1. Those who tell you right and wrong must be right and wrong people

Explanation: Don’t think that the person who tells you the right and wrong of others is your friend.

Those who interpret the right and wrong of Taoists, since they say bad things about others in front of you, will naturally say bad things about you in front of others. Their willingness to talk about people's rights and wrongs is the reason for their excessive jealousy. In their hearts, they often want others to become more and more unlucky and embarrassed. Wise people will not tell their true feelings when talking to such people.

2. When you meet someone, you should not say everything in your heart.

Explanation: When communicating with others, don’t say everything. Don’t say everything on your mind. Leave room for yourself and don't give too much to others, as this will make both parties feel tired.

When interpreting life, you need to leave some space for yourself and others. Too close a relationship may make people avoid it. If you tell others too many of your secrets, they will feel embarrassed and exhausted from having to keep your secrets. Integrity does not mean speaking freely and telling everything. On the contrary, integrity also requires mastering skills and propriety. This is actually the basic way of dealing with others.

3. A kind word warms the winter, but a bad word hurts someone in the cold months.

Explanation Many times, a word of sympathy and understanding can give people great comfort and courage, making them feel warm even in the cold winter. And an untimely word is like a sharp sword, stabbing people's fragile hearts. Even in the summer of June, they still feel the severe cold.

Interpretation: Many right and wrong are spoken by mistake. Many times we do not treat each other as people like us, so we say bad words. Equality is really important! Don't use harsh words to hurt others, but don't worry about exposing evil people either.

4. Make money in the bustling city, and settle down in a quiet place

Explanation: You can make a fortune in the busy city, but a quiet place is the best place to settle down.

Interpretation of this sentence means that people must be able to enjoy purity and indifference, so that it can be said to be a sublimated form of life. Money and wealth are all things that are not brought by life and will not be taken away by death. Things outside the body, Don't take it too seriously. People are carefree in the world. They should see themselves clearly and be willing to be indifferent.

5. Others’ viewing of flowers does not involve your eyes. Others are busy and don't touch you.

Interpretation of the colorful world, it’s like not seeing it; being busy, it’s none of your business. Refers to being arrogant and focused on everything.

Interpretation: Think about those people in life who say bad things about you behind your back just because you are well-dressed. But if they have good clothes, they insist on showing off. Shouldn’t you take a look? This sentence?

6. The poor live in the busy city and no one cares about them, while the rich live in the mountains and have distant relatives.

Explanation This statement should be understood by everyone in China today. When you are poor, no one comes to care about you even if you live in a busy city; when you are rich, even if you live in the mountains, distant relatives come to visit you.

Interpretation of this proverb reflects the abnormal phenomenon of pure money relationships between certain people in society: intimacy or lack of intimacy is completely determined by the amount or lack of money. This phenomenon should be changed.

7. Don’t ask about the prosperous and prosperous things at the beginning. You will know by looking at the face.

After visiting someone’s home, you don’t need to inquire about the prosperity and decline of the owner’s family business. By observing the owner’s home, You can tell by the appearance.

Interpreting this sentence is not to teach people to learn fortune-telling skills, nor is it said by a fortune-teller, but to teach us to observe words and emotions. The implication is that when choosing a topic, don’t talk nonsense. Especially talking about family business can easily embarrass both parties and should be avoided as much as possible.

The appearance here refers to, first, the appearance of the home and living room, including furniture, furnishings, clothing, utensils, neatness, elegance, etc.; second, the appearance of the owner and the atmosphere of the home, including the owner and his/her family. The complexion, tone, attitude, etc. of family members and even servants.

8. Sharpening a knife is not good, and a sharp knife hurts one's fingers. Seeking wealth does not bring much hatred, but having too much wealth harms the son of man.

Explanation: When sharpening a knife, you are afraid that it will not be sharp. A knife that is too sharp will easily hurt your fingers; when you are pursuing wealth, you are afraid of not having much wealth. If you have too much wealth, you will easily be burdened by it.

Interpreting this wise sentence enlightens us to understand the root cause and do everything in moderation, not to harm the body because of profit, and not to burden the heart because of wealth. Sharpening a knife is a small thing in daily life, and it contains great principles. The sharper the knife, the better. A razor cannot chop bones. A dull knife can chop bones.

You need to be extra careful when using a knife that is too sharp, as it can easily hurt your hands. The same goes for swords and people. People who are too slick and hypocritical may seem to get things done, but poor management will bring trouble and cause chaos to the unit.

9. Refreshing food tends to make you sick, and too much pleasure may lead to disaster

Explanation: Eating too much delicious food will make you sick, and overdoing happy things may lead to disaster. .

10. Sit quietly and think about your own mistakes, and don’t talk about others’ mistakes in small talk

Explanation: When you calm down, you should always reflect on your own mistakes, and then use right to overcome wrong and do good to eliminate evil; Don't talk about other people's rights and wrongs at all times.

Interpretation Although, it is difficult to be a good person. But when people live, they avoid right and wrong, which leads to a high state. When you hear someone talking about the rights and wrongs of people, it's best to stay silent or make excuses to avoid them. Try to avoid talking about other people's rights and wrongs behind their backs, and try to avoid unnecessary trouble caused by right and wrong issues.

11. Planting flowers intentionally does not bloom, but unintentionally inserts willows to provide shade.

Explanation: Planting flowers carefully, doing a lot of fertilizing, irrigating, etc., but the flowers never bloom. In the end, it withered; but a randomly broken willow branch was inserted into the ground, and it was never taken care of. After a few years, it became a lush willow tree.

The interpretation uses the habits of nature to describe something that you want to do. You spent a lot of energy and made a lot of efforts, but the result was not as expected; unexpected things, on the contrary, went smoothly. Get good results.

In the words of , it means letting nature take its course and not forcing anything. It can also be seen from the side that the willow tree has extremely strong vitality. This is the look of a person with ambition, a connotation of lofty ambition!

12. No one talks behind someone’s back, and no one talks in front of that person

Explanation: Everyone knows what’s behind their backs Some people say that everyone talks about others behind their backs.

Interpretation: It is a very common thing to talk about others and to be talked about by others. When it comes to other people's comments about you, you should have an attitude of "change it if you have it, and encourage it if you don't have it", and don't care too much about it. Be generous. Don't get angry when you hear others talking about you behind your back. Think about it, don't you often talk about others behind your back?

13. There are straight trees in the mountains, but there are no straight people in the world

Explanation: There are many straight trees in the world, but there are absolutely no upright people or people without scheming.

Interpretation: A true straight person will never be proud of being outspoken and insulting people in person. It is just a kind of self-praise, which has many disadvantages and no advantage. In the end, he only ends up with a bruised nose and swollen eyes, and is classified as An unwelcome nuisance. No one wants to be that kind of person, and never expect to be that kind of person. That is outright naive, not the innocence you think.

14. Raising a son without education is like raising a donkey, and raising a daughter without education is like raising a pig.

Explanation: Raising a son without education is like raising a donkey; raising a daughter without education is like raising a pig.

Interpretation of "It is the fault of the father to raise children or not to educate them." Most parents today are not clear about their responsibilities and think that it is the school's business. They do not know that the main responsibility of the school is to spread knowledge, but the main responsibility of how to behave and how to develop noble moral character is the family. How can one be a parent if one is born without nourishment?

15. If the water is too clear, there will be no fish, and if the person is too observant, there will be no plan.

Explanation: The environment for fish is that the water should not be too clear, so that there is nowhere to hide; if the person is too shrewd and too observant, the environment for fish If there is no wisdom, there will be no wisdom;

Interpretation: In real society, if a person is too smart, he cannot tolerate others, and he will have no partners or friends. Because a smart person often cannot tolerate his faults or differences, which means that you should leave room for others and don't be too persistent and paranoid, otherwise you will lose your heart.

16. They were brothers when they were young, but they grew up in different villages.

Explanation: They were together in the past, but they went their separate ways when they grew up.

Interpretation Days pass day by day, flowers bloom and fall, and the past slapstick and play are sealed in memory. As they grow up, their original lives have also changed. Maybe we went to school in different places, worked in different places, and settled in different places. No matter how far the distance is, as long as you have a brother in your heart and miss him often, the love of brotherhood will never change.

17. Right and wrong exist all the time. If you don’t listen, there will be nothing.

Interpretation: This is a wise saying that teaches people to deal with rumors correctly and improve personal cultivation. In fact, wherever there are people, there will be right and wrong. Where there are people who believe in "right and wrong", there will be room for those who stir up trouble.

In "Liao Zhai", it is written that a pair of friends who were originally very good friends turned against each other because they believed the words of the talkative woman. Their wives were separated and their families were destroyed. Therefore, rather than saying that "right and wrong" are fabricated or fabricated by people, it is better to say that they are "believed" by people.

The disadvantage of believing in "right and wrong" is that for ordinary people, it not only creates resentment, increases troubles, affects people, but also damages people. The advantage of not listening to "right and wrong" is that your ears are clear and your mood is comfortable.

18. It is better to take the straight course than to seek the truth

Explanation: It is better to be right but not enough, not to be wrong and have more than enough, and act in an upright and upright manner.

Interpretation of the current description: Love money and get it in a proper way. It is better to work hard on the right side than to take the crooked way and use crooked thinking. This is an allusion in "The Romance of the Gods". King Wen of Zhou Dynasty was a little puzzled when he saw Jiang Ziya hooking up by the Weishui River. He asked Jiang Ziya why he did this. Jiang Ziya said, "I would rather take it from the straight line than ask for it from the song.", which means. That is to say, "It is better to be righteous than lacking, not to be evil and have more than enough. Everything must be done openly and openly."

19. You will know the nature of fish when you are near the water, and you will know the sounds of birds when you are near the mountains.

Interpretation: If you live by the water and often interact with fish, you will be familiar with the character of fish. Similarly, if you live by In the mountains, you can often hear the calls of birds, so you can understand the calls of different birds.

Interpretation of this sentence tells people that practice makes true knowledge and practice makes perfect. One is to focus. To do what you do and love what you do, it is not easy to do simple things to the extreme, and it is not ordinary to do ordinary things to the best.

As the saying goes: "Three hundred and sixty years of practice will lead to number one." As long as you are focused, serious and dedicated, you can achieve extraordinary results no matter what position you are in.

20. A true gentleman is a man who does not talk nonsense when drinking, and a man who is clear about money

Interpretation: A true gentleman is a man who drinks without talking nonsense, and a man who is clear about money is a true man. man.

Interpretation In real life, some people get drunk when they see alcohol. When they are drunk, they talk nonsense and make trouble come out of their mouths. Therefore, avoid interacting with such people. There are also some people who are blinded by their own interests and forget their loyalty when they see benefits. They love to take advantage of others and never suffer losses in the process of cooperation with others. On the surface, this seems to be a profit, but in fact it is a loss, because there will be fewer and fewer partners, and without partners, there will be no business.