1. Generally, we do not defend ourselves, but we can clarify some concepts, some choices, and some rights and wrongs.

2. Admonish your friends secretly, but be sure to praise your friends in public.

3. When someone speaks ill of someone in front of you, you just smile.

4. If you want to appreciate your own value, you have to add value to the world.

5. Be a person first and do things later. Only by being a person well can you succeed in doing things.

6. Applaud everyone who takes the stage to sing.

7. Beautiful things are often because they are sincere. ——Roland

8. Flattery to please others is actually a lack of self-confidence.

9. Respect people who don’t like you.

10. If we want to make friends, we must first do something for others—things that require time, energy, thoughtfulness, and dedication.

11. When shaking hands with others, hold it for a while longer. Sincerity is a treasure.

12. The appearance is not annoying. If the appearance is not good, make yourself talented; if you have no talent, then always smile.

13. A kind word warms you for three winters, but a bad word hurts you for six months.

14. Temperament is the key. If you are not good at fashion, you would rather be simple.

15. You can’t climb a mountain in one step, but you can fall off a cliff with one careless step.

16. Don’t be afraid to reject others if your reasons are legitimate. ——Sanmao

17. You respect me one foot, and I respect you one foot.

18. Don’t “force” guests to look at your family photo album.

19. Don’t: If you are helped by others, you will soon forget it; if you are stepped on by others, you will never forget it!

20. Although a person can choose many paths, he cannot take two paths at the same time.