I asked my wife, did you read the article "Filial piety destroys children" that I sent you on WeChat?
The wife said that after reading the article, there are both right and wrong.
I said, please state your opinion.
The wife said: "As a mother, I won't tie my son around and let him be filial. Unless I can provide him with an ideal future, I will definitely support my son to go out and go to a place suitable for his struggle. When he is capable, he will naturally know how to be filial.
Most children who follow their parents are difficult to achieve and surpass their parents. And those parents who ask their children to be around for filial piety, I think it is very selfish. In order to take care of themselves, they disregard their children's future. And those children who have their own independent personality can't be bound by their parents. Those children who can be bound by their parents are weak and difficult to achieve anything. "
As soon as my wife finished speaking, I was immediately impressed!
I said,' Comrade, I have known you for decades. What you just said is very philosophical and makes me sit up and take notice! Admire! Admire! "
When the wife heard this, she suddenly became proud: "Oh, you think your wife is stupid!" " ! "
I immediately responded: "Where, where, you are very smart and have a good eye! Great! Great! "
I then explained the meaning of filial piety to my wife.
"There are two kinds of filial piety: intellectual filial piety and foolish filial piety. In developed and civilized countries in Europe, they advocate wisdom and filial piety. In our country, traditional ideas advocate ignorance and filial piety.
Wisdom filial piety is manifested in enriching and improving children's ability, while ignorance filial piety is headed by pursuing traditional filial piety.
Two kinds of filial piety inevitably lead to two civilizations. In the ancient culture of China, the stupidest filial piety was filial piety. Some people have been filial for three years, but do they still let their children live? Those old and backward ideas should have been abandoned a long time ago! "
This is my view on filial piety.
(Write here 017 September 23rd morning 10)
The following text is taken from the network:
First, the definition of filial piety: the criterion for supporting parents and elders is called "filial piety". Filial piety is one of the two basic traditional moral codes of conduct of the Chinese nation, and the other is loyalty. For thousands of years, people have regarded loyalty and filial piety as nature, and even as a sign to distinguish people from animals. Loyalty and filial piety were put forward by saints, not saints. It is the historical product of long-term social practice in ancient China.
Second, the content of filial piety: the content of filial piety mainly includes: 1, raising and respecting relatives; 2. Shun pro, admonish pro; 3. carry on the family line; 4. bereavement and offering sacrifices to relatives; 5. Make a contribution to your parents.