I want to say that if I meet Fan Sheng's American mother. That's really not well, that's the unjust creditor who chased his life in his last life!
What's terrible is that Fan Sheng's American mothers are by no means a few. They lurk in most bottom families. What's even more terrible is that because of their daughter's resignation, they will never realize their own problems and remain ignorant and vicious all their lives. Fan Shengmei's own conditions are not bad, she is smart enough and hard-working. However, because she can't get rid of family of origin's influence and shackles, she has struggled to crawl under the shadow of class and wealth all her life, and she can't adapt herself.
Did the class solidification lead to the tragedy of girls like Fan Shengmei? No, in any social environment, there are people who get ahead by their own abilities at any time. The root cause of her tragedy is that greedy, selfish and mired family of origin, whose endless exploitation and oppression will make her unable to work hard.
But she is a good daughter of Chinese style, and under the pressure of family and ethics, she dare not break with them completely. Fan Shengmei finally decided to stay with Wang Baichuan. He is not so rich, but they have real feelings! This is a happy result, but Wang Baichuan's mother objected and hit the nail on the head.
Like Fan Shengmei, there is a father who has been ill in bed all the year round, a mother who is extremely patriarchal, a pair of wonderful brothers and sisters who only know how to take, and a nephew who is starving. It is clear that Fan Shengmei needs to get married to improve his family's situation. And her family is not good.
such a family full of incurable diseases is not a family that loves mountains and mountains, harmony between heaven and earth, wealth and no concern for money. Who care to provoke it easily? I have my family and friends to run, too, okay? On the other hand, how can a real giant easily take a fancy to Fan Shengmei's birth and family background? Nothing else for you, at least for your family's innocence! Can you blame Wang Baichuan's mother for being realistic? No, she's telling the truth. I still very much agree with Jane Austen's theory of marriage and love, and I must be suitable for each other. It's really good advice, wisdom.