Quotations from Mr. Ji:
The ancients said: "The tree wants to be quiet, but the wind will not stop. My son wants to raise and doesn't want to kiss. " This is exactly what I should say. I can't bear to imagine my mother missing her beloved son on her deathbed; When I think about it, my heart will crack and tears will fill my eyes. When I rushed back to Jinan from Beiping and Qingping from Jinan to attend the funeral, I saw my mother's coffin and humble house. I really want to hit a coffin and go underground with my mother. I regret it. I really regret it. I shouldn't have left my mother.
Mr. Ji said in "With Permanent Regret": "My permanent regret is that I should not leave my hometown and mother." According to Mr. Ji's own memories, when he was a child, his family was poor and relied on his uncle to help him live.
Because he is the only boy in the family, he is highly valued. He left his mother and hometown at the age of six and was taken to Jinan by his uncle Ji Sicheng. He entered a private school and began to study. After that, he hardly ever saw his mother again, and he didn't go back to mourn until her death. However, he did not even see his mother for the last time. This made Mr. Ji regret it even more.
After his mother died, Mr. Ji wrote: "For the sake of mother and son, I only stay away from fans, and it's hard to say when I fall asleep. This is a big hate! " Mother is Mr. Ji's eternal regret and pain.
When I was in high school, Teacher Ji made an oath: "Once I graduate from college and find a job, I will marry my mother immediately!" However, Mr. Ruji himself regretted it: "However, before I graduated from college, my mother left me forever."
Later, Mr. Ji described his feelings when he went home to attend the funeral and said, "I really want to bump into a coffin and go underground with my mother." This is because Mr. Ji regrets leaving his mother. He said: "No matter what reputation, status, happiness and honor in the world, there is nothing like being with my mother, even if she doesn't know a word, even if she eats' red' all day."
When my mother was alive, she didn't stay by her side and did her filial duty, which made Mr. Ji regret it for life. In the eyes of others, this is also a very sad thing.
Life is alive, and we should learn from it. You should know that filial piety should be carried out as soon as possible, and don't let "the son wants to raise and not kiss" become a lifelong regret.
When we grow up, our parents get old. This is a cruel fact, but it is a fact that we have to accept. Since ancient times, people in China have attached importance to filial piety, which is regarded as a lofty virtue. Here, regardless of the nature of filial piety, our focus should be on timely filial piety.
Maybe you will think, wait until you have a car and a house, then take your parents to your side, buy them this and that, and honor them.
Maybe you will say, take your parents on a trip when you have money.
Maybe you will think that only when the conditions are good can you truly honor your parents; Only when conditions permit can parents really enjoy happiness.
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So I postponed it again, and I pushed it again.
But, do you know, there is a kind of pain in this world, which is called "children want to raise and don't stay close." Mr. Ji called it "eternal hatred", and we have to listen to the advice of this cross-century old man.
Filial piety, you don't have to buy delicacies for your parents. It is also filial to go home more, help my father to rub his back and help my mother pick vegetables and wash clothes. It is also filial piety to call home when working outside, chat with parents and talk about family.
Don't always think about waiting. We should acknowledge the fact that human life is limited. You know, "natural disasters and man-made disasters" are unpredictable. What we can do is to cherish the present and be filial in time.
However, filial piety cannot be used as an excuse to sit at home and eat for the elderly. You should support your parents with your own hands and do your best. You don't have to force it deliberately, and you must never be stupid.
In this world, we are children first, then parents, from which we can better understand the hardships of being a father and a mother. As children, we should honor our parents, but we should also know how to be filial in time. A life that can fulfill filial piety in time is a happy life.