And it is easier for a man to master the method of loving a woman, be able to better understand a woman, know what she wants, and will not do the wrong thing to make a woman sad. Appropriate rejection is conducive to better relationship building. A woman with self-esteem is full of charm. If a man is rejected, it will stimulate a stronger "desire to conquer". Being in a state of "competition" with women all the time makes it easier to form an emotional balance. Men pay attention to feelings. If a woman is too well-behaved, a man will think that women will accept whatever decision he makes, so he will not care. Perhaps in his heart, he didn't feel even a trace of guilt for having hurt her. 5. Conclusion Gu Cheng said: "The night gives women a pair of black eyes, and women are destined to use them to conquer men." The development and management of love do not rely on obedience and obedience. Women must be courageous and don’t wait for men to say they love you, and then accept it happily. If love is too plain, it will come and go quickly. If you keep following a man and obeying him, the man will divert his attention. Women should have their own principles and bottom lines, and don’t just give. The more "untouchable" a woman is, the easier it is for her to get a man's true love. A woman who is "not easy to mess with" lives with principles and attitude. Have your own personality and learn to say "no" to men. A woman wants to live in a man's heart for a long time and not be a virtuous and well-behaved woman. Woman, if you want a man to love you to the core, you have to keep him guessing. Only in this way, you will keep pursuing it out of curiosity, fall in love deeper and deeper, and you can't help yourself. Being a "not easy to mess with" woman, boldly pursuing what you want, and being able to follow your own path is a process that is full of charm in itself. Men will respect women who have dreams and pursuits, and the two of them will grow together, making their relationship deeper and deeper. Men say a woman is not easy to mess with 2 Relationships are a game of chasing each other, and men often act as predators. In this chase, it is undeniable that the cute little white rabbit seems to be more favored by the hunter, but this only shows that as a hunter, a man will give priority to prey that is easy to get. However, in relationships, a well-behaved and lovely woman can certainly make a man fall in love, but sometimes a woman is too sensible and becomes the loser in love. "Sensible" is not a good thing for women, because being sensible means that women must handle everything well. Whether it is housework or emotional disputes, even when faced with a man's obvious dislike or even betrayal, he blames everything on his own failure to do his job, and is as humble as the dust on the soles of his feet in relationships. Women must understand that no man will give his full sincerity to a low-cost relationship. Therefore, in love, being willful is a woman's prerogative. Only by being a "not easy to mess with" woman can you protect yourself well in relationships. Many women will actively put themselves in a lower position than men. I feel that if I want a man to love me all the time, I have to accommodate him more and pay more for him. Of course, I can’t say that women who do this are stupid, because every woman has her own way of dealing with love. However, I do not agree with this attitude of women. When dealing with men, women should never be weak. Sometimes, if they are stronger and "not easy to mess with", they can get the sincerity of men. So women, in love, be a "not easy to mess with" woman, and men will love you to the core. Learn to reject a man, and he will know how to cherish you. Whether in friendship or love, learning to reject is a required course for women. Because learning to reject other people's unreasonable demands not only protects yourself, but also tells others that you are a thoughtful and independent individual. Saying "no" may make many women feel embarrassed. Many women are afraid that this kind of behavior will leave a "not easy to mess with" impression on men. But women, only if you learn to say no, will a man spend time on you and hope to be liked by you when he is with you. Sometimes being too easy to satisfy, or too submissive, will make a man ignore your needs. Be a "not easy to mess with" woman and learn to reject men, and men will love you to the core.Be moderately willful, and men will not take your efforts for granted. "Willful" does not sound like a compliment, but in love, a woman who can be willful must be happy and loved. Women, don’t pamper men too much. That will make men think that everything you do is taken for granted. A moderate temper will make a man feel that he is needed by you, and it will also make a man feel that you care about him. So women, don’t act too “sensible” in a relationship. You need to let a man understand that you can choose to pay or not to pay. The only reason for you to pay is because you love him, so he should cherish you instead of treating your giving as a trivial matter. Only by paying attention can you get the rewards you want. No one is only willing to pay but not willing to receive rewards. Therefore, women must care about their own efforts in relationships, and let men always remember that maintaining a relationship requires the same efforts from both people. You have to know that this relationship needs to be maintained by him and you. Relying solely on your wishful thinking, your relationship will eventually break down. Women may feel that often talking about their efforts means that they are careless. However, a man who truly loves you will feel sorry for your efforts and will find ways to give you more. The kind of man who is impatient with your confession no longer loves you that much. ?Perhaps to many people, willfulness, calculation and rejection mean that a woman is not so easy to mess with. But in the game of love, being able to be willful proves that a woman is loved, being able to refuse means that the relationship is equal, and knowing how to care means that the woman is not in the relationship and is relatively rational. Therefore, there is nothing wrong with being a "not easy to mess with" woman in a relationship. Sometimes, the harder a woman is to mess with, the more men will fall in love with her.