Five major conflicts in family education:

1. Conflict of expectations - excessive expectations bring hopelessness to children;

2. Conflict of protection ——Excessive protection brings about incompetence in children;

3. Conflict of love——Excessive doting brings about ruthlessness in children;

4. Conflict in communication—— Too much interference will make children feel helpless;

5. Conflict of evaluation - too much criticism will make children feel helpless.

Seven tips for mitigating conflicts:

1. Be blind and become sober - only by giving up can you gain;

2. Become people-oriented from dividing the points. —Growth is more important than scores;

3. The director becomes the audience—let go when it’s time;

4. Giving love becomes receiving love—care about the love of children;

5. Nagging becomes advice – useful advice;

6. Sameness becomes different – ??cheer for the child;

7. Confrontation becomes dialogue – don’t talk to Children "compete".

Seven needs for spiritual growth:

1. "Raise your head!" - Spiritual growth requires dignity;

2. "I listen to you ”——Spiritual growth requires catharsis;

3. “Child, you are awesome”——Spiritual growth needs affirmation;

4. “Fall down, get up”——Spirit Growth requires setbacks;

5. "Your fantastic ideas are really good" - spiritual growth requires freedom;

6. "I have forgiven you" - spiritual growth requires Tolerance;

7. "Let your dreams fly" - spiritual growth requires dreams.

Eight ways to love your children:

1. Enlarge the highlights - discover the children with the eyes of love;

2. Encourage in time - use Encouragement of love mobilizes children;

3. Someone loves me - nourish the child with the feeling of love;

4. Example is better than words - influence the child with loving actions;

5. Do not spoil the child - reject the child on the grounds of love;

6. You must suffer for yourself - punish the child with the responsibility of love;

7. Independence must be independent - temper children with the will of love;

8. Love cannot be forgotten - repay children with the passion of love.

6 mottos for making children happy and successful:

1. "Great", changing your mood changes the world;

2. "I can "Okay", changing your attitude will change your destiny;

3. "I help you", changing your emotions will change your life;

4. "You are awesome", changing your perspective will Changed the relationship