Zeng Guofan not only made great achievements in his career, but also had some opinions on educating his children. Zeng Guofan thought: If you are used to killing a child, if you don't want to raise a rebellious child, then let this child learn to eat these three kinds of hardships in the process of growing up, and he can become a great man in the future.
At an early age, children are simple, have no distractions, and can concentrate on one thing best; But as an adult, it is difficult to concentrate and it is impossible to read silently.
Many children did not insist on eating and reading when they were young, and it is difficult to form this habit when they grow up. Therefore, if you want to have children, succeed and live a happier life, you must learn to eat the bitterness of reading and form your own focused and independent way of thinking as soon as possible.
There is no success without time and energy. Diligence is the foundation of a person's foothold and the foundation of a family's prosperity.
Zeng Guofan has been trying to explain what "diligence" is all his life. Whether studying or housework, he is strict with himself and his children. Under Zeng Guofan's education, he created the Zeng family's century-old glory.
Remember, parents must not spoil their children and do whatever they want. As long as the child says he wants to study and won't let him do anything, he will develop this lazy and lazy habit. If you can't suffer from "diligence", how can you achieve great things and your own life in the future?
If people can be calm, even if everything is complicated, they can take it lightly. Look down on the "bitterness" of life, resentment will be less, and resentment will naturally be resolved.
Many people are unhappy just because they care too much about "housework" and can't do anything about people who deserve their attention. It is inevitable to be born a man, but it is impossible to experience happiness if you only focus on the shortcomings of your parents.
For parents, they should not only teach their children theoretical knowledge, but also give them a good attitude. We should look at the "bitterness" of life with a positive eye. The key to a child's future happiness lies in whether his heart can shine in the dark and illuminate the road ahead.
The above is what Zeng Guofan told us: If you don't want to raise a rebellious son, let your children suffer from "the pain of reading", "the pain of hard work" and "the pain of life". And the more you eat, the earlier you eat, the happier your life will be.
There is still a lot to learn about Zeng Guofan, and the best way to learn is to read books about him and understand his life. The ancients wrote Zeng Guofan's unattainable life height with a pair of couplets. The so-called: "Lide made three immortal contributions, being a teacher and being a perfect person." There was a saying in the society that "it is useless to study Zeng Guofan in a career!"
Read the complete works of Zeng Guofan and read Zeng Guofan's life! Read between the lines to understand his concentration, his patience, his wisdom and his great wisdom in dealing with the world. Even if you can't do something like Zeng Guofan, you will certainly be promoted by absorbing the essence of Zeng Guofan's complete works, your personality and your life.
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