"Right or wrong is up to oneself, reputation or reputation is up to others, regardless of gains or losses." The source is "Yuelu Academy", which means that the right and wrong of doing things should be judged according to one's own consistent standards. After doing something, you will be praised or denied by others. Let it go, gain or fail, success or failure, and calmly accept the arrangements of fate. Right and wrong must be judged by one's own heart. Whether you slander or praise is up to others. What you gain and lose are all determined by fate.

1. Right and wrong: Right and wrong is a Chinese word, pinyin is shìfēi, which refers to the right and wrong of things; it is generally called a verbal dispute. See "Book of Rites·Qu Li 1". Often used to refer to bad things.

From Lao She's "Four Generations Under One Roof" 65: "Good fellow, if you cause another dispute, I will die in prison!"

2. Reputation: Refers to slander and praise. Say bad things and say good things.

From Lu Xun's "Lace Literature: Just Treat a Joke as a Joke (Part 1)": "But I know nothing about phonology, and I am not worthy of saying a word about both criticism and praise."