I'm a sophomore now, and I haven't been a cadre in the first half of my freshman year. Now he is the communist youth league secretary and the monitor of junior high school for three years. I've had your problems before. But I'm working well now. I think this may be a question of what you think of this title. If there must be a ranking in the class, the monitor should actually be at the bottom. Being a monitor is not to satisfy your vanity, to "enjoy" the pleasure of being superior to others, but to really serve the students and make them feel that this is a group, very United and warm. So, if you feel very upset, you might as well try to make more friends, care about each other, let go of your so-called identity and be normal. If the relationship is harmonious, your work will not be done. At that time, maybe a gentle smile of yours can play a role that you can't play now no matter how you scream and shout. Always remember that friendship is paramount and collectivity is the most important!
There is another secret: if some people are really difficult to get along with, it is better to communicate with them through friends. It won't be too difficult.
Remember: be sincere!