Pregnancy and childbirth may be the most painful and happiest thing in a woman's life. The pain comes from having to bear the pain of being pregnant for ten months and the hard work of raising children. And happiness is the satisfaction and happiness of giving birth to life and becoming a mother.

At the same time, after giving birth to children, the relationship between husband and wife will be more sublimated, because with the crystallization of love, even if it is not for oneself, but only for the sake of the children, they still want to live a good life and be harmonious as husband and wife.

However, sometimes, when a woman suddenly discovers she is pregnant, what she gets is not a surprise, but a shock.

Chen Qi's family is in the countryside. After graduating from college, he wanted to settle in the city, so he hoped to find a boyfriend in the city. Gao Han's pursuit made Chen Qi feel like his dream had come true. Gao Han was A true urbanite, tall and well-paid, Chen Qi quickly decided to date Gao Han.

As the saying goes, a man chases a woman across the mountain, and a woman chases a man across the sea. Chen Qi changed from being passive to being proactive in love, and actively worked towards marriage. Therefore, the relationship between the two quickly heated up, and in less than half a year The two registered their marriage and became husband and wife.

But after getting married, Gao Han still couldn't get rid of his lustful habits. He couldn't walk when he saw beautiful girls. He played with different women until midnight every day before going home. This made Chen Qi very troubled. But there was nothing he could do. It wasn't until he caught Gao Han in bed and raped him on the spot that he became completely disappointed with the marriage.

Chen Qi filed for divorce, and Gao Han agreed without too much entanglement. After dividing the couple's property, the two decided to get the divorce certificate. The night before getting the divorce certificate, Gao Han also took advantage of the fact that there was still a couple. In the name of Chen Qi, he began to take advantage of Chen Qi, and they still had a relationship with him half-heartedly.

After the divorce, Chen Qi met Xu Bin under the introduction of a friend. Xu Bin also came from the countryside and established himself in the city through his own efforts. He was usually honest and capable. Although he was also divorced once, This time it particularly suited Chen Qi's eyes, so they soon became boyfriend and girlfriend, and then lived together.

Two months later, Chen Qi suddenly found out that she was pregnant. Xu Bin was very happy when he heard that, and immediately told his family to start planning for the marriage.

However, according to the doctor's information, the pregnancy time can be estimated to the night with her ex-husband, so Chen Qi was a little confused whether the child was her ex-husband's or Xu Bin's.

As for Xu Bin, who was full of joy and actively preparing to get married, Chen Qi couldn't open his mouth, so he entered a dilemma.

In fact, in the final analysis, it is the things that Mrs. Chen Qi no longer loves that makes her so difficult to make a choice now.

Because now that you have decided to divorce your ex-husband, you should not have anything to do with him anymore. Even though they were still called husband and wife at that time, the relationship between husband and wife has long since ceased. Still having sex before getting the divorce certificate counts? What, this is behavior without self-respect, self-love, and self-examination.

After getting pregnant, I don’t know who the child is. I think this is really the greatest sorrow for a woman. This is not only sorry for Xu Bin, who loves her, but also sorry for herself. A woman like her simply cannot She is not worthy of love, because she is too sentimental, only looking for temporary comfort and refreshment, but not thinking about the future.

The dilemma in Chen Qi's mind is just whether to tell Xu Bin or not. To be honest, the good relationship may be gone. And if he doesn't tell, the child is really not Xu Bin's. , then the future will not be able to contain the fire, and sooner or later there will be a bigger volcanic eruption.

So the answer is obvious. Lies require countless lies to make up for it, but they can never be made up for. Although the truth may cause a lot of trouble, it can make people have no worries.

So instead of being troubled by worries all his life, Chen Qi should tell the truth and tell Xu Bin the truth. This is what true love should do, and if Xu Bin really loves Chen Qi, He should be able to understand what Chen Qi meant when he told him the truth, and he should also understand her.

There are only two outcomes. If you can't accept it, then break up. If you accept it, there are two types. Check whether the child is Xu Bin's. If everyone is happy, if not, you can keep it or abort it. It all depends. Their decision.

In fact, there are no white lies or bad truths in life. A lie is a lie. Even if it doesn't cause you any trouble now, it will definitely return in the future, causing even greater pain.

The truth may cause you pain now, but in the future it will allow you to live an upright life without suffering.

Japanese writer Osamu Dazai has a famous saying: "As a human being, I am sorry."

So as a human being, you should not be a sorry person, but a magnanimous person. People, real people, upright people, must also know how to respect and respect each other, just like the ocean shouting when it greets the storm, fearless, in order to live out the meaning of being a human being.

"Let the storm come more violently!"