1. Just once in your life, let’s fall in love with the purpose of getting married. No longer refuse to bow because of willfulness.

2. Don’t break up easily because of stubbornness. Believe in it for the last time and keep walking until you grow old. Just staying together like that, in the fleeting years of coming and going, the years are peaceful. I only hope that in this life, I can hold my son’s hand and grow old together with him!

3. We should not envy the happiness that others have. What you think you don't have may be on the way here, and what you think she has may be on the way there... Some people are good to you because you are good to them. Some people are nice to you because they understand your kindness!

4. What is happiness? Happiness is holding a pair of hands that you want to hold, walking through the bustle and hustle and bustle together, and waiting for loneliness together; it is companionship With someone you want to accompany, laugh together when you are happy, and cry together when you are sad; that is, having a heart that you want to have, repeating boring days is not boring, doing the same things is not boring...as long as we have a heart that we want to have With love, we will be happy, and happiness lies in the original promise and in the future dreams!

5. We never sing patriotic tunes. Not only do I not sing, I also don’t like to listen. But we are unwilling to run away, unwilling to go to the country of our parents, and cannot leave our own family behind. Our country is a weak country with a lot of national humiliation. We don’t want to go out and look up to others and become second-class citizens. We are cultural people who love the culture of the motherland and the words and language of the motherland. In a word, we are stubborn Chinese people.

6. After a person undergoes different levels of exercise, he will obtain different levels of cultivation and different levels of benefits. Just like spices, the more you pound them, the finer they are ground, the stronger the fragrance becomes.

7. On the road of life, if you focus on pursuing fame, wealth, power and status, you will have no time to consider other things.

8. Reputation may be useful to you while you are alive, but it can only be used by others after you die.

9. I will not argue with anyone, and I will disdain anyone. I love nature, followed by art. I keep myself warm by the fire of life. When the fire dries up, I am ready to leave.

10. Young people are playful, young people are obsessed with love, young people are obsessed with becoming famous and having a family, and old people are content with deceiving themselves and others. How long is a life span? How much gold can be made from stubborn iron? But different levels of exercise will lead to different levels of achievements; different levels of indulgence will inevitably accumulate different levels of stubbornness.

11. Human beings do not rely on God’s teachings. Human beings have spiritual conscience in their nature. Under the guidance of spiritual conscience, everyone has higher than material requirements.

12. Although people are small and life is short, people can learn, cultivate themselves, and improve themselves. The value of human beings lies in the human beings themselves.

13. God will not allow all happiness to be concentrated on one person. Getting love does not necessarily mean having money; having money does not necessarily mean getting happiness; getting happiness does not necessarily mean having health; having health does not necessarily mean everything will go as you wish. Maintaining a contented and happy attitude is the best way to refine the mind and purify the soul. All happy enjoyment belongs to the spirit. This kind of happiness turns endurance into enjoyment. It is the victory of the spirit over the material. This is the philosophy of life.

14. I am an old man and I only talk about old things. Regarding the times, I am a laggard and have no good words to contribute to modern marriage. It's just that in the era of material supremacy, I would like to remind young friends that the most important thing in the union between a man and a woman is the relationship and the degree of mutual understanding between the two parties. Only with deep understanding can we appreciate, attract, support and encourage each other, and we can be happy with each other. It doesn't matter whether you are a good match or anything else.

15. I am one hundred years old this year and have reached the edge of my life. I am not sure how far I can go forward. Life span is involuntary, but I know very well that I will "go home" soon. . I have to wash away the filth stained by this century and go home. I don't have the feeling of "climbing Mount Tai and minimizing the world". I just live a peaceful life in my own little world.

16. Ordinary people’s faith may come and go, or it may disappear as time goes by, or it may become doubtful if requests are not answered. This is normal for ordinary people. Without training, confidence will not be firm.

17. Reading is like visiting a house "invisibly". You want to see an admired teacher or pay a visit to a famous scholar. You don't have to say hello in advance, and you are not afraid of disturbing the host. You open the book and rush in through the door and turn a few pages. Just enter the room, and you can go often and at all times. If you can't get the point, you can leave without saying goodbye, or hire someone else to confront it.

18. A person always looks up to and envies the happiness of others, but finds that he is being looked up to and envied by others. The mountain of happiness has no top or head. Don't stand by and envy others' happiness. In fact, happiness is always by your side. As long as you still have life and hands that can create miracles, you have no reason to be a passer-by or a bystander, let alone complain about life. Have you found happiness?

19. Don’t forget what you once had; cherish what you have obtained more; don’t give up what belongs to you; keep what you have lost as memories. When you are tired, put your heart on the shore; don’t regret the choice; only when you are suffering can you know how to be satisfied, and only when you are in pain can you enjoy life

20. Only when you are hurt can you understand how to be strong; there are always windy mornings, there are always Gorgeous dusk, there are always nights with shooting stars; no matter yesterday, today or tomorrow, it is a beautiful day to suddenly see the light...

21. If each other had appeared earlier, maybe we would not be together. The other man clasped his fingers. Or maybe they met a little later, so late that the two people slowly learned tolerance and consideration, kindness and compromise in their respective love experiences. Maybe when they came together, they wouldn't give up so easily and turn around willfully. Let go of love. There is no one step too early or one step too late. That is such a rare fate.

22. Men are naturally passionate, but they will always be in love with a certain person. A woman is naturally devoted, but she will be ruthless to a certain person. When a man is with someone he likes, he still has one or more of her in his heart. Because he is passionate. When a woman is with the person she likes, all she thinks about is him. Even if a better man comes along, she won't give up. Because of her dedication. And when she decided to give up everything there was no room left. Because she is ruthless!

23. "Before I met her, I never wanted to get married; after marrying her, I never regretted marrying her." The lifelong love between Qian Zhongshu and Yang Jiang The first time I met Zhongshu It was March 1932. He was wearing a green cloth coat, fur-soled cloth shoes, a pair of old-fashioned glasses, and his eyebrows were deep and beautiful. After the meeting, Lao Qian began to write me letters and asked me to meet at the Gongzi Hall. When we met, his first sentence was: "I'm not engaged." And I replied nervously: "I don't have a boyfriend either." So we started to correspond, writing more and more frequently, one letter a day, so that he I went home during the holidays. I felt uncomfortable for a long time. Calm down and feel bad, this is fall in love. ——Yang Jiang