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Love is a natural expression of emotion.

When people of the opposite sex are attracted to each other, subtle feelings such as appreciation, infatuation, and longing often develop uncontrollably, and love is deeply rooted quietly.

But human emotions are ever-changing, just like the rainbow that cannot stay long after the storm.

People's emotions, thoughts, and attitudes will also change as the external environment changes.

So, love will be divided by people into the intense and intoxicating period of love, the stumbling period of running-in period, and the calm and natural period of dull period.

Maintaining a relationship is much more difficult than creating one. Human nature likes novelty and excitement. How to ensure the freshness and longevity of love is a permanent proposition that people have been exploring.

Dong Qing’s emotional experience is the same as that of most people, and they are all explored through stumbling;

After experiencing emotional setbacks, he continues to move forward, and after being hurt, he continues to move forward. Later, I gradually gained a deeper understanding of love and mastered the methods that suit me to maintain my relationship.

Companionship is the longest confession of love. The maintenance of a relationship cannot lack the full participation of time. It can be said that the clearest way to externalize love is to walk hand in hand.

02.

Is the gap caused by distance one of the obstacles to maintaining a stable relationship? I think the answer is yes.

The original intention of two people getting together is to spend time together with the person they love, and to feel the warmth of hug from each other;

Enjoy his delicate love He spoke softly, and could truly feel all the emotional care and impact he gave me.

But once the distance occurs and becomes irreconcilable, the gap of time and space will always have an impact on the relationship to a certain extent.

Dong Qing and Huang Hui met at Dragon TV. At this time, they were both in the struggle period of their careers.

They found resonance in each other, and were attracted by each other's enthusiasm for career and life.

But when the opportunity comes, they also face a major choice:

Should they stay where they are and maintain their current work status for the sake of their emotional health, or should they In order to achieve my long-standing ambition, go to a bigger stage to show your style.

Dong Qing and Huang Hui chose the latter for the sake of each other's growth, and this inevitably led to a disruption in their life rhythms, which in turn caused the time and energy to continue to care for their relationship to gradually shrink.

The ending of this relationship was not what they wanted, but it was also a fact that they were unable to change.

Although the two people were separated because of their original choices, they had no complaints about each other.

To this day, they still maintain a good relationship as friends, leaving all the troubles of yesterday to fade away with time.

It’s just about converting your sincere feelings for each other into another way to preserve them forever.

Personal companionship is always an indispensable glue between lovers. In order to understand each other better and promote the sublimation of the relationship, both people need time to get used to the edges.

Therefore, how to ensure the time and method of two people's companionship is an important issue that every couple must seriously consider, and there is no room for vague and perfunctory attitudes.

03.

In "Thirty Only", Chen Yu's attitude towards marriage has aroused criticism from many people.

In his eyes, the union with Zhong Xiaoqin was just for relaxation and happiness. What he wanted in the family was just a fixed place for him to relax.

To him, his wife is like a child who needs a toy, a must-have when he reaches a certain age.

It is said that women are afraid of marrying the wrong man. I think this sentence is a warning to people who know how to "understand" in relationships.

In daily life and work, people are afraid of communicating with people who don’t agree with them or who they don’t talk to.

Because coordination cannot be achieved, conflicts and disputes are always inevitable.

In such a situation, successfully resolving differences or moving things forward is as full of thorns as Kuafu chasing the sun.

Once such a situation exists in a relationship, it will have a huge impact on love.

After joining CCTV, Dong Qing had a six-year relationship with Cheng Qian, a hot new host in the hosting industry at the time.

According to common sense, six years of long-distance love is enough to push two people into marriage and achieve success.

But Dong Qing did eventually break up with Cheng Qian. The reason was due to the lack of understanding between the two people.

At that time, Cheng Qian was a proud person in the industry. His talent gave him arrogant capital, coupled with his already arrogant attitude.

He maintains a certain sense of superiority towards everyone and everything, so this leads to his contempt for Dong Qing.

This asymmetry in the emotional balance makes the relationship between the two people difficult. Cheng Qian does not understand Dong Qing, he does not know what Dong Qing is thinking, and he does not understand the meaning of feelings.

So, in the end, he was unable to make a promise to Dong Qing and failed to get the opportunity to grow old hand in hand with Dong Qing.

Love has had the dual nature of beauty and bitterness since the beginning of Eve and Adam. It is not a multiple-choice question that can be successfully promoted by choosing one of the two.

On the contrary, love emphasizes the golden mean. It requires balance, neutralization, reconstruction, and tolerance...

Understanding and companionship are necessary topics in relationships. If they are managed well, they will It's a plus.

But if you fail the assessment, the consequences may not be as simple as failing the exam again.