will not matter. Aggression (the kind that looks good, looks harmless, and has no scheming) can get along with any type

As long as a boy is associated with the four words "loyalty, honesty, and honesty", basically I have already said goodbye to most of the girls. When asking for directions, you always want to ask for directions from someone who looks honest and honest...