According to Buddhist scriptures, the combination of men and women in the world of mortals is a thousand-year fate. Because of thousands of years of indissoluble bond, in our ancient civilization with thousands of years of history, due to the accumulation of traditional culture, we have always followed the old saying that "men should marry when they are older, and women should marry when they are older". However, with the deepening of modern economic life, people's views on marriage are constantly changing in the collision, and quite a few people are quite confused, confused and even unable to extricate themselves in the replacement of the old and the new.

There are two famous sayings about marriage. "Marriage is the grave of love." I don't know whether Francis Bacon is purely out of wisdom or profundity, or whether his life is somewhat vivid, cursing and uttering that well-known and almost cruel remark. In contrast, lev tolstoy is more like an experienced and gentle old man talking to himself: "All happy families are similar, and each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way."

Actually, marriage is a little sweet. Sincere hope often rushes out of the mountain stream like a trickle in "Holding hands and staring with tears", even a word is enough to soothe each other's tired hearts; Showing deep feelings for each other brings us great spiritual comfort. When we think about this kind of life, when we have a heart that always cares about ourselves, we can't help feeling warm and full of enthusiasm.

In fact, marriage is a sincerity. Be frank and open, and selflessly entrust yourself to the most trustworthy person. The bottom of my heart should be as clear and transparent as spring water, without any impurities, and be yourself naturally in purity and innocence.

Actually marriage is a kind of trust. As the saying goes, a hundred people have thousands of faces. Different people have different customs, different hobbies and different personalities. There are so many differences, but the key to living together is mutual trust and respect.

In fact, marriage is a kind of tolerance. Many misunderstandings and grievances have been melted by tolerance. We are lucky to be together in the blink of an eye. We should learn to forget each other's faults and only remember each other's goodness. The boat of marriage is not specially built for the harbor, but it is more real in the storm. Since we finally entered the marriage with great expectations, we should seek common ground while reserving differences. The so-called "the appearance is close to the spirit, and there is no doubt."

In fact, marriage is a kind of responsibility. "Weak water is 3 thousand, just take one spoon", and this spoon is weak water. Although I dare not say that I am attached to this kind of life, doesn't this attachment have special significance? What's more, this relationship comes from karma.

Actually, getting married is one reason. Modern marriage is fragile, and all kinds of extramarital affairs appear. Either Cupid's arrow is shot in the wrong direction, or the marriage boat can't carry love. Every path it has taken has its reasons, and every future it is about to embark on also has its own direction. If the two sides no longer love each other, breaking up is also a beautiful scenery.

"Looking back suddenly, I can't help being in the sky. I understand love and hate. The most painful thing is regret. " In the face of marriage, why not remember what our predecessors said: Qian Fan crossed the boat and Wan Muchun was ahead of the sick tree.