This world is neither gentle nor correct, it has too many fakes. The seemingly harmonious family dinner has become a special occasion for relatives to show off in established festivals. A bunch of relatives, under the slogan of "caring about you", urged you to fall in love, urged you to work and asked you about your salary and annual income. What is hidden behind is the superiority of "I am relieved to see that you are not doing well". Parents use "for your own good" as an excuse to ask you to find a suitable object, choose a job they think is stable and take the right path. They just want you to fulfill their expectations and cater to them. They study hard for the recognition of their parents, hold a group for the recognition of the collective, get married and start a family for the pressure of relatives and friends, and still have to run between their children when they are old. When we meet the expectations of others, Nuo Nuo is the only one who studies this kind of life. Naturally, the expectation of others is also generated. From then on, expectations and expectations spread and interweave, spinning into a web, and we are just the appearance driven by them, the so-called fakes.
The same is true of universities. It is false to say anything in order to maintain a love relationship. Although you and I both know that we don't really like each other, no one will expose it. Some college roommates, walking hand in hand, look very harmonious and friendly. In fact, they are tall and short. Tall people only care about striding forward, and short people can barely keep up with the pace. They seem to be harmonious, but in fact they are jealous, fighting for scholarships or opportunities to go abroad. This is fake. Sometimes when you join a group, you always like to talk and laugh with friends in the group, but one day you suddenly quit the group carelessly, and no one cares why you quit. When I think of those friends, I can't wait to talk with my heart when chatting. It's annoying that no one cares about themselves when they quit the group, but looking back, there were some friends who quit the group silently before, and they never asked themselves. In essence, your relationship with them is based on a false peace, a false thing, but you said something that caters to the atmosphere. In fact, from the bottom of my heart, we have never really paid attention to each other.
As graduation approaches, everyone has his own career. Sometimes he is busy with his career for a long time. When he looked back at his classmates, he found that he had gradually distanced himself from them. Is it because he walked too fast or I didn't keep up with them? Do we have to stop and maintain the so-called relationship? Look at whose face, please whom, keep in touch, cater to the topic, and do so much to maintain friendship. That kind of thing is not friendship at all. If such a complicated thing can still be called friendship, then I don't need it at all, because pretending to be happy by this boring communication is only self-satisfaction, just deception, and it is not worth stopping.
The so-called loneliness does not mean population density, but refers to people's spiritual level. Even if others are close to you, if you can't feel that you are the same person, then you are as lonely as me. Maybe I've been in a university full of girls for a long time and met all kinds of girls. Some people didn't notice it when they first came into contact, but when they calm down and think about it carefully, they will feel uncomfortable. In my opinion, it is obvious whether a person does something for a certain purpose or simply does something. Although they all do the same thing, the purpose will make people feel wrong, uncomfortable and uncomfortable, just like getting along with some girls who are watertight, understanding and pretentious. They will feel bored and maintain an unreal and pretentious relationship, which is very boring.
There are often such people in the circle of friends. They endlessly take pictures of all kinds of play, which makes us mistakenly think that their life is full, but in my opinion, it is all false, because what a person needs most in his life is actually ourselves. If a person can only express his feelings by partying and having fun forever, his heart must be empty, because once he calms down, he will feel empty and lonely, and he can only pass it by partying again and again. Therefore, I appreciate people who can be alone, people who can get along with themselves, people who can read books when they are alone and find their own hobbies. This kind of person's heart can be said to be full, because in my opinion, he is a book that I will never finish reading, and it is the kind of book I want.
So, I want something real. The so-called truth may be just an illusion, because there is no eternal happiness in this world, and any relationship will be gradually lost with the passage of time. Even if both sides want to understand, it is impossible to fully understand each other because of the differences in people's hearts. But what I want is not mutual friendship and harmony, but understanding each other's relationship even if I can't understand it. If I want to understand each other with a real desire, I can settle down because of the truth I cherish, even if I can't fully understand it. Maybe this is what I really want.