The phrase "marry a lover first" has no origin and has been handed down from ancient times.

The ancients thought that we should get married first, but with the increasingly fierce competition in social development, the concept of a new generation of young people has gradually changed, and more and more people think that we should get married first.

In fact, there is no order between marriage and entrepreneurship: "When you meet a good person, get married first; If you don't meet a good person, start your own business first; If you don't meet a noble person, learn from yourself first. "

A "lover" has the following conditions:

1, the three views are consistent and love each other.

The agreement of two people's three views means that you have more common topics, your attitude towards things will not be too biased, you will not quarrel everywhere in your life, you will get along easily and have more happy time.

2. Good qualities of kindness, respect and filial piety to elders.

As the saying goes: "Behind a successful man, there must be an excellent woman who can push him at a critical time."

Whether a good woman and a family prosper or not plays a key role. Women play most roles in family life. If a woman knows how to measure, respect and honor, then the family is absolutely harmonious and everything goes well.

3. Unique, but not opinionated

Unique does not mean demanding, understanding tolerance, accepting each other's imperfections and accepting the imperfections in life; Know how to accept and respect, know how to seek common ground while reserving differences, and not be stubborn; Knowing what you mean between the lines and what you want to say will make it particularly easy to get along.

4. Being generous and decent, knowing the world is not sophisticated.

Generous and decent means knowing "square" and "circle"; Being ignorant of the world means keeping a clean and honest life in debauchery, debauchery and drunkenness, keeping elegance in a busy life, distinguishing right from wrong in the world and being kind to others.

5. Good vision, cognition and pattern.

People with the same energy can promote each other better.