If anger is abandoned at home, it will be too obvious; If the punishment is not correct, the people will be at a loss.

If parents are dignified and kind, their children will be timid and filial.

If fathers are not kind, their children will be unfilial. If brothers are not friends, their brothers will be disrespectful.

Children should take nurturing as their heart and fathers should take learning as their teaching.

you can't do it both ways.

if there is profit, there must be profit.

If you are good, you should anticipate, and if you are evil, you should go

If you forbid the boy's violence and banter, the precepts of your teachers and friends are not as good as those of Fu Maid. To stop the struggle of mortals, the way of Yao and Shun is not as good as the instruction of my widow.

-------There are many more, I recommend you to read Family Instructions of Yan.