The earliest story of "forgive others" is about playing chess. According to legend, during the Warring States period, there was a chess player named "Yang Suishan". When playing chess with others, he always leaves some opportunities for his opponent so that he will not be defeated. Someone asked him why he did this, and he replied, "Be lenient with others." This sentence became a famous saying handed down later, expressing the idea of tolerance and forbearance.

The full text of the poem Jueju Bad Ke Zhen Miao Tong Shen written by Cai Yuanli, a poet in the Song Dynasty, is as follows: Bad Ke Zhen Miao Tong Shen had several spring outings. Out of the hole, you have to forgive others, forgive others.

Appreciate:

The author of this poem is a chess player in the Song Dynasty. This poem tells that he has never met an opponent in chess since he came out of the mountain. Therefore, whenever he plays chess with others, he always leaves some money for others. The chess player's theory also applies today. People who are better than others in all aspects, in interpersonal communication, often have to take the initiative to lower their posture and not appear superior, so that others will be more willing to associate with you and win the sincere favor of others.