Due to the gradual physical and psychological maturation, everyone will have a spring heart. But when there is love, there will be lovelorn. Some students cannot resolve the emotions of lovelorn, which affects their study and life. Some of them will be discouraged; some will deceive themselves, deny the existence of broken love, and fall into the quagmire of unrequited love; some will have revengeful feelings, leading to destructive endings, etc. In fact, students who are lovelorn should learn to deal with lovelorn correctly. Don't lose your composure, don't lose your morals, don't be at a loss when you fall in love, show confidence, courage and wisdom, and draw lessons from it.

1. Calmly analyze the reasons for falling out of love.

2． It is necessary to relieve inner depression in time. Lovelorn students can talk to friends about their troubles; they can also do some sports; they can even close the door and cry. It is necessary to find a suitable outlet, on the one hand to eliminate psychological pressure, on the other hand to vent the inner grievances, pain and anger in a timely manner and restore psychological balance.

3． divert attention. You can change your lifestyle to get rid of the pain of love breakup. If you devote yourself to studying or group activities, don't box yourself in and sigh all day long, making it difficult to extricate yourself. Instead, you should have the courage to divert your attention and get rid of the pain.

4. Learn to encourage yourself mentally. You should have a positive attitude when facing setbacks and learn to encourage yourself. Frustration in love is a test of life and a ladder for personality to mature. Francis Bacon has a famous saying: "None of the truly great people were driven mad by love." We must realize that forcing others to accept one's infatuated love is the root of all love tragedies, and all-or-nothing love is a sign of weakness and incompetence. Therefore, you should continue to encourage yourself to walk through this uneven road, cheer up quickly, and get rid of the emotional crisis at hand.