Love cannot be expressed in words. Love someone, I don't know what I'm thinking, and I can't say it! Love can't be understood in words, but can only be felt and enjoyed with one's own heart. It doesn't matter how the result is, what matters is the process, which you can manage slowly! !
When two people are together, what matters is the feeling in your heart! ! You are worried about her/him, and you want to tell her/him first. Talk to friends about her/him all day and have fun with her/him!
True love is actually very simple. Love is not made of sweetness, romance, beauty and youth. Love is understood with your heart. Sincere love is not personal possession, but can give up one's own happiness for the other's happiness. Trust and happiness should be given to that person. . . . Keep a certain distance, surprise your lover from time to time and give him a brand-new you every day. You will be able to keep your love forever. Perfect true love can bring people long-term happiness. Should be consensual, two of a kind's, mutual recognition and mutual attraction, created by the joint efforts of both sides.
Question 2: How to get rid of jealousy and suspicion? Such is also the case with me. I'm jealous! But I later understood that this is my insecure performance ~! When your boyfriend loves you very much, he can't bear to see you jealous, so he won't be honest with you. He will hide a lot of things. When you find out what he is hiding, you will think it is cheating ~! At this time, your sense of security will become less and less, and you will become more and more suspicious. . . But knowing that things will evolve like this, I still can't help being jealous. This should be your mentality, right? There is no solution, when he loves you more than you love him, you will gradually believe him ~!
Please accept it, thank you!
Question 3: How to get rid of jealousy? Look on the bright side. Men have female colleagues and women have male colleagues, as long as the other person loves you.
Question 4: How to get rid of the habit of being jealous? Asking God for help is rational jealousy. Everyone feels uncomfortable when they see their lover chatting with a relative of the opposite sex. This uncomfortable feeling is jealousy. Most cases of jealousy are due to the appearance of a "third party", which breaks the balance of the original two people and leads to the inadaptability of one of them. Jealousy is a normal mental state and a normal reaction to protect one's love from infringement. Therefore, jealousy can be said to be the expression of love, and a little vinegar can be the seasoning of love. On the contrary, it is abnormal to meet a "third party" without any emotional reaction, which probably shows that they don't love their other half deeply. When you are jealous, your performance varies from person to person. Some people are very jealous and will fully express their anger and dissatisfaction, while others will suppress themselves and seem to have no jealousy at all. Although jealousy itself is understandable as a kind of jealousy, too much "vinegar" will not only become the condiment of love, but also become the killer of love. Psychologists have found that a person who is jealous will have two emotions: lack of confidence in the feelings of himself and his lover. "They seem quite suitable." "The man's appearance and family are much better than me. Why did she choose me? " "Compared with her, I feel terrible." ..... This lack of confidence in their feelings for themselves and their loved ones will soon make them jealous. In order to prevent this "third party" from "seducing" their loved ones, it is the first choice of many people to let their loved ones return to their side quickly and stay away from the "third party". Many times, breaking up will strongly hurt a person's self-confidence, which is also for a reason, because in love, many people will feel that their charm is not enough, and breaking up just confirms their guess, leading to a strong sense of inferiority and frustration. Some girls hate their boyfriends looking at other girls, so they often lose their temper and even pinch their boyfriends as punishment. This kind of performance is understandable. But if this possessiveness is too strong, jealous partners will keep an eye on their lover and even don't want their lover to have normal contacts with other members of the opposite sex. The result is likely to be that his lover broke up because he lost his freedom. In the first case, you can avoid being too jealous as long as you improve your self-confidence. Of course, this kind of jealousy is also very easy to eliminate. As long as your lover flatters well, you can make this jealous one feel confident emotionally. It is worth noting that this type of people are jealous, and most of them hide themselves because they don't want their lovers to feel insecure. If their lover is a person who is not so emotionally sensitive and can't find out in time, these "jealous people" will feel left out and think that their lover doesn't really love themselves, so they will break up. At this time, "slow-heating" lovers may still find this "jealousy" inexplicable. The second situation is more troublesome. Because a person's possessiveness is hard to change, no matter what tricks lovers use to "woo" and "be jealous", it will have no effect. And for this reason, people who are overly jealous will make more efforts to torture their loved ones and hope that their loved ones will always be by their side, so that they can feel at ease. This way of being jealous is easy to find, but difficult to change. If jealous lovers can abandon love for freedom, then this love will soon end in a breakup. On the contrary, if jealous lovers will give up their freedom because of love, then this love should be perfect. In any case, whether it is because of distrust or because you want to possess it, you can't be too jealous. Spying on each other's privacy by hook or by crook all day because you doubt your lover will soon bring the originally harmonious family into collapse. Therefore, even if jealousy has some benefits, it should be treated rationally. Here are some rational thinking modes to treat jealousy, which can effectively reduce excessive jealousy. Mode 1 Even if you really want your lover to be by your side all the time, you are the only one in your heart. However, you should know that love cannot be a reason to restrict freedom. There is a saying that "it is better to get married than to leave". Love will not disappear because of freedom, but will be nourished because of freedom. Mode 2 Even if your lover chooses someone else, it doesn't mean you are not good. Similarly, when a lover loves someone he appreciates, it doesn't mean that he doesn't appreciate you. All you have to do is be yourself and let him continue to appreciate and love you. Mode 3 Suppressing jealousy is not a good thing in itself, which will make your partner feel that you don't love him, or make him feel that you don't love him ... >>
Question 5: How to get rid of the habit of being jealous? Because love is too deep, women compete for men just like animals compete for food together. If they don't grab it, they will be hungry when they see others eating it.
Question 6: How to get rid of jealousy ...? Actually, jealousy is not a problem. Being jealous will prove that you care deeply and show how much you love. However, if you really want to change, you have to adjust your psychology, try to think of things on the bright side and relax on ta. . .
Question 7: I am a jealous person. How can I get rid of this problem? Give a simple example! Will you be jealous when you see someone you love chatting with the opposite sex? If they are chatting, you can join their conversation in a humorous way. If they are talking about work, you'd better not join in.
Actually, I want you to be generous. Everyone has his own social circle. Otherwise, how can I get along in this society?
You can talk to me if you are interested. Haha's laughter ...
Question 8: How can we get rid of our anger, anger and jealousy? It's true that you are jealous, but your other half will come to coax you, but you should also give yourself a reason. Your man loves you so much that others can't take it away. You can have a small temper, but don't carrot and stick, or boys will lose interest in you.
Question 9: How can we get rid of our doubts and jealousy? There is a famous saying in Sun Tzu's Art of War: I don't doubt people, but I don't doubt people. Emotionally, it can be the same: the lover does not doubt, and the suspect does not love. No matter how close two people are, they should keep a little private space, just like two hedgehogs keep warm in winter, too far apart, neither too cold nor too hot; Too close, thorns will hurt each other.
Neither friendship nor love can withstand suspicion and jealousy.