The tree wants to keep quiet, but the wind will not stop; My son wants to serve his parents when they are old, but they are gone. Who said that? Is it a famous saying that has been passed down for thousands of years? The tree wants to be quiet, but the wind doesn't stop. It comes from Han Shu Han Ying Shi Zhuan.

During the Spring and Autumn Period, Confucius was traveling abroad with his disciples when he suddenly heard a cry by the roadside. He stopped to ask why. The weeping man said, "When I was young, I was eager to learn and studied abroad. When I came back, my parents died. When I was a child, I was not there when I used to serve my parents, just like' the tree wants to be quiet but the wind will not stop'; Today, I want to support my parents. My relatives are not here. The deceased is gone, and his feelings are unforgettable, so he feels sad and cries. "