On the road of student growth, the weight of a teacher’s words is indeed not light! (2) A word is insignificant, but it has infinite power. ——Inscription: One sentence is more useful to people than a thousand words. There are many people in ancient and modern times, both at home and abroad, who have been deeply moved and even suddenly enlightened by someone else's words. There are countless examples of life-changing situations because of "one word". Once upon a time, there was a story about a child suffering from ADHD. His mother went to school for a parent-teacher meeting. The teacher complained more than once: "Your child can't even sit still for a minute." But the mother encouraged the child and said: "The teacher praised you. You could only sit for half a minute before. Now I can sit for a minute." Because of this sentence, the child regained his confidence and finally succeeded. Such a simple word of encouragement can lead people to success, and this is the power of a word. To make a lost life shine again, you don't necessarily need to ask someone who is eloquent to enlighten you. Sometimes just a seemingly ordinary word can bring strength to the other person. "Come on!" allows athletes to rush to the finish line tenaciously; a word of encouragement allows children with learning difficulties to enter college; a famous saying makes people learn to be humble. Tai Lihua is a deaf-mute, but she danced out of "Thousand-Hand Guanyin". Because she couldn't hear the music, Tai Lihua wanted to give up many times, but her dance teacher kept encouraging her: "Believe in yourself, you are the best!" Therefore, she persisted and became famous. She succeeded. The power of one sentence can change a person's life and the trajectory of his life. Without the teacher's encouragement, would Tai Lihua still be where she is today? The answer is no. Maybe she had given up long ago. A word between brothers and friends may make them enemies; a word from a jailed prisoner may make them change their ways; a word from a person waiting for rescue may make them persevere. And this is the power of one sentence! A careless word of frivolity can sometimes destroy one's own future, but a word of care for others can give desperate people the courage to survive. Life is a kind of learning, and everyone will inevitably encounter difficulties and confusion in the process of learning. Giving someone a word of encouragement can make life soar, so why not do it? Please remember that a drop of water can penetrate a stone, a palm can melt snow, and a word has infinite power. (3) Seeing Li Zi now, I feel much more comfortable. In fact, this is all due to my sister. It is my sister's words that have changed her. Li Zi’s fate. Li Zi is the only son of his second aunt. He lost his father's love when he was six years old. His second aunt dotes on him in every possible way, which makes him develop some bad habits. Li Zi often makes trouble in class and gets into fights after class, disturbing the whole class. Because of this, the teacher became a frequent visitor to his house, but the second aunt always protected her son. The teacher had no choice but to give up educating him. As a result, Li Zi intensified, often intimidating elementary school students, fighting, and visiting Internet cafes. He became an out-and-out gangster, and even senior students wanted to give him three points. Finally, the teacher felt helpless and handed him over to the school. The principal informed the second aunt to come to school for a talk. When the second aunt learned about Li Zi's bad behavior at school, she was furious and regretted that she should not spoil Li Zi. She immediately vowed to turn Li Zi back to the right path. When the second aunt returned home, she saw Li Zi watching TV with homework piled up on the table. The second aunt was furious when she saw it: "Why are you watching TV without finishing your homework? Why are you so worthless? Ah? What you are doing is purely to make people angry." I look down on you. As the saying goes, you can't win the reputation if you don't make steamed buns. Mom hopes that you can win the reputation and do something big when you grow up. Do you know?" At this time, the second aunt was already crying, and Li Zi replied coldly: "I don't know anything, why should I learn? I won't go to school!" This sentence happened to be heard by my sister who had just entered the door. She stepped forward and slapped her in the face. Li Zi stared at her sister without saying anything, and her sister was so angry that her face was red. Blushing: "You're worthless, do you remember what your father said to you before he was alive?" Li Zi was immediately stunned. Thinking of his deceased father, Li Zi's eye circles turned red. Yes, I once had a happy family. My father protected me and my mother loved me. No one in the world was happier than me.Rebuilding a lost life does not necessarily need to be enlightened by someone who is eloquent. Sometimes just a seemingly ordinary word can bring strength to the other person. Huineng, the Sixth Patriarch of Buddhism, was originally a woodcutter. When he heard the sentence in the Diamond Sutra, "One should have no place to live, his mind will be born." If he had enlightenment, he would seek out a teacher and visit the Tao. In the eighth month of the eighth month, people will be enlightened and see their true nature. Zen Master Danxia was about to go to Beijing to take the exam, but because she heard the saying "it is better to choose a Buddhist than to choose an official", she became a monk and studied Buddhism. She practiced diligently and became the founder of Zen Buddhism. Life is a kind of learning, and everyone will inevitably encounter difficulties and confusion in the process of learning. Giving someone a kind word can make someone's life soar, so why not do it? Therefore, people should always say: first, words to make people happy; second, words to encourage people; third, words to give people affirmation; fourth, words to give people praise. Say more good things and less bad things. A careless word of frivolity can sometimes destroy one's own future, but a word of care for others can give a depressed person the courage to survive. Therefore, people should always check their tongues to avoid ruining good causes and good luck... Laughing at the world: Everyone can speak, but not everyone can speak. Good words are one word, and bad words are also one word. Good words make people happy. , bad words show a lack of self-cultivation. It is rare to hear people change their bad habits because of being scolded, but it is often heard that people change their bad habits and work tirelessly because of a caring word from relatives and friends. (9) I met my good friend Xin at a class reunion. She was in her early forties, with a rosy face, fair and elastic skin, and sparkling eyes. Compared with her six months ago, she was completely different. "Have you had a beauty treatment again? Are you so radiant?" I asked puzzledly. "I found a better way than beauty." Xin smiled secretly and started talking. Xin is a primary school teacher who works diligently and is an excellent educator in the school. My husband is a civil servant and is too busy to take care of his family every day. The only son is in college. She suffered from high blood pressure and heart disease six months ago. Had to stay home on sick leave. From the daily busyness to the sudden leisure, Xin was really relaxed for a while. But it didn't last long, and endless loneliness and loneliness hit her. My husband’s job leaves early and comes back late, and he often travels on business. Xin was alone at home, facing the four walls, and her heart began to feel sour. The outside world is wonderful, but the outside world is helpless. Could her husband be tempted... Xin didn't dare to think about it any further. As soon as her husband returns home, Xin will secretly look through his papers and inquire about his whereabouts. As the days passed, Xinyou's initial complaints became paranoid and even hysterical. The husband sighed and was helpless. When I saw Xin at that time, her face was full of tiredness, her gloomy face was full of sorrow, and she kept criticizing her husband's faults. It seemed that her husband suddenly became the culprit and became his unscrupulous wife. Dai Tian's enemy. Until one day, Xin read a passage from the famous CCTV host Zhang Yue in a book: "A woman should have her own career. If she doesn't have her own career, she should at least have her own affairs; if she doesn't have her own affairs, She will treat her husband as her own business, and something will really happen." Xin asked herself: Isn't this about me? How did you become like this! Where has the confidence gone? How can you put your life on your husband every day? She chewed and thought over and over again, blushing for what she had done these days. As she thought about it, her mind suddenly became brighter. Xin is a resolute person. She ran to the bookstore to return a pile of newspapers and periodicals she liked to read. She was immersed in the words, and her emotions fluctuated with the changes in the characters and stories. The famous writer Keller said: "A book is like a ship, leading us from a narrow place to the infinite ocean of life." , walking to exercise, reading newspapers and periodicals, sometimes trying to write down her own feelings and experiences, and several of them were published in newspapers, which completely aroused her enthusiasm. When the husband returned home, he saw that his wife no longer looked through his messages, and the annoying nagging was gone. His wife couldn't take her eyes off the book and didn't even take a chance to look at him. The husband went from confused to shocked to appreciative. Every time I went on a business trip or had free time, I would carefully bring back a stack of books, which made her happier than giving her a set of clothes.
Xin smiled and said proudly: "I didn't expect that one sentence would touch me so much. So when you see any woman's bitter face and her eyes full of unhappy sorrow, don't sympathize blindly. She is completely Asked for it." Can you think of it? A soothing word is like a dazzling light that can illuminate your soul and even affect your life attitude for a lifetime.