The famous sayings of Confucian culture are as follows:

First, those who love others will always be loved by others; those who respect others will always be respected by others. ——"Mencius. Li Lou Xia"

In life, people often complain about not being loved or respected by others. In fact, you should not complain about others, but reflect on yourself. Do you sincerely love others? To respect others? Love comes back to those who love you, and blessings come to those who love you. If you truly give your love, you will definitely receive love in return; if not, it means that your sincerity is not enough.

Second, if a worker wants to do his job well, he must first sharpen his tools. ——"The Analects of Confucius. Wei Linggong"

When I was young, I often described myself as "my heart is higher than the sky, and my life is thinner than paper." But now I understand that it is actually because I am unrealistic and too ambitious. You can have dreams, but you can't daydream. You have to work hard during the day and work hard to learn skills, otherwise your dreams will really be in vain.

Third, if you are good, you know its evil, and if you are evil, you know its beauty. ——"University"

Original text: Therefore, those who are good but know their evil, and who are evil but know their beauty are rare in the world! There is an old proverb that goes: "No one knows the evil of his son, nor the strength of his seedling."

The prejudices in our hearts always blind our eyes, making it difficult for us to distinguish right from wrong. Wrong, you cannot look at the problem objectively. Every parent cannot see the shortcomings of their own children, but they can find a lot of faults in other people's children; every farmer feels that other people's crops grow better than their own. Therefore, we should try our best to abandon prejudices, and we should clearly see the shortcomings of the people we like and not be partial; we should also know the advantages of the people we hate and not easily erase them.

Fourth, making mistakes without correcting them is called making mistakes. ——"The Analects of Confucius. Wei Linggong"

"Disciple Rules" says: "If there is no intention of wrong, it is called wrong; if there is intention of wrong, it is called evil; if the fault can be corrected, it will be nothing; if it is covered up, it will be added." Guilty". No one is immune to making mistakes. Making mistakes is not terrible. As long as you have the courage to correct yourself, then you are still good. Put down the butcher knife and become a Buddha immediately. The most fearful thing is that if you know your mistakes and don't correct them, then you are really at fault. If you continue to cover up your mistakes, you will be adding to the mistakes.